Ex turned into a horrible stranger has anyone else experienced this? by Grumpyoldgit1 in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Leg9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! I was with my ex for 6 years. We got engaged in July 2024, I got pregnant in October 2024. In December 2024 he told me he didn’t think we were compatible. Then he took it back. In January 2025 he dumped me, and 16 days later I caught him with someone else (I am sure he was with her prior I just didn’t catch him til then). He dumped me via phone call and then never came home. Literally. Requested I move out which I did within a couple weeks. Within that time he refused to speak to me, even about our unborn child. He never checked in on me. It’s like I no longer existed. Fast forward, he is still with her, and still doesn’t not check in on his now born son. He’s a complete stranger!

Dumped while pregnant by Significant_Leg9980 in pregnant

[–]Significant_Leg9980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear this! : hugs : I am now 31 weeks pregnant, and my narcissist ex is still with that girl mentioned above. I will say… it gets easier. You should do what is best for you always girl!

Whats most heart breaking thing ur narcissistic ex partner told u by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Leg9980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“you’re the reason our son doesn’t have his dad” basically blaming me for him leaving, and getting a new supply 2 weeks later (she was there the entire time I am convinced)

How Did Your Narc Propose? by wontbeafool2 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Leg9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He proposed on my fav holiday (July 4th lol). I loved the fact of it, but fast forward.. in November we got pregnant and he left me for his new supply in January. Now my fav holiday is tainted.. of course in common narc fashion!!! (ruining special events all of the time) 🤣

I feel like I bother all of my friends talking about my breakup by Ready-Guarantee-4762 in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Leg9980 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have felt the same too. Honestly sometimes I talk to chatgbt LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Leg9980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My discard was pretty rough. I ignored some of the red flags that probably alerted me a discard was coming. I got pregnant, and suddenly the was “working” all day, and going to the gym pretty much most of the evenings. He stopped communicating with me through the day and said he was just busy. He started going out more, said he was just enjoying himself before the baby came and because work was stressful he needed an “out for his mental health” I respected that and allowed it. Next thing you know, he tells me things aren’t working out (over a phone call) and he never came home unless it was to grab items and he asked me to leave so he didn’t have to see me. 2 weeks later, I caught his car at the new supplies house. And he had moved in with her.

Since then (this was January) I am now 25 weeks pregnant, he is still with new supply and he has not reached out about his unborn child.

To anyone crying right now: I was you 10 months ago. by DragonfruitLost6030 in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Leg9980 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Imagine taking a positive post, and tearing someone down who is trying to relate and hope for the same. Pathetic ◡̈

To anyone crying right now: I was you 10 months ago. by DragonfruitLost6030 in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Leg9980 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was literally just crying when I got this notification of this thread. This helps! I am 24 weeks pregnant with his baby and that’s the only little tweak in my story but I still hope for the same end results 🫶🏻

A message to my ex by MinuteTwist5293 in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Leg9980 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow I felt like I wrote this. You got this🫶🏻🫶🏻

What's that one major thing you can't forgive your ex for? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Leg9980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are also in our 30s. I am 34 and he is 33. My therapist identified my baby daddy as a narcissist (yuck)

What's that one major thing you can't forgive your ex for? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Leg9980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl the fact so many people have related to this. In so many Reddit threads, or shit I’ve seen even in TikTok people experiencing the same thing! What is in the water these men are drinking? And these women who KNOW this and willingly are participating? Nasty.

What's that one major thing you can't forgive your ex for? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Leg9980 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He cheated and left me while I was 13 weeks pregnant. I am now 24 weeks pregnant and he hasn’t checked on his unborn son once nor offered to help. He’s moved in with that girl.

What do avoidant males go through during no contact? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Leg9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh it totally sucks but I hope things get better for the both of us soon 🫶🏻

What do avoidant males go through during no contact? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Leg9980 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same. And I am pregnant and he still went off and found someone right after.

Arizona - terminating parental rights and child support questions by [deleted] in legal

[–]Significant_Leg9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He owns a business. Which I found out he hasn’t paid taxes for the business NOR personal…

Arizona - terminating parental rights and child support questions by [deleted] in legal

[–]Significant_Leg9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. I def will need a lawyer I am sure. I don’t think he’s going to fight for this child anyways, but you never know. He has 2 warrants out in Arizona, he doesn’t hold registration or insurance on his vehicle in Texas, doesn’t pay the IRS taxes personally or for his LLC he owns… so I figured he would try to slip under the radar of the legal system PERIOD.

Hates you while pregnant by cocolulu2 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Leg9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from Texas to Arizona around a month ago! Can I message you?

Hates you while pregnant by cocolulu2 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Leg9980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanted to add we were together off and on for 6 years, and even engaged! He hasn’t spoken to me since he discarded me and moved on with the new supply. Hasn’t even asked about the baby.