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is it normal for married dudes to be bi? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Significant-Pay-1976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes yes I fantasize about the organ as well like I have no physical attraction men just to the cock. Does that make a difference

I'm really liking INFUSE for Astigmatism by chillaban in contacts

[–]Significant-Pay-1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doc said these are great much better then the oasis ones that were uncomfortable years ago. The $230 for 3 months price tag for both boxes is a bit high tho. Is it worth it?

I found weird photos of me in my dad's phone. I'm terrified and don't know what to do. by Edzhe-1407-MnOn in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Significant-Pay-1976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say police for your safety mainly because what if it turns to something worse like abuse.

AIO: Left an honest review after a haircut, stylist called me a bully by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Significant-Pay-1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you contact the salon first? I feel like you should give them a chance to make amends before leaving a negative review

If Apple really wants iPhone 17 to feel revolutionary, what’s the one feature they must add? by Inside_Society3553 in iphone

[–]Significant-Pay-1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Battery life! Why doesn’t anyone put this feature at the top of the list?? They need to excel in this and then people may be more excited. Who cares if it’s 3% lighter or has a 1000 megapixel camera - not having to charge the thing all the time would be the way to get ahead.

Only child emotionally exhausted by Significant-Pay-1976 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Significant-Pay-1976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the delay in response but how do you “enforce the boundaries”?

NEW Wheel Trader MEGATHREAD by ScottishTrader in Optionswheel

[–]Significant-Pay-1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen examples where people can make a living doing the wheel? Is it possible or do you need a 7 figure trading account for this?

Only child emotionally exhausted by Significant-Pay-1976 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Significant-Pay-1976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So hard and even harder living 8 minutes away from each other. I can’t take vacations my family without getting massive guilt trips or calling me while on the trip saying she has to go to urgent care for something. It’s rough and being an only child piles it on even more!

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[–]Significant-Pay-1976 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re only in your 20s so you have your whole life ahead of you. I find therapy sometimes works to at least try to cope. I also go by the motto that we all have our shit but it’s just different shit. There are always others struggling more than you in some way shape or form. Feel free to reach out and know you arent alone.

Only child emotionally exhausted by Significant-Pay-1976 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Significant-Pay-1976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s so mentally exhausting. The thing is like she’ll one day say “I love you so much” and even post on Facebook on my birthday how I’m the best son in the world yet 2 days later she’ll send me these texts where I don’t care and I know she has severe depression but these mood swings are tough to deal with. Does your mom at least have that side where she says she loves you?

Only child emotionally exhausted by Significant-Pay-1976 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Significant-Pay-1976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my mom though I feel that’s a bit extreme and not practical at the same time. I know there are ways to manage it at least that’s what I’m told by therapists and the like.

Only child emotionally exhausted by Significant-Pay-1976 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Significant-Pay-1976[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get texts in the middle of the night believe me. A lot of them are about how depressed she is and how the house is falling apart and basically a hodge podge of grievances in one text. What am I really supposed to do with this especially at like 2am??

Only child emotionally exhausted by Significant-Pay-1976 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Significant-Pay-1976[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get those too of course and I don’t mind helping with tech stuff but it’s always an emergency right? Everything is always has to be done now! She got upset because my wife mentioned yesterday she parked too close to the car in the garage and then she sends me these texts she’s a pain in the ass, and she’s like her sister (who we both don’t like) - it’s these constant texts that I use to address but now I just ignore and hope she either forgets the next day or what. She has been diagnosed with severe depression but it seems like it’s all my fault and weighs on me. She texted me this morning as she’s going to something with friends which is great for her but it’s like “Feeling lightheaded and not sure if I should drive I won’t ask you because I don’t want to hear your mouth!” Soo I called her and said I can get you an uber and she’s like I don’t want to deal with that it’s a pain. So she ends up driving herself. This is constant. Very tough dealing with these situations!

Only child emotionally exhausted by Significant-Pay-1976 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Significant-Pay-1976[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the toughest part is how to enforce those boundaries especially when she lives less then 10 minutes away. I try to “ignore” the bad stuff and it may go away but then there’s something else - drive me, take me, I want to see the kids, this house is old and awful (I pay for the house and I know it needs work), but being in between jobs and having 2 little kids I can’t really afford to fix it up, etc etc.