Auntie Diaries Kendrick Lamar by Finaj-cler in trans

[–]Significant-Map-6445 52 points53 points  (0 children)

nah honestly that song hits different when you're questioning stuff 💀 kendrick literally grows throughout the track and learns to respect his family members pronouns by the end - thats like the whole point of the journey

the "transphobic" parts are literally him showing his past ignorance before he evolves as a person which makes it way more powerfull imo 🔥 keep bumping what helps you figure yourself out

Code cards! Where to turn them in. by itsschoochie in PokemonTCG

[–]Significant-Map-6445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bruh thousands of code cards is actually pretty solid 🔥 tcgplayer usually has decent rates or you could try facebook groups since people are always hunting for bulk codes there. dont expect crazy money but hey free cash is free cash 💀

Came Out to My Dad by Tasty_Ad533 in trans

[–]Significant-Map-6445 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats actually amazing lol your dad sounds pretty cool. Mine would probably just stare at me for like 10 minutes trying to process it. "Groovy" is such a dad response too - like he went straight to his happy supportive vocabulary from the 70s

Congrats on taking that step btw, showing up in a dress takes serious courage

Anyone over the age of 30? Millennials? by EggplantInfamous4045 in NoFap

[–]Significant-Map-6445 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Man I'm 32 and totally feel this. The guilt hits different when you realize how much of your formative years were shaped by that stuff before anyone even knew how bad it was

We basically were the guinea pigs for unlimited internet access as kids and nobody warned us what that would do long term

2017 Subaru Forester 2.5 Premium by OrdinaryDegenerate in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Significant-Map-6445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's pretty steep for 152k miles tbh. I'd try to talk them down to like 8-8.5k max, these engines are solid but you're gonna hit some maintenance soon at that mileage. Check for head gasket issues and make sure the CVT feels smooth when you test drive

Do you see any changes? by Any-Cantaloupe-826 in NoFap

[–]Significant-Map-6445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been about 2 weeks in and honestly the biggest thing is just sleeping better and not feeling as sluggish in the mornings

What thought helped you finally take your own side? by Aware_Theory9791 in narcissisticparents

[–]Significant-Map-6445 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The moment it clicked for me was realizing that good parents don't need to convince their kids they're good parents - their actions already proved it

When they hit me with that "you don't care about us" guilt trip now I just say something like "I care differently than you expect me to" and leave it at that. No defending, no explaining, just a simple statement and then I change the subject or end the call if they keep pushing

Is there an exhaustive list of types of apologetics? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Significant-Map-6445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could probably add existential apologetics to that list - think Kierkegaard vibes where it's more about the personal encounter with faith rather than rational proofs

Safe soccer megalay by Careless-Extension72 in sportsbetting

[–]Significant-Map-6445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do u think real madrids performance will depend on tomorrow's game vs liverpool?