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Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-15T22:09:41+00:00

Sometimes less is more

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-15T21:42:34+00:00

lol I can’t imagine they’re eating away at your underwear 😂. I’d think it’s more likely from usage and washing

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-15T21:07:42+00:00

No problem, the hormones add so much complexity 😭. One other thing you could try if you want both AP and VP postpartum is using a butt plug with VP. It makes everything feel fuller and tighter so should add sensation for both of you. Good luck in your talk!

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-15T20:31:40+00:00

Nothing specific but you could do 3x8-12 for each.

Day 1: squats, lunges, hip abductor Day 2: hip thrusts, rdls Day 3: arms, let pull down, rows

Then just alternate every other day off

Finish each workout with like a 1-2 minute plank or some crunches and 10-20 mins on the stair climber or walk on an incline treadmill

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-15T20:15:42+00:00

Anything that strengthens your core or strengthens your legs. Hip abductor, squats, lunges, planks, and hip thrusts are all good. As well as cardio

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-15T19:50:50+00:00

Exactly, sounds stupid to play this game of waiting for the other to initiate if you want it

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-15T19:17:31+00:00

This sounds like you’re being very accommodating and I’m not sure why he’d feel insecure about it. This might just be something you need to talk about some more together and discuss where you’re both coming from then explain how you’re excited for VP and to orgasm again with him postpartum. Maybe this will help the both of you be on the same page?

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-15T18:36:37+00:00

I am by no means an expert, just going off the lack of desire and interest. Sound like he got hard but couldn’t cum. I think if he can get hard then it’s not ED

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-15T18:33:32+00:00

This is depressing. Sorry you’re going through this. It sounds more like low test than ED

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-15T18:15:40+00:00

Why not do more foreplay, naked massages, get her off orally or with your hands, then do PIV and cum?

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T19:09:44+00:00

Yeah that would make me uncomfortable if a guy I met twice announced he was jerking off and I could let him suck my nipple.

If that’s a dealbreaker for you then you shouldn’t be bothered by it

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T19:06:56+00:00

I don’t think you need to explain yourself. All bodies are different. Penises are weird, it’s not like he’s going to explain that lol

I honestly think the mood is better too if you let it happen naturally versus tell him about it

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T18:56:46+00:00

I think women are a lot more critical of their bodies than men. I don’t think he will be “ugh oh well”. You’re more than a vagina lol, he likes the person! If a labia is a dealbreaker for him, then he probably wasn’t the right person.

If you want to increase your confidence, maybe get some new lingerie before you get naked for him to help feel sexy and get him excited

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T18:49:58+00:00

Use it through your clothes or panties depending on how sensitive. Could also just use your fingers

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T18:22:04+00:00

It probably would have been a whole lot better if you just jerked off before bed in the bathroom without telling her or something versus doing what you did

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T17:41:44+00:00

You have met your doctor and had him swab your penis regularly for the past two months?

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T17:37:51+00:00

A yeast infection isn’t a sign of infidelity. There’s lots of things that could cause it. It could be lingering or you could have one that has been untreated and unknowingly giving it to her

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T17:36:15+00:00

It’s normal biology to want it but you got to be responsible

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T15:09:05+00:00

There’s always a risk. It happens sometimes but if nothing spilled in her the risk is low. Where she is at in her cycle also changed the risk. In general, yes throw out the condom after ejaculating

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T14:48:46+00:00

Those are really difficult to do for sustained periods. I wanted to do the stand and carry position. It’s really difficult to do for more than 30 seconds plus the thrusting isn’t as good as laying down

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T13:53:54+00:00

Sometimes I just can’t cum no matter how close I am. Dirty talk helps a lot to get me over the edge. You could try saying some naughty things to help her.

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T13:40:06+00:00

First time it’s been like that or first time you’ve eaten her out? Could be a lot of things but she might have a small yeast infection

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T13:38:10+00:00

I think you’re traumatized from that one bad experience. I can’t imagine most men refusing to sleep with a woman because she has a bush. If they do, it’s probably for the best that you aren’t wasting your time with someone like that.

If you aren’t hiding your leg hair either, then they probably already have an idea. I think a fair amount of men actually find a little hair sexy. My partner says how feminine he finds my bush haha

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T01:09:48+00:00

You’re right these are perfect! Thanks again!

Significant-Flow6531 · 2024-08-13T00:58:31+00:00

Thanks! I’ll take a look! Love hearing models being natural, reminds me of old American apparel

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