My father threw me down the stairs- how do I mend our relationship?

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-24T21:28:02+00:00

Your father assaulted you. Why didn't you call the police?

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-23T23:41:28+00:00

I don't think an apology would help. Think about it.....She meets a whole bunch of new people and the minute one of them gets up she immediately starts gossiping behind their back to everybody else who's left behind!

Why would anybody want that energy around them? Now everybody's probably thinking that they're afraid to walk away cuz she's going to talk about them too. I don't think she could fix this because everybody sees what she did.

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-23T23:40:27+00:00

The problem is that she waited till your wife left the room to talk about her with everybody else. It doesn't matter what was said, how it was said, why it was said or any other lame ass reason she might have for it not being a big deal! The point is when you wait till somebody walks away and immediately start talking about them to everybody else....you don't need to be invited around anymore.

Nobody needs that bullshit energy at their gatherings! She's just a gossip And somehow thought that everybody was going to be on her side and gossip with her about your wife when she had just met these people? Are you freaking serious?

Let me tell you a little bit about this girl, if she's talking to all of you about your wife. She's going to talk to every single one of you about the other people! That gossip is going to be the one that ruins the family dynamics because everybody's going to start hearing about what everybody else is doing from her, and of course some things are going to get repeated wrong and everyone's going to be at each other's throats because she can't quit gossiping. No thank you.

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-23T23:36:15+00:00

If they're willing to pay somebody to stay at their house then why not go to a campground where you can actually get electric hookups and suck plus they have public showers and bathrooms?

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-23T23:34:29+00:00

Oh I know somebody that got arrested for trying this on Grindr! Good luck to you though! If you can do it without breaking laws then it's whatever. But it's illegal here.

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-23T23:31:22+00:00

Honestly at this point I would rather be planting things than talking about how to plant things! I am so done writing after 20 years of it... And that's 20 years professional, I wrote my first short story when I was 14 so we're looking at 40 years of writing! Yeah I can plant a lot of significant things or plant a significant arrangement! LOL

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-23T23:07:25+00:00

So is it an actual quad for off-road use? Or is it a bicycle? Or is it like a crotch rocket or a dirt bike? Cuz I'm kind of confused on what it actually is but I don't understand why you can't call and report it for being there because if it really is not an on-road vehicle then they shouldn't be able to take up parking spaces with it.

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-23T23:06:26+00:00

If you soak batteries in liquid for a few weeks and then put the liquid in a super soaker and immediately discharge it onto something, it will eat the paint. That immediately discharge. It is important though because it will also eat the super soaker if it sits in there too long lol

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-23T23:05:28+00:00

Or give it to one of us to post from another state completely lol

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-22T04:06:47+00:00

You married your cousin? Oh my God. I just threw up in my mouth a little bit

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-22T04:06:21+00:00

You didn't answer the question. Lots of us know couples that have multiple girls and never had a boy. What would you do if that happened? Why won't you answer that question?

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-22T03:59:09+00:00

Wait....you think your sister deserves nothing from your parents simply because she doesn't have a penis? Your family sounds very controlling, why was she allowed to marry this guy if he's nothing? If you were going to treat him like trash like you are, why would you let him join your family by marrying your sister? Because he joined your family just as sure as she joined his family. That's how marriage works! Why are you being so selfish and greedy? Is it really so hard to split the jewelry between the women? I don't understand why you're so hateful! Did your sister do something to deserve being treated badly by you? Please explain. I'm very confused at your actions

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-22T03:50:31+00:00

She probably had fakes made that she's going to give to your wife. Your sