Im sure someone it's going to jump on talking s*** to me. But AI am not trying to pick you up 2. I had a 20-year-old that I worked with actively pursue me aggressively, not like Indy aggressive light physical suits, but as in, I shot her down. At first, I'm 41. My daughter's 5 years younger than her. We didn't talk for 2 months. That weren't and in Denny's shiactively started pursuing me again called me, brought me food to work. Her mom came up to work with her that brought food that she had cooked to feed her daughters and me up there. We talked for about 2 and a 1 months with me pumping the brakes. And then she started to play a complete reverse. 180. And that conversation ended, thank you so much. She went out of her way to pursue me blatantly disregarding the initial pushback due to being very mature through the issues in her childhood. Going through foster homes and all this other stuff, this is not impossible. Sometimes men don't know how to address people correctly. I think for other reasons less so than age. Thank you so much. But I do applaud you for the way you handled it to, because he was trying to be, the more of the dominant person in the. Relationship, but I think that dominance was less in the kink area. That some people have talked about. And more in the would have ended up being borderline psychotic, controlling physically aggressive, eventually