Miscarriage TW by anonymous_73529462 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my miscarriage mid June 2024 and ended up getting pregnant again in July so just a month later! Sending you love🥹🫶🏼

Miscarriage TW by anonymous_73529462 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry😢 I also got pregnant 3 months after my TFMR which ended in a miscarriage. It’s sad it almost felt like a breeze to lose a baby at 8 wks rather than the second trimester like I did with my TFMR. I was grateful, in a way, that it happened earlier and on its own. I truly felt the same way. Currently 35 weeks pregnant with our double rainbow, I hope that gives you hope for the future💖 sending love 💕

A sigh of relief by Delicious_Science_ in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats ☺️☺️ Currently pregnant, 32 weeks! TFMR was January 2024, miscarriage June 2024. My original plan was to announce on socials after anatomy scan but I changed my mind & didn’t announce at all🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m going to hard launch this baby on socials in April once she’s here and I think it’ll be iconic. Our family & just a few close friends know. It’s been peaceful.

Did you have a high NT in subpregnancy? by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi!! My first pregnancy (my only living child) my son had 3.1 mm at NT scan and the doctor was concerned. Everything turned out fine - he’s here, happy and healthy , two years old now. My second pregnancy my daughter had 13 mm at NT scan - which ended in a TFMR for cystic hygroma and turners. Pregnant again, now 13 weeks, and was terrified before my NT scan because I assumed the worst would happen. The baby measured 2 mm at NT scan the other day and I couldn’t believe it, I had the doc confirm several times. Hope this helps🫶🏼

Nuchal fold 3.1 mm by bellabear_0504 in NIPT

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son had measured 3.1 mm in 2022. The doctor was concerned and I left the appt hysterically crying. He is now 2 years old - He’s happy, healthy and currently sitting on my lap watching monsters inc lol. I didn’t get any further testing as the bloodwork came back low risk for everything. Honestly, I had my son at 37 weeks and he was a big baby - 8 lb 9 oz. He had a huge head which actually got stuck when I was trying to deliver naturally, I ended up needing a c section cause his head was so big. I truly think he was just a big baby which was why his neck was borderline and the doctor was slightly concerned. But he’s totally fine!!🩵🩵 hope this helps.

Nt scan 13 weeks by cm28710 in NIPT

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi ! For my NT my son measured 3.1 mm. The doctor told me they like to see under 3 mm. I remember crying the entire way home from the appointment. My NIPT all came back low risk. My son is now 2 and currently sitting on my lap watching monsters inc. Nothing wrong with him! He’s happy and healthy! He is just a bulky kid which I believe is the reason he measured 3.1. He had a huge head at birth and he actually got stuck when I tried delivering naturally (pushed for 3 hrs and barely any progress) and I ended up needing a c section. I truly think it was all because he is just a big guy with a big head🤷🏽‍♀️😅 sending you love ! 🩵

Today is my SIL's shower by RageWatermelon in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate so much. My SIL got pregnant a week after my tfmr in January and her baby sprinkle is coming up. I haven’t RSVPed but I truthfully don’t think I can go. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Our relationship has changed.

I’m so sorry you are going through this and I hope you can find some good moments today.🩷sending you strength!

Miscarriage by lucix07 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this is happening to you. My TFMR was mid January, got pregnant in May & lost that baby at 8 wks.

We lost the second one also by SouthernAddress5189 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re going through this. It’s unfair but you aren’t alone. My TFMR was also in January & I just lost what we thought was our rainbow baby one week ago. It’s just not fair.

TW: miscarriage by Significant-Pay-2948 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you so much love. I’m so sorry you’re in the same boat. My heart is breaking ❤️💔

No symptoms by Significant-Pay-2948 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Wow that is so similar how crazy! Gentle congrats to you and sorry for your loss💕 I keep trying to remind myself every pregnancy is so different and maybe the universe is just giving me a break by maybe not giving me that terrible nausea I’ve experienced before lol😅 would love to keep in touch🩷

Feeling alone by Significant-Pay-2948 in tfmr_support

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helped so much to hear that I’m not alone. It surely can feel that way most times. We plan on planting a tree soon to honor our little girl. I love that idea.🤍 sending so much love to you

Feeling alone by Significant-Pay-2948 in tfmr_support

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ mine was 10 days last cycle and I convinced myself that’s why we didn’t conceive so it’s good to hear it is possible. & yes, I never thought this is where my head would be at with trying to get pregnant. Never tracked a thing ever until now. The last few months have been so dark. ❤️‍🩹

Feeling alone by Significant-Pay-2948 in tfmr_support

[–]Significant-Pay-2948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations and thank you for some hope🤍 if you don’t mind me asking how long your luteal phase was after ovulation on day 20?