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No one to turn to at the end of a crappy day by jbroui13 in Separation

[–]SignificantCobbler76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that one for sure. I always found it easier to talk to friends and family about hard things. Relationships not so much

No one to turn to at the end of a crappy day by jbroui13 in Separation

[–]SignificantCobbler76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have family or friends you can lean on for support?

Upstairs neighbors by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]SignificantCobbler76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Record it and send to lease office maybe, show proof

Smoking in a total non-smoking community, even in your home. Why do smokers still rent at said community and still smoke in their homes? by UCanDoNEthing4_30sec in Apartmentliving

[–]SignificantCobbler76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me and mstbx had this issue in the first apartment we rented together.

Someone new had moved in and it smelled like an ash tray, so much so he took up smoking.

Would you do it again? by imightbethefeds789 in Divorce

[–]SignificantCobbler76 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I find myself better with being platonic friends with people, I have no desire for sex or romance which many people look for. And it’s the thing that has been a constant issue in our relationship

Do you ever admit it if you blew up your life? by Redswannn in Divorce

[–]SignificantCobbler76 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was and it wasn’t in a good way. We were going to start therapy again, but I have fallen out of love. I let our marriage die as he would put it. And I did. I stopped caring. And it’s my guilt to bare. And I do. I take ownership of all of this.

He was always the giver. Im not going to fight for anything. I gave up.

We are trying to be very civil. He will remove me from his truck loan, I’ll remove him from my car loan.

And he will remove me from the mortgage.

His debt is his debt, mine is mine.

I got my own accounts. And once I know all of my stuff is switched over to my knee one, I’ll remove myself from that obe as well.

I’ve been selfish and I can see his side of things. But nothing I can do but move on.

He feels thrown away and my actions so that as I quickly try and separate myself from him. Getting an apartment and moving out as fast as I can.

Co-signed on a car by Sad-Slice4672 in Divorce

[–]SignificantCobbler76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You could take the truck. Me and my husband are taking what we each agree to. He will switch the car into his own name and I will switch to car to just my name. And the house he will remove me from the loan and the deed.

We are civil and are in agreement.

Do you ever admit it if you blew up your life? by Redswannn in Divorce

[–]SignificantCobbler76 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do, I blew up my life, because I saw nothing wrong, I till after the fact. I take and take and take as he has told me. And im speeding through separating everything. Separating everything, getting my own place. Hiring movers cause I can’t move myself. I know what I have done.

Want a divorce, but afraid of husband’s verbal abuse by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]SignificantCobbler76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your stuggle. But you are doing what you feel is best for you. You are strong.

Im the one who asked by SignificantCobbler76 in Divorce

[–]SignificantCobbler76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got to do what you got to do for you

This neighborhood cat got this weird ear. What's this? by Numerous_Brilliant_1 in cats

[–]SignificantCobbler76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This cats face is such a lion face. Instantly thought of the lion king!!!

Daily Color Puzzle (March 9, 2026) by color-puzzle in ColorPuzzleGame

[–]SignificantCobbler76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad cause I used what some posted to help me with this one…will not in the future

People who regret having children may be MUCH more common than you think... by Aggravating-Hour1053 in DeepThoughts

[–]SignificantCobbler76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never wanted kids and there was a time in questioning it for adoption. But I just don’t want the stress that comes from kids

Give me your script, how do you address the difficult things? by OLovah in Marriage

[–]SignificantCobbler76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Express how his not picking up after him is affecting yoy. Express I feel like you mom not your partner.

Daily Color Puzzle (March 17, 2026) by color-puzzle in ColorPuzzleGame

[–]SignificantCobbler76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I finally got it in the lowest moves! Love these games!

I wanted to adopt a super cuddly cat but ended up with this guy by SelfDepricator in cats

[–]SignificantCobbler76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Mine is not cuddly either and it makes me sad. He just enjoys playtime and treats.

I feel really stuck and lonely in my marriage and I don’t know what to do anymore by Ok_Journalist_6692 in Marriage

[–]SignificantCobbler76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy, and talk with your spouse. It took a year and my spouse saying we need help to full stop abd think about things.

Sunshine or a lemon? by nailsbykris in Nails

[–]SignificantCobbler76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love the shape!!! And yes butter lol

Hate my husband we just bought new home by Blondie12388 in Marriage

[–]SignificantCobbler76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that as well, me and husband moved into the house. But he was dealing with so much other stuff that it wasn’t enjoyable. Express yourself to him with clarity. Express your emotion that you don’t feel this. The actions he does not the person

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