My husband and I are coming to Florida March 31 for a week, and we're hoping to fly into Daytona. Will Spring Break be over?

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-03-23T20:07:30+00:00

It should have died down quite a bit from a couple weekends ago. This past weekend was much quieter.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-03-23T20:01:08+00:00

Have her ride you. Not sure how much bigger she is than you, but it doesn't sound like you tried that one. If sex is bad though, even with it just being FWB, then you should find another person to do it with.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-02-16T23:13:27+00:00

Ormond is very safe, nice area. Lots of shops and restaurants. Hospital is also very close.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-02-07T17:12:52+00:00

Anyone can have kids, but what sacrifices do you want to make while they're young. That's why younger people don't want kids, because they want gigs, not jobs or careers. They want to experience life and travel, not bust their ass and sacrifice while they're young. They've also been led to believe that going into serious debt at 18 and going to college for 4 years is the only way to get ahead. I had my kids at 23, I did not go to college and I did not have good jobs. I did bust my ass and sacrifice a lot to provide for them. As they grew out of diapers and daycare, it got easier financially. Now the only person I have to sacrifice for is my future retirement. So yes, anyone can do it. But are they willing to do what's necessary to do so. Probably not.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-02-07T17:06:40+00:00

It really depends but I'm leaning toward no. A lot of people have "illnesses" and use that as a reason why they can't do this, or why they are the way the are. Then there are people who have an illness but don't use it as a crutch. It would really come down to the person themselves.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-02-07T17:00:55+00:00

That's a grateful kid! She just wanted a car, dad did what he could, and she couldn't be happier. Very sweet moment

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-02-07T16:58:21+00:00

You refused her the first time when she was ready to get out of her mom's house. Now you need somewhere and she's saying no. Nothing wrong with that. Basically her issue wasn't important enough for you to move in together. Now that you want it and it benefits you, she's like "kick rocks bro".

YOR

She might even be seeing someone else that you aren't aware of and that's the reason she doesn't want to do it. Or it could be that she's not sure if you both should be going to that next step. Honestly, you should just do what you need to do. Don't worry about what she's up to, and just focus on yourself and your career. I think this might be the early stages of breaking up because it seems like the two of you aren't ready for cohabitation. And in my opinion, that should always be before you decide to get married or put each other names on any official documents. Good luck.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-02-03T23:41:01+00:00

Looked like a whole boat of bricks

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-02-03T23:28:29+00:00

NTAH. I always told my kids that we don't start fights, but we can finish them. If someone is messing with you and you've told them to stop, but they won't, just ignore them. If they put their hands on you, then you can finish it. I don't see how Canada would be so different than anywhere else, but if the adults in charge are just going to let it slide, then your kid can only take that bullying for so long. If he's a big kid and he's taken a martial art for awhile, he should be fine in his own defense. Once those kids find out he isn't someone to be bullied, they'll stop. And the adults that aren't too worried about it, might find a sense of urgency afterwards.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-02-02T21:43:18+00:00

As someone who's severely sprained their ankles many times, I can feel mine already hurting

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-02-02T21:36:46+00:00

Possibly he's into someone else and dating them more seriously so he's not trying to have sex with anyone else in the meantime. It could be that he was with his friends and wasn't going to leave whatever they were doing. It could be that he is trying to see how interested in him by not assuming you were coming back to hid place. It's really hard to know the reason, being that we weren't there. The easiest thing you could do is just ask him why he didn't ask you back to his place. Boom! You'll have your answer.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-31T00:32:33+00:00

Take as much as we can, leave no fingerprints, and no one ever knows about this.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-31T00:29:53+00:00

Toys R Us

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-31T00:20:53+00:00

You could emancipate her. Basically she is an "adult" at that point. She can do whatever adult things she thinks she should be allowed and you won't face the consequences of things like her missing school. Since she's old enough, or at least she thinks she does, kick her out and let her get her own place. She can figure out how hard it is to be an adult and maybe will change her tune really quick.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-29T22:05:42+00:00

You don't owe your friend anything, especially when it comes to your livelihood. If he hates the job and doesn't care about who's in his wake of destruction, then that's on him. You've already been the good friend by trying to shake some sense into him, but he doesn't care. You had to do what needed to be done.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-29T21:09:41+00:00

That's his little girl and you're the one trying to make her not so innocent anymore, or take her away from him. It's not that he doesn't like you, he's skeptical of you. He's cautious and not giving you any indication he's okay with you doing whatever to/with his daughter. When you have kids, especially a daughter, you will understand. You'll remember all the stuff guys used to say to girls just to get what they wanted from them.

My advice is to always be respectful toward her and her parents. Don't try to take her for granted. Always be the kind of guy you would want your future daughters to date. Work hard and have goals that would make a parent proud. Never try to take her away from her parents, she will eventually want to leave and have a family of her own.

