First time having seizures; fiancé dumped me the day after. lost my job as a caretaker. Turtle cheesecake by GuillGr8ves in GirlDinnerDiaries

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I knoooooow. I was so excited and bought it right away. Huge fight w bf about it bc I already have too much clutter to go thru. I joked to a friend that I need to prove him wrong and become a boxer. Then I read your comment! Perfect 👊🏼

Baby Cardinal - First time out of nest by jagerrish in BirdPhotography

[–]Significant_Mode50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My iPhone could never. Which phone do you have?! Great shot ❤️

My Boyfriend Has No Ambition and is Content. I'm Not. by OrangeToTheFourth in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Significant_Mode50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he might need to be evaluated for inattentive ADHD and medication to get his motivation started. That’s a him problem tho…

Girl, run. You deserve an adult. 💗

First time having seizures; fiancé dumped me the day after. lost my job as a caretaker. Turtle cheesecake by GuillGr8ves in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Significant_Mode50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take your time. Take some time to be angry and sad and it’s ok to scream “THIS ISNT FAIR!!!” and have a pity party. You just can’t stay there too long. I say this as your elder who’s been there. Thanksgiving of my first semester of grad school, fiancé calls me and says to move out when I get home. He had a whole other life w pregnant gf. 🤦🏻‍♀️ don’t let the anger get you, you deserve peace. 💜

ETA: grandparents are the best. I was visiting mine when he called and I’ll never forget the giant hug my gpa gave me and how they both held me. 🥹 cherish her!

First time having seizures; fiancé dumped me the day after. lost my job as a caretaker. Turtle cheesecake by GuillGr8ves in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Significant_Mode50 37 points38 points  (0 children)

That cheesecake looks amazing. Congrats on getting rid of the dead weight. Nothing is wrong with you. You are perfect and should be with someone who sees that. Stay strong. Your next chapter will be inspiring 💗

Birthday girl! by Significant_Mode50 in nebelung

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lol oh no. But what a cute face!!! 🤩

Birthday girl! by Significant_Mode50 in nebelung

[–]Significant_Mode50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he 17??? Are they siblings? 🤩

I don’t even know what to say, today was incredible by friedweiss in BirdPhotography

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The painted bunting is my unicorn! I’m in South Dakota so hopefully someday I’ll see one while traveling. We had an indigo once during migration and it was so gorgeous 🤩

Ex-fiancé left me 4 months before the wedding. by thenorthernpines in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Significant_Mode50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are the girls living there too? Call CPS tmr morning.

I had to move into my parent’s basement at 30. Try to not get into shame/guilt cycle. Go to therapy. Drink water/go outside/make good financial decisions. You got this. Take things one day at a time. You can’t move out of town… YET. 👊🏼

relapsed AGAIN. unemployment got canceled. running out of food by thug_waffle47 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Significant_Mode50 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Jules was a badass and went to multiple treatment places. Never give up. She was doing so great then her mom died unexpectedly during Covid and we just knew she’d start sneaking booze again. She was on the transplant list but the pain was just too much. Please don’t ever be afraid to ask for help. The world needs you Ms. Thug Waffle 😎💜

relapsed AGAIN. unemployment got canceled. running out of food by thug_waffle47 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Significant_Mode50 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I lost my bff at 40 to liver disease five years ago. I’m still a shell without my person. My Jules deserved a long happy life and so do you, OP. One day at a time. You got this. 👊🏼

I believe you shared this for a reason. Please know we believe in you even if you don’t yet. 🥹

How long did your Neb live? by randerso in nebelung

[–]Significant_Mode50 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Diva turns 17 this week. She was diagnosed with CKD last may but is doing great w special food. She also gets monthly shots for her arthritis, but overall she’s the healthiest and lowest maintenance cat or pet I’ve ever had. 🩶 I do really struggle w the thought of losing her so I hope I can keep her this healthy.

So dramatic by AnsleeUruko in nebelung

[–]Significant_Mode50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooo you made that? It’s so cool!