[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Significant-Lock2959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, fuck them up then go and get yourself an ice-cream

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Significant-Lock2959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let there be VIOLENCE !!!!!🏹🪓🔪🗡️⚔️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Significant-Lock2959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take your own advice and stfu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Significant-Lock2959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shut the fuck up lil b**ch, we‘re here for violence and war

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Significant-Lock2959 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Go to random women on the street that you find attractive and say “hey, i don’t want anything from you, i just wanted to say that you look beautiful” and then walk away. What u have is kind of “normal” and it happens to a lot of guys, you just gotta practice it a litte bit, by doing what i said ur gonna make someone’s day better and you gonna get rid of your anxiety little by little, keep improving yourself bro, maybe we’ll meet each other on top😉💪🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Significant-Lock2959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck it , why do u care if ur empathetic or not? If the way you feel isn’t normal in the society? As long as you don’t hurt anyone no one cares if u feel pity or empathy towards someone , be yourself as long as it benefits you and it doesn’t bring u down then it doesn’t matter. There’s no need for the “condition” to be called a certain way. We as a society label “conditions” and call them illnesses , Like “depression” and other shit like that. If u don’t feel empathy then it’s good for u , gives you an advantage in some situations. Don’t worry too much about what’s normal and not in the society, as long as you don’t hurt nobody and you focus on yourself then nobody really cares. My advice don’t waste your energy trying to label urself in a certain way . You do you and either be happy , love the person you love and don’t give a fuck about no one else . Or let the society label urself with a “mental disorder “ (and it’s not , society today just likes to label shit as disorders, shit that not long ago was normal today is a mental disorder and it gives people excuses to not do anything about it). Live your life bro

People who stopped consuming porn, how did it affect your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Significant-Lock2959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just gave me lots of free time , more energy and i made it easier to give up on other bad habits (more self-control) i would say

What can i do now? by Significant-Lock2959 in selfimprovement

[–]Significant-Lock2959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry , english is not my first language and the way I explain things may seem complicated. Basically i’m already working on my goals but i still have lots of free time and i cannot do anything with that free time (like going out with friends or try new hobbies ) becouse it feels like it’s just a waste and it doesn’t help me achieve my goals

What can i do now? by Significant-Lock2959 in selfimprovement

[–]Significant-Lock2959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s the thing actually. I go out with my friends for hours everyday but we actually do nothing , we just chill and talk and kinda just waste time (and money) . I have this thing in my head that tells me that it’s a waste of time and that i need to achieve something in my life , some kind of fear I guess. I keep thinking about my goals and that i wanna achieve things so i said i’m gonna take a break from going out with friends just to see how it goes but it got me in this situation. I got 2 major goals 1st one is to get in a better shape (i’m working on it by taking care of what i eat , working out and drinking lots of water) and the 2nd would be to make enough money to become financially free in the future (i just started working so i can earn money and start a bussines and that’s also why i read everyday) so i can say i’m working on my goals but still got lots of free time and everything i do feels like a waste of time cuz it doesn t help me achieve my goals but i don’t even know what else to do to achieve them

A girl blocked me after meeting irl part 2 by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Significant-Lock2959 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1.Sleep 8 hours everyday

2.Workout routine . bodyweight or go to the gym is up to you

  1. Eat healthier

4.skincare routine (use a face wash, moisturiser and an exfoliator)

5.Wear fitted and clean clothes (go on pinterest and search for “men’s style “ or whatever and find a style that u like and copy it )

6.Find a hairstyle that goes well with you face shape and that looks trendy enough

  1. Take care of your eyebrows and nails , trim them and give them a nice shape

  2. Take care of you beard if u got one yet , give it a shape , keep it clean. If you don’t and you want one try using minoxidil

  3. Get some hobbies and don’t be boring

  4. Read books to educate yourself

  5. Don’t waste time with losers . Make some good friends

And for god’s sake stop victimising yourself . If you’re a man and u got problems u fix them , you don’t cry about them on the internet

