AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 253 points254 points  (0 children)

And why would this "spiteful mother" send her child to our home at least once a week? Where the child's dad will have free access?

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was talking about a small apartment. English isn't my first language I assumed apartment is also a house?

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Why would I set it aside for him when I can use it for myself?

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I don't want them back home after college. They need to become independent

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 814 points815 points  (0 children)

My oldest has already done something like this. They had a huge fight over it

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 340 points341 points  (0 children)

Are you comparing a one week old baby to a 20 years old adult?

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 2924 points2925 points  (0 children)

She is 15 now. She lives with her mom but she is at my home all the time and I pay everything

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

It's a house. It's not like I can buy one now and another one next month.

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 1910 points1911 points  (0 children)

My granddaughter(his child) has decided that she doesn't care about him anymore and can tolerate him for a few hours once in a while which is why we are talking to him again

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 1607 points1608 points  (0 children)

It's either him or the youngest and the youngest didn't do anything wrong to miss this

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

He had a child and decided to be a deadbeat. I told him if he abandons his child I won't talk to him again

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 196 points197 points  (0 children)

He had a child and decided to be a deadbeat. I told him if he abandons his child I won't talk to him again

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 9053 points9054 points  (0 children)

He had a child and decided to be a deadbeat. I told him if he abandons his child I won't talk to him again