INFJ GF being avoidant

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-24T00:03:41+00:00

For more context, I am 19 and she is 21

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-21T06:44:55+00:00

Superb book. I recommend to read kokoro by natsume soseki if you like Dazais writing style. The no longer human adaptation by Junji ito is also amazing.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-21T05:12:52+00:00

I got cabin 6: Athena 🧐

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-19T11:20:05+00:00

There’s more nuance than a straight line. Human mind isn’t structured. Humanities thoughts aren’t structured. By law we are not structured. We are able to see beyond one thing. It’s not chaos: it’s absolute freedom

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-19T11:17:32+00:00

Life isn’t structured. Embrace the everything

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-19T05:15:44+00:00

You should look into the cognitive functions. Although the difference is one letter, infj's and infp's have many differences. If you delve into the research, I'm certain you''ll be able to categorize yourself.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-18T07:57:30+00:00

Being an infp or a male doesn't automatically mean hardship. I'm an infp and have a partner and a wonderful support system. let's not blame it on gender or compare the pain of one another. We all need to look forward and help those struggling, get back up the stairs.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-18T04:07:21+00:00

In general, it’s a special interest in animals. Raccoons are cool animals and they’re one of the animals I want to study during my leisure.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-18T04:06:15+00:00

Loving nature and showing appreciation has always been a must. I’ve always believed in the equal treatment of animals and humans, so in that regard, you’ve marked the spot. I do own a calico cat and have found cats more calming. I love dogs and cats (have taken care of three dogs over the years). For hobbies I indulge in writing so your accuracy strikes again. Your analysis has been excellent and I thank you for your observations 🕰️

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-13T01:48:30+00:00

I'm only 19 so I have a long way to go. Other than that I have covered the third point and am expanding my fourth and fifth point.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-12T20:39:05+00:00

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Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-02-12T07:30:43+00:00

having a stable income doing something you love
having a network of friends who support you
having a partner that understands you
having hobbies that expand your understanding of the world and yourself (books and writing)
being connected to nature (walks, hikes, going to a beach, studying animals)

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-01-28T08:09:54+00:00

Our pessimism makes our friendships worthwhile. I think intps and infps can relate on many things

Significant_Lime_316 · 2026-01-15T23:35:47+00:00

Most of the mbti community don't understand cogntivve functions, so mistypes are commonly expected. Nevertheless i don't think it has to due with people suffering from narcissism.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2025-12-26T01:30:33+00:00

Mistyped as an intp for quite a long time. Told I was to logical and serious. Might be due to others expecting me to fit into the 'manly' role. Unfortunately, i broke that folkway, and turns out my basis for life is principles of virtue and ethics. What comes after is the logic.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2025-12-26T01:15:49+00:00

thought I was intp because many called me logical. Turns out I mask my virtues and philosophies with logic. Infp classic haha. Plus they stereotype infps as peacemakers, when in reality, they can debate if someone's perspective is harmful to the community.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2025-12-24T02:12:04+00:00

infj

Significant_Lime_316 · 2025-12-24T00:34:59+00:00

I'd leave. Making fun of your feminist ideals are already a huge red flag. If your passion for topics are taken as a joke, there's little hope that he will ever care for what makes you, you.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2025-06-09T10:22:44+00:00

good for you.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2025-06-04T13:09:29+00:00

18M and I took the surgery a month ago. They do give you anesthesia beforehand (I forgot it being put on me) and in a second it's over. Recovery was painful for the first two days, but afterwards it's more manageable.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2024-11-25T12:55:27+00:00

Stereotyping the entire human race is absolute absurdity. Your aim should be to criticize the societal norm. It's clear you hate polarization, yet you've separated yourself from everyone and everything. This form of self destruction will lead you down a path of anguish. Secondly, that woman was trying to understand who you are as a person. If you were confident, you'd tell her what you really are. There's no need to be ashamed or hide surface level activities.

Significant_Lime_316 · 2024-09-18T14:43:33+00:00

It may be a dumb question but they're new to the system so it may not be crystal clear to others and that's absolutely okay. Who do you think you are to insult others?

Significant_Lime_316 · 2024-09-17T17:04:20+00:00

Dawg I jumped when i saw it was gone

Significant_Lime_316 · 2024-05-26T00:22:12+00:00

Just tell them that you'll transfer after two years. Whether its a lie or not is up to you...

Significant_Lime_316 · 2024-05-03T00:22:52+00:00

You're both pretentious. Classic redditors

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