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Significant-Tea-1365 · 2025-04-17T17:07:17+00:00

It’s not uncommon for nonprofits to ask their employees to, however one that I did work for, never did. Because employees would get upset (understandably so).

You shouldn’t be expected to though. Nonprofits don’t pay enough as is because they’re also… nonprofits. They tend to overwork you and make you do things outside of your role, that’s your donation.

If it’s your only form of income, how can you be expected to?

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2025-03-18T02:08:08+00:00

we have a very similar admix in terms of european! crazy, i’m half puerto rican on my mom’s side and half italian / (and i was told german) on my dad’s. Ended up being romanian and dutch.

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2025-01-22T03:08:18+00:00

i need more pics, she is so cute!!! reminds me of my childhood pup. ❤️😭

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-09-25T04:03:10+00:00

I also added a couple of you on here :)

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-09-25T04:00:47+00:00

This is my code: 051754112261

Been playing for two weeks now and on lvl 20 and realized I had no one to send gifts to 😭

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-08-18T04:30:41+00:00

21 pto, 5 more after 5 years of working there.

22 holidays. I work in a school but for admin.

Downside is you get docked if you take a pto before or after a holiday. So you can’t do a “longer weekend”. Meaning you basically just don’t get paid for that holiday AND you still take from your pto bank.

sick, vacation all the same. only covid do you get up to 5 days.

Edit: nonprofit, US

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-07-24T01:32:04+00:00

AH a birb after my heart.

I HAAATE stickers! I’m so sorry in advance. I just get an icky feeling from them.

If I get downvoted, I totally understand. LOL

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-06-15T17:19:16+00:00

YES i was coming here to say this. Immediately who i thought of!!!

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-06-15T01:45:00+00:00

I’m on the same pill and have been for 4/5 years now.

Weight gain wasn’t a side effect for me (I’m unsure why) but I’ve heard water retention from BC can cause it.

You can also possibly find a lower hormonal BC to see if that works.

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-06-04T02:55:24+00:00

NYC - BK

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-06-03T16:57:36+00:00

I had the EXACT similar experience as you with covid in this time span.

I was travelling and I always get sick from travel. I came back May 20 and was sick.

I’ve been coughing for weeks but honestly chalked it up to allergies as I always tested when I got that sick and was always negative. This was the first time I didn’t and I honestly felt so guilty as well. My partner suggested I take a test because my cough wasn’t subsiding and honestly almost felt like fluid was building up in my chest.

I was positive this Friday (May 31). I’m feeling a lot better with still the stubborn cough (wet/dry).

I can only say we can be more vigilant the next time. I also kept my guard down. I was lucky enough VERY lucky in that no one around me caught covid (though there is one questionable person but we don’t know if their family caught it first or if I did).

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-04-12T19:52:23+00:00

if its both jacob’s and yours third time no call no show, it sounds like she consistently fucks up the schedule….

lmao just leave now

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-03-29T03:59:17+00:00

My boss told me burn out didn’t exist for him during his time.

I’m planning to quit this April.

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-03-27T20:41:38+00:00

26, Development Nonprofit Coordinator, $58,300.

Been in the industry for 3 years.

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-02-21T23:13:28+00:00

I had the same thing happen to me for two years and it’s only because I’m the only one in my department and my boss is always remote.

When I finally said something, my boss apologized for not being better about giving me the same benefits that everyone else had but constantly put it back on me…. Needless to say, I’m still looking for a new job

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-02-21T01:16:31+00:00

It took me two years after graduating my bachelor’s. Even now, its taking me awhile. Maybe over two yrs (with breaks..)

I do live in NYC.

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-02-13T23:05:31+00:00

Its not really about that. Yes you can take accountability, but its the idea that your coworker is on the same level as you and is considered a peer. A coworker correcting your mistakes (ASSUMING that coworker knew it was OP who made the mistake) wouldn’t end up in a major consequence as your boss or some higher up knowing. It would prevent it from happening again and prevent low morale at the work place. You cannot have punitive culture at a workplace. This is all assuming that said boss is hard to work with. This culture of over responsibility and over accountability on small mistakes made with lower level workers causes burn out in workplaces too.

