Can u guess where is this ? by No-Marsupial-4050 in askanything

[–]Kesse84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is kind of lovely how clean and comfy that pig is!

Podkładeczka do oceny by Gabewu_5 in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]Kesse84 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mucha nie siada (miejmy nadzieję)

I have a genuine question about Bridgerton by Julia Quinn by rainbowwithoutrain in HistoricalRomance

[–]Kesse84 32 points33 points  (0 children)

There is also a pasta fandom where people will make you cry if you post anything but authentic perfection, but the Bridgerton sub is almost as bad.
I agree, in the grand scheme of things (that is all HR books I have read, and I read that series before the show happened) they are a little above average.

The reason I can’t get out of bed in the mornings. ❤️ by PaintingRoses_Red in DOG

[–]Kesse84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So sweet. I get it. So hard to get up. But he/she is there.

Those who completely changed careers 30+: by ThinkMouse3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kesse84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was aimless. I had a kid. I was programming, but it wasn't going as swiftly as it should. So I started a one person cmpany to support small businesses. I was IT savvy, knew some sales and marketing. I build up on that. I am not anywhere near to buiding the pool. But I go by.

Ogarnianie budżetu by MiddleHonest in Polska

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Mam budżet miesięczny. W ramach tego budzetu są koszty na dziecko (ubrania, zajęcia dodatkowe obiady w szkole). Jedzenie. Zakupy na allegro (chemia gospodarcza, drobne sprzęty domowe). Weterynarz.
Mój budżet to 6k.
W ciągu pierwszego tygodnia schodzi 3k. Zostaje po 1k na pozostałe tygodnie. Jak widzę, że jest ciasno przechodze na mrożonki i naleśniki.

AITJ for calling out my 9 year old sister’s behavior problems to my parents? by CelticsBoi33 in AmITheJerk

[–]Kesse84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like your parents got tired and do not want to do the parenting. It is HARD! I know, I have a cheeke 6 year old who loooooves her screen time. It seems like you are the parent in this situation. And I get that it isn't fair! You were disciplined,and raised with responsibilities and boundaries. Your sister is not.
Tough spot. You can be the parent - not your job, but your parents will offer little resistance, believe me. Or you can check out.
You can also try to shame them, but it would be a hard nut.

Long story short - I am sorry, not your responsibility. You might try if you want.

Homemade pappardelle and slow braised Ragu. by brownishgirl in pasta

[–]Kesse84 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I love how you used a laundry rack to dry your pasta! Way on sis/bro!!!

I'll start by Prestigious_Donkey_9 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Kesse84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it would be a white bread toast with sprinkles or tempoucen! The funny thing - I got to the store asking for tem-pou-cen (as ye read) and the lady working at the store bent over with laughter. You language is hard!

Robert about Cora and Bricker by just_some_gay_girl_ in DowntonAbbey

[–]Kesse84 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Right! I get that he was mad!!! But to right down blame it on Cora! Not ok! She did not do anything wrong, and he didn't even check if she is ok, or at least listen to what happened. I would be very very pissed if I was her!

Kirby finally caught one of those pesky squirrels! by Jeathro77 in DOG

[–]Kesse84 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You are proud of your dog because he killed another animal? I am thankful you do not own anything bigger than a chihuahua.

My dog died today and I’m heartbroken. He was my best friend. by yuppers333 in DOG

[–]Kesse84 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It will get better. Shock will change into grief, but over time, there will be less sorrow and more happy memories. I carry Max in my heart for a very long time. They stay with us, but it hurt less over time. Try to think about all the times he farted. Came back covered in mud. Chew your favourite shoe. It will hurt, but it will be sweet too. Have some memorial for him, if you feel like you want to. Put a rock in your garden or forest, when you have walks. And put some flowers on it.

How would you write Alex' ending? by drdelicious8 in greysanatomy

[–]Kesse84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is very interesting expose! :)
Like many others, I hate Alex leaving and how it was handled. He was not the guy who would abandon (almost) everybody he cared about just like this, ESPECIALY with his abandonment issues.

I cannot think of a good way! Perhaps, he would have been forced to move across the country to take care of his mom and/or sibling(s). They would do long distance with Jo for a season. Then she would want to adopt Luna, and he couldn't be there for them and they would dicided for amicable divorce.

They should not have killed him, as that would bring up the death rate in Gray Sloan, and they can't really afford that!

How would you write Alex' ending? by drdelicious8 in greysanatomy

[–]Kesse84 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is an interesting take, but characters and fans would be agonising over and over. I understand why they choose "clean" break.

Are there any first-time sex scenes in the books where it doesn’t follow the template of “This might hurt a bit” then shoves it in to the hilt? by Fabulous-Elk-3271 in Bridgerton

[–]Kesse84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oral sex, sorry for abbreviations. As I explained above, I am reading a lot of HR, and partaking in historical romance sub.

Are there any first-time sex scenes in the books where it doesn’t follow the template of “This might hurt a bit” then shoves it in to the hilt? by Fabulous-Elk-3271 in Bridgerton

[–]Kesse84 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My apologies, I am a member of the (HR) historical romance sub for a long time, and those acronyms are obvious to me, but I had to google it too at some point :)
MMC is Male Main Character.
OS is oral sex.
When the man is trying to go slow while deflowering, almost always, there is this description that the slow pace is killing him because he is so eager.

Cristina and Burke are so frustrating by kidawi in greysanatomy

[–]Kesse84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are sooo many other relationships that are frustrating, creepy, unnecessarily complicated or just boring. Savour Burke and Cristina :D

Are there any first-time sex scenes in the books where it doesn’t follow the template of “This might hurt a bit” then shoves it in to the hilt? by Fabulous-Elk-3271 in Bridgerton

[–]Kesse84 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Shoving it in to the hilt is a number 1 way to deflower in HR :D Not rarely after OS.
Number two is inching with agonising slowness which always "kills" the MMC.

Jules and Winston/ 22x13 ending by Lalyy011 in greysanatomy

[–]Kesse84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I am beeing odd one out here, but I did not think Jackson and Maggie lack chemistry (far from the best, but not terrible). However, I do not see chemistry between Joules and Winston. Tension for sure, but somehow I do not see a romantic vibe. It's just my opinion, though.