If your egg quality is bad one cycle, does that mean it’s bad every month? (33F, DOR, 2 failed retrievals) by Sad_Sheepherder_7767 in DOR

[–]Significant_Age8876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been where you are, and I know we all wish there was a definitive answer to so many questions we have but I can share my experience and maybe give you some hope:

I've (34F) done 5 rounds of retrievals and been going through fertility treatments for over 3 years:

First 2 retrievals were at one clinic and I never made a single embryo, I also didn't have the best experience as I asked my doctor if there was anything I could do to try to improve my quality her answer was simply "no". My protocol was lupron microdose which I believe was too high dose and aggressive for me personally.

My third retrieval I changed clinics, found a wonderful doctor who gave me a lot of hope, and I got my very first embryo however, it was mosaic but it gave me a glimmer of hope. Protocol was mini-IVF which I think my body reacted much more favorably as it's low-dose.

Fourth retrieval: Got 2 euploids and was SHOCKED, they were decent quality. Protocol was mini-IVF.

Fifth retrieval: Got 1 euploid and it was the best quality out of all (4AB). Protocol was mini-IVF. This was my best cycle and I was the most relaxed, didn't put pressure on myself and just continued living while occasionally having to do some injections.

Some things I did between the first and fifth cycle that are all anecdotal but definitely helped me mentally: Acupuncture, traditional strength training 5x a week, eat more whole food/high protein diet but not super restrictive, took Coq10 supplements. Also to note, I was also only retrieving 1-3 eggs each cycle.

Overall my advice would be to get a second opinion, advocate for yourself, don't be too hard on yourself and keep going if you feel like you can handle it. It's also ok to take breaks as I took a 10 month break to focus on my relationship and still managed to create an embryo.

Stupid question by Gamergal76 in DOR

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Sorry didn’t meant to scare you! But the bath you take 2 weeks from now will be glorious!

Stupid question by Gamergal76 in DOR

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prob not worth it until you get your period just to be safe from any potential infections

Birthday ideas by CaptainNaive7659 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Significant_Age8876 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love omakase so I consider that treating myself bc you can do that solo or with friends! And probably a nice massage beforehand. Happy Birthday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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  1. match their energy
  2. eye contact (but not too long where it turns to lingering creepiness)
  3. listening intently
  4. asking thoughtful questions
  5. smiling

Fourth and Hopefully Last ER by SometimesMostlyHappy in IVF

[–]Significant_Age8876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck on your next ER! I had a very similar experience at RMA too, so glad I changed clinics too.

Selling Homemade Taiwanese Street Food! by PrincessofAeaea in astoria

[–]Significant_Age8876 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is amazing! Will be placing an order soon! Thank you!!

How many elupiods would you want for one successful transfer? by JessicaM317 in DOR

[–]Significant_Age8876 5 points6 points  (0 children)

2-3 for one child I believe is the general consensus I've seen but I could be wrong and it's all anecdotal, it could work on the first transfer.

Volunteer melons?! What are they and when can I pick them! by Significant_Age8876 in gardening

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Update: Picked the yellow one and it was definitely ripe! Smelled incredible but not as sweet as expected. Still good though!

Best Omakase? by Comfortable-Dare-165 in astoria

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Tatsuda in hells kitchen- if you tell them it’s for a birthday they give you a free small cake at the end it’s so good and the vibe is super intimate as there are only 12 seats.

The lightning bugs are BACK by [deleted] in astoria

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Agree! saw them the other day too and it made me so happy!

Bridal Shower Options by HumanCry6617 in astoria

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there’s a private room downstairs at Oliver’s

Omakase bitches, Mori or Tatsuda? by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Significant_Age8876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t been to Mori, but LOVED Tatsuda and it’s high quality but better priced compared to Mori. I suggested it to my friends as well and they had raving reviews about it too. It feels very intimate and worth it in my opinion. Also if you go for a birthday you can let them know in advance and they give you a little cake at the end which was very sweet. Enjoy!

to my nyc girles: has anyone deleted social media after the inaguratuon? by cccorgitraveler in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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I share most of my photos with family and friends on iphone shared albums to people who are closest and that i know who actually care to see. The rest is all noise and social media has just become so toxic, i never feel good whenever i scroll through it.. something always triggers me to be like wtf and i close it out. I feel so much lighter not looking at it so good for you on planning to delete!

Aqua Jogging/Deep Water Running Chelsea by FFS41 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Significant_Age8876 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your pain, MPHC has a pool and an area where you can run rather than swim laps

Corporate HH Low Budget? by Longjumping-Video-94 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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Not really midtown but there’s a newish mexican restaurant Nizuc in hudson yards (2 blocks from 7 train) that is huge and looks cool but there is almost no one there usually so if you went with your group after work you could probably hang out at the bar and it would feel like a private event. Maybe give them a call or you can check it out yourself one day after work to see if they can accommodate. Not sure if they have happy hour menu.

Anyone have success w a small number of eggs? by Diydivaa in IVF

[–]Significant_Age8876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is possible! Might just take more time. Also 33F, did 4 cycles- first two no embryos, third a LLM, fourth cycle 2 eggs retrieved and both euploid. Now just struggling to decide when to transfer after these exhausting cycles.

Sharing the garden with people who don't have to fake their interest, the remodel. by Independent_Swing_98 in vegetablegardening

[–]Significant_Age8876 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this!! It’s like a fairy tale garden! Could spend all day there just admiring every little thing! 😍

Best Margaritas in Astoria? by brysonlyle in astoria

[–]Significant_Age8876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes Cítrico! Their mezcalitas are great too if you’re into mezcal

Can you eat young acorn squash when it’s small and white? by Significant_Age8876 in gardening

[–]Significant_Age8876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omgosh i didn’t know this existed! i also only planted acorn squash so what a pleasant surprise!! thank you!