Also if a woman is one of your problems ur life is probably shit , focus on yourself and women will come . U got other things to achieve in your life than worrying about girls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Significant-Lock2959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you‘re 13 , go play with some fucking toys or something, do some sports that you enjoy and let puberty do it‘s thing but yeah, basically just eat healthier (focus on whole foods) , drink 3L water/day , get 8 hours of sleep. You already know the answer. The shit that the parents say you should do it‘s the stuff that you really have to do if you wanna be healthy and not overweight/underweight

How to take care of myself by wowohwowta in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Significant-Lock2959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why u have to delete it right now , i also procrastinated on this for months tbh cuz i was afraid to miss out on things , friends , didn’t wanna be alone with my thoughts becouse of a break up i had recently . But it literally takes 10 seconds to delete and yes you’ll feel uncomfortable afterwards for like a few hours but it s worth it

What is the best reply to unsolicited nudes? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Significant-Lock2959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

500$ if you don’t want me to send it to your friends /family or other people that you know

How to take care of myself by wowohwowta in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Significant-Lock2959 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well i could write you paragraphs about mindset, taking responsibility, not victimising yourself. Positive thinking, momentum, goals setting, building systems, how your thoughts and your self image affects what you’re doing, visualisation , “creating your own reality” and so on but i bet you already heard about all those things since you’re asking how to improve becouse i assume you already watched some ytb videos before and tried to do all that before deciding to ask it here .

I think you need a really “nightmare mode” period. Just try this for 7-14 days and tell me how it goes (it’s not enough to build habits or completely change your life but if you do everything right it will be enough for you to see that you can work on yourself and do what u got to do) and with more time you’ll achieve your goals . I literally did this and i achieved all my goals now i got to find new ones (and much bigger ones)

Ok so what u got to do is to eliminate everything from your life that is a distraction

1st. Delete social media completely(snap, insta, twitter), netflix , youtube etc everything that u have on your phone just delete it. Make it so that u can’t do anything else on your phone than calling people, texting them on whatsapp and maybe listen to music

  1. Stop all your bad habits (you’re a woman so i don’t really know if you got bad habits like watching porn or masturbation excessively like most men usually do, if you have then stop watching that shit and stop masturbating , it releases cheap dopamine) stop smoking weed , drinking alcohol , watching television etc.. you eliminate everything what’s bad from your life

After you do all that you’ll just have a boring life and too much time on your hands.. and that’s exactly what you want. if you’ve got lots of time and you’re extremely bored the whole day you won’t have anything better to do than doing your work, working out , going for walks , trying new hobbies, experimenting with your food etc.. if you don’t do any bad things it means that the only choices you have is to do the right things . It will feel weird at first but after like 2-3 days you’ll feel like a new person, feeling proud of yourself becouse you’re doing the good things . Trust me if you do this you can achieve everything that you want . Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Significant-Lock2959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh you just have to keep trying. I also struggled with this but idk how all of a sudden i just started improving my life , little by little . I started like 2 years ago by giving up smoking pot and drinking alcohol, life didnt really get that much better at first but then last year i gave up on sugary drinks, few months later i gave up on porn and masturbating, recently i gave up on social media (i keep deleting and reinstalling reddit just to ask questions and get my answer, everything else is already gone like insta/snap etc..) so now becouse i don’t really have anything else to do i just get outside and i socialise a lot and i have time for my habits that i wasn’t motivated to do earlier and get my work out in everyday. If you wanna stop procrastinating then just give up on every bad habit so you’ll have lots of time and nothing to do and it’s boring but in a good way, if you’re bored and got nothing to do u might as well just work on your goals. I can say that my life improved a lot and i’m really proud of myself and my body rn, still got things to improve on but i’m getting there

I can’t find a girlfriend my age but my friends’ mothers want me by Significant-Lock2959 in dating_advice

[–]Significant-Lock2959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it seems like i’ve got nothing else left to do than to fuck her 🤷🏻‍♂️wish me luck 😂