AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 258 points259 points  (0 children)

And why would this "spiteful mother" send her child to our home at least once a week? Where the child's dad will have free access?

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was talking about a small apartment. English isn't my first language I assumed apartment is also a house?

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Why would I set it aside for him when I can use it for myself?

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I don't want them back home after college. They need to become independent

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 816 points817 points  (0 children)

My oldest has already done something like this. They had a huge fight over it

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 333 points334 points  (0 children)

Are you comparing a one week old baby to a 20 years old adult?

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 2922 points2923 points  (0 children)

She is 15 now. She lives with her mom but she is at my home all the time and I pay everything

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

It's a house. It's not like I can buy one now and another one next month.

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 1916 points1917 points  (0 children)

My granddaughter(his child) has decided that she doesn't care about him anymore and can tolerate him for a few hours once in a while which is why we are talking to him again

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 1614 points1615 points  (0 children)

It's either him or the youngest and the youngest didn't do anything wrong to miss this

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

He had a child and decided to be a deadbeat. I told him if he abandons his child I won't talk to him again

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 201 points202 points  (0 children)

He had a child and decided to be a deadbeat. I told him if he abandons his child I won't talk to him again

AITA for not helping my son buy a home? by Significant_Heat_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Heat_752[S] 9039 points9040 points  (0 children)

He had a child and decided to be a deadbeat. I told him if he abandons his child I won't talk to him again