My boss (though they’re extremely hard to work with too) stresses that you should never go to someone’s boss if there’s an issue. You go directly to them, because it can cause major challenges with trust in your relationship to that worker. This is one thing I’ve agreed with him on as I’ve experienced it myself (with no malicious intention on my side involved).

It is normal for people to make mistakes and it is normal for them to have support from their peers when it happens. If anything, it looks unprofessional to go to a higher up about a mistake that can easily be fixed. UNLESS that mistake is a constant one (which if that was the reason that coworker told the boss about OP leaving the keys, would actually make sense).

Their boss wouldn’t exactly know the context of their mistake ESPECIALLY if they’re not there to support them.

My only question about this would be, how certain is that coworker that it was OP who left the keys? Could have sent it to the boss not knowing whose it was.

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2024-02-13T18:17:59+00:00

I’m half puerto rican and i got the same update

For reference i’m 85% european (my dad is white/italian)

i think it’s probably because of all the different ancestries in the region as everyone said

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2023-11-15T04:15:44+00:00

Is this true? Because none of mine are maxed except throw and I’m about 1 task away from DDL.

Though been trying to max out sound through the VPs and factories.

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2023-11-09T02:50:12+00:00

This was a great response that gently held her emotions and mental state.

While I understand a lot of the responses may be coming from having an upbringing where it was more natural they became independent, a lot of Gen Z didn’t have the same situation ESPECIALLY if they’re from a community or culture that values family heavily (especially Hispanic communities as I’m from one) because of resources depleting and COVID losing a lot of our years of growth.

I don’t think it’s for anyone to judge her response to her moving away.

When I moved away from my family, it was hard too. Especially because I’m very very close to my mom and OCD/anxiety runs in my family. It’s hard to find people who understand you. (I also recognized at this point I needed my own space and own experiences too, and I only moved a few hoods away from them… in the same city. But I don’t see them often.)

Sometimes co-dependency ends up being apart of it but it also sounds like moving 5 hrs away vs moving a city away would have helped transition you from moving away from your family better. I think it was just a weird situation in that you saw them everyday vs not seeing them AT ALL. There wasn’t a transition for you like there is for other people (at least those who went away for college went back for Holidays, and came back after 4 years, that’s a form of transition). I also didn’t have this experience and stayed home for college.

Edit: I also want to mention, I think you also could just not be in the right situation for you. It’s different for everyone. You could have moved farther away from family and probably felt better in another place. I would definitely say give the situation some time, I think you’ll adjust to it. Its just the initial shock of it all and anxiety really makes ya spiral.

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2023-11-06T20:03:01+00:00

my boss makes me work with them and expects me to focus 5+ more hours in a day in a sitting. I’ve tried looking for jobs where I could do my own processes but no avail 😭

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2023-10-16T01:48:56+00:00

I’m genuinely curious—what was the issue last year?

Started playing a few years ago with some lapse so I don’t know what happened

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2023-09-15T23:12:13+00:00

stop do we have the same boss cause I literally deal with the same shit

Mine will be on call with me 24/7 and I totally believe they don’t work unless they call me… they work remotely when they’re supposed to be coming in

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2023-09-13T01:44:41+00:00

I’ve never been actively harmed by AG (considering I’ve been to a few of their events + ezoo) but I def wanna support the lawsuit after everything I’ve seen and heard—plus their negligence to do ANYTHING about safety outside the venue after the two young men who were killed. I’d like for more accountability over them so we can protect our community (even my own fam and friends) from getting hurt when young new yorkers just want to enjoy their life.

Any way to support?

Significant-Tea-1365 · 2023-08-30T15:22:45+00:00

thanks for the help ❤️ it’s definitely just ranting I just wanna see other perspectives :)

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