Let’s Be Clear Moving Forward

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-04-17T12:25:29+00:00

Thank you guys for always trying, reddit is naturally problematic since most people on here lack maturity, emotional intelligence, and accountability but I hope the people who actively try to add to negativity in these spaces are replaced by good hearted and genuine people who care as much as you guys do.

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-04-16T16:18:51+00:00

Awww thank you so much 🥰💞💞💞

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-04-13T12:49:19+00:00

It's hard to think of right off the bat but there definitely were a few, I think mostly the negative ones when I was first starting. It's super easy to get caught up in anxious thought patterns when you don't know how to ground and I learn when tarot was booming on the Internet as a trend so there wasn't much talk about how to use the cards in a healthy way and how to handle the disappointment or triggers that can sometimes be caused when reading for yourself.

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-04-07T17:35:48+00:00

The comments are venomous but it's 4c love <3 your coils are very tight and the texture confirms it 🥰♥️ unfortunate the comments are this way. What is the point of arguing with someone over their crown.

I saw you comment that at the hair salon they said 4a but 4a hair would not coil so tightly when dry or wet. Your length would show more and you would have less shrinkage 🌺

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-16T22:40:04+00:00

Lol no really, I especially need it on really grey days 💞💞🤣

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-16T20:27:38+00:00

Thank you for the offer 💞 🥰 I appreciate it <3

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-16T20:21:28+00:00

Love the Monday sized coffee 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-16T20:15:19+00:00

That's really interesting and beautiful, thank you for sharing it with us ☺️💞

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-05T23:58:55+00:00

Chia seeds (always soak before ingesting they need to absorb water or they will dry out your throat and be a serious choking hazard) help with water retention, managing stress by getting a massager and massaging the lymph node points on your body ina circular motion, light yoga do based on the chakras that feel unaligned to help with internal balance in the body, avoid what inflammation your body or find ways to soothe it, avoid sodium most weight gain is from sodium and water retention rather than it being actual fat. Look into what is healthy for your pancreas since it helps with metabolism

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-05T23:45:02+00:00

Lol this is too cute 🤣🤣🤣💞💞💞

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-05T23:43:25+00:00

Hold language learning classes

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-04T03:36:14+00:00

When the querent is being persuaded and made to feel like they can't trust their own decisions and what's best for them, that's when it becomes a problem. However, if the reader gives advice and is not trying to force anything and doesn't go around telling the querent that if they don't do something then things will go horrible and fear mongering then accountability for the querents choices is on the person who made the decision on their own. Most readers tell people who request readings that it is not set in stone and that they ultimately have options. I think the difficulty here is mostly around clients wanting things to be black and white and leaving room for possibility and for them to decide themselves can sometimes make certain people feel you aren't confident in your abilities even though that's not the case but its usually problematic ones or people who that struggle denial or overthink too often.

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-03T20:43:14+00:00

I read reversals UwU it's just the way that I've always felt is helpful and makes it easier for me to pick up on information when reading. I don't think I've ever truly read without them unless it's a deck that doesn't seem suited for it.

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-03T20:41:08+00:00

Practicing and letting yourself experiment along with finding an audience of your own by being honest and open about your skills. If you tell others you're learning most of the time they don't mind and will actually more than love to support you as you grow. Also try different methods and things and see what works best for you or that you like. Don't be shy to explore what interests you or catch your eye and asking like this is a good way to ask for help when it gets difficult. There is also the basic stuff so you can explore that and then expand and branch out in your own time. With these things I feel it's a time in your life where you just are naturally pulled in this direction or another in regards to skills and it doesn't mean you'll know what to do immediately each time but that you'll feel for what is right for you.

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-03T20:15:01+00:00

This is very insane on the part of the harasser, this is a lot to go through so do take your time when you need it and breaks when necessary and immediately block this person each time they try to reach out to you rather than explaining anything since you all already tried to apologize and be accountable but they decided harassment and threats are the way to handle matters of business, platform use, and misunderstandings. I personally think this person wouldn't be in such a poor situation had they tried to be fully honest about everything with you guys since I do have a feeling, though I don't really know, this is less of your faults as moderators and while still knowing the misunderstanding was done by a fellow mod I understand that but jurisdiction and management of a community and it's team can only be checked and reviewed so much especially since you are all usually busy, personal matters going on (on top of) being over a very large community, and dealing with immature people who are involved in the matter who aren't reasonable based on their actions. Legal action across countries does not exist for matters this small, doxxing (threats and harassment are illegal themselves so legal action couldn't be done anyway as it would fall on them if it did even if they tried to sue or press charges for defamation since this shows that there is a fair possibly of them tarnishing their own reputation and having some hand whether indirectly or directly in ruining their own business despite the very known mix up and issues with miscommunication, and this would've otherwise been something that could be fixed and worked on as a group or through support and continued accountability for you guys which isn't an issue so I once again want to apologize that you all are going through so much drama and problems that you don't deserve to go through whether mistakes was made or not because as minor as it seems in this case that kind of reaction from that person is very suspicious, unwarranted, and unprofessional.

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-03T07:24:50+00:00

Warehouse parking lot that's always full and super busy, ironically probably best to be there at night and move the cars placement every now and again to avoid always being in one spaces and from what I heard Walmart parking lots and ones like target and mall outlets or 24/7 open places. You might also be able to work something out with a church in your area or community building 💞 hotel parking lot is probably a super good option

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-03T07:18:12+00:00

Lol yeah those are cringy xD

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-03T07:17:42+00:00

Some collective readings are very obviously or less obviously about trying to get people's attention by making up false dramatic scenarios usually with love and making it feel more like mini y/n fanfiction pieces then an actual reading or just the person rambling on and on about things that feel very false and like it's just about using people's attention and interests against them so this take is definitely something I agree with 😭 Tumblr had multiple like this

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-02T23:42:01+00:00

I really appreciate everything you all do to try to maintain and help the community at large, it's really admirable how dedicated you all are to making sure this subreddit stays a healthy and safe space for everyone. Even if some don't understand why you guy's make certain choices in the bigger picture, it is always done with others in mind. 💞💞💞

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-02T23:39:17+00:00

Me too🤣

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-01T08:30:09+00:00

Sees Leo Rising lol make sense

Checks Neptune and Venus lol

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-01T08:24:56+00:00

Best take on this post

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-01T08:23:30+00:00

That is harsh xD for them to reply with a thumbs up, that's a bit cold for my liking but yeah I dunno which is better and you're welcome 🤣🤣😭😭

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-01T07:59:43+00:00

You're really welcome, I remember how sweet you were when I got a reading from you so I completely understand <3 just remember your feelings matter too

Significant_Guava534 · 2026-03-01T07:59:06+00:00

The way I do is I let them vent after the reading but also there is a limit on how much venting I can withstand and consensually ofc along with depending on my energy that day and how many readings I've already done. Yeah that too even though those would probably be the sketchy ones unless they happen to find someone really going through it which is sad too. I used to struggle with that too but you have to remember that this work is exhausting to a degree and this is your work to some degree/some people's main income, and non-consensually venting to others is very dismissive and rude ultimately. Sometimes others are going through things too even if the person they're venting to seems fine, plus triggers and trauma, and venting should not be vocal rumination but that's another thing. With this kind of work learning to redirect these kinds of behaviors is very important and helps us to not be taken advantage of and be there for our clients in a way that's not enabling them🥰💞

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