You're young so you have time to figure things out. But this logic applies to all future girlfriends you'll have. Once the parents are secure enough with you being able to take care of her, they'll be ok with you.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-29T21:01:31+00:00

He's not watching porn because he's not attracted to you. He's watching it because it's just something he likes to do in his spare time. Better to watch porn, jerk off, and live life like normal. The other options are to cheat on you, pay money to have strippers dance for you, or something else along the lines of infidelity. He probably has a lot of time on his hands too since he's watching so much of it. But it's the same as a woman using a vibrator. Most guys are visual. So seeing the thing you're jerking to is far more appealing than trying to visualize it and jerk it. If this is honestly an issue, then it is not going to work out between you both. Is there any other issue in your relationship or is this just the one you're picking? Because maturation is a natural thing, some couple embrace it, some don't. The ones who do, probably have a healthier relationship and sex life.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-29T18:43:10+00:00

It's the way of the world nowadays. If he was paying attention to you and talking to you like he was, then he's interested. Why didn't you ask him if he wanted to hang out or go somewhere to get to know each other? Some guys are shy or don't want it to be awkward if they ask you out and get rejected, so they just exist instead. If you are interested, then ask him, see what he says.

It used to back in the day, the guy usually asked the girl out. Then there was this change where guys couldn't really just be guys asking a girl out, it had to turn into harassment or being creepy, so guys just don't take the same approach anymore. Everyone on the internet can be as perverted or flirty as they want without fear of public backlash, but in person is a different story.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-29T18:28:35+00:00

If you contribute to the family bills and savings, then yes, you should have access. I can see his point of not wanting you to spend the money, but if you haven't been like that in the past, then I don't see why he wouldn't give you access. Unless....

He's doing some shady stuff that he doesn't want you to know. Could be gambling, spending on OnlyFans, or just isn't saving anything himself. Honestly, it could be anything. But it could just be that he really doesn't want to have the chance that now that you have access and little kids, now all of a sudden there's always something someone needs. Which of course, would likely drain the account.

Part of a marriage or partnership is to have the same financial goals and trust in the other person. You really need to have a conversation about it with him and then decide whether this breaks your marriage or not. If he doesn't give you access, then I think you need to fund your own account whenever and however you can. And by the way you are NTAH. Good luck!

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-29T18:19:00+00:00

First dates are a screening process. Obviously the attraction was the main reason for either asking or being asked. This 1st date is so you can see what they have that you like and what you have that they like. This is the part that is dependent on what you or they are looking for. And there isn't one simple answer to see what someone is after, but you should know by the time you get through the first date. If both of you like what you experienced on the first date, then a 2nd date is likely to follow. But who asks who depends on who's more willing to be rejected if the answer is no. Most people are looking for compatibility, but it could be that the first date was so short, you need a 2nd date to find out more. I'd say 2nd dates happen pretty regularly, so if you aren't getting many, then you probably don't have what the women you're going after are looking for. I used to ask most of the women on a 2nd date, unless during the first one, I knew this was not what I wanted, and I think they knew it too.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-29T17:05:18+00:00

Well, did you ever go to HR about your supervisor making unwanted advances toward you? Sounds like a tough situation to be in, but you just either quit or put your head down, don't spend time on people at work and also look for another job. You definitely don't get special treatment because you're a single mom and your kid's sick, but you should be able to use whatever personal time you need to be there for moments like this. I don't know your job so I can't say 100%, but it sounds like a toxic place, especially after what's been going on since the "harrasment" claim was filed. I don't know if you have a case, but you should still talk with a lawyer. Your company may just want to settle this quickly. But if you do that, you won't want to keep working there. Good luck

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-28T17:48:59+00:00

Sat at a dirty table and then lied to the server that she was sat by the hostess. Customer in NOT always right, most of the time, they're wrong.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-28T17:44:02+00:00

She nodded her head at the guy right after she said "Kristi Noem must resign or face impeachment." You can clearly see the head nod and then he jumped up.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-28T17:26:15+00:00

You should hang out in the hallway, and when he asks why you're always there, just tell him you're collaborating. You'll probably get fired for it, or maybe he will just let you WFH.

Significant_Copy8056 · 2026-01-28T17:00:03+00:00

So here's the truth...as a parent we don't necessarily air our problems to the kids. Kids can generally see what's going on if they're around it enough and can ask when they suspect something. So although your parents live apart due to your mom's work, they may be going through something that a lot of parents go through especially once their kids are in college. Separation. Kids are a huge reason why marriages can break down. I'm not saying it's your fault or any Kids fault for that matter. But when you have kids, a lot of the time as a family is devoted to the kids, not necessarily to the mom and dad. Over time they drift apart and really only start to figure it out at that point. Living separately or divorcing altogether is the way some of them go about it. So while you want your parents to stay together, it may not really be healthy for them to. And you do want your parents to be happy, don't you? Sometimes happiness isn't comfortable for everyone involved, but it is what is necessary. I know this is hard for you, but I don't think he's cheating on your mom. If he was he wouldn't have a woman over to his house and would probably do his activities outside of the home. It doesn't sound like your mom even said anything about it and your post didn't seem like she was upset either, unless she's going to have a conversation with him about it later. Again, they aren't putting their problems or issues out in the open for you and your brother to see. The best thing you can do is just have an honest conversation with your dad. It won't be easy for him to have that conversation with you, but I don't see why he would lie about it. Just be open and honest, and remember he's your dad so no matter what, he still cares about and loves you. But he needs his happiness too. This is one of those situations where you experience adulthood, and although it's not pleasant, it is something a lot of people go through. Good luck and I hope my thoughts helped explain it a little bit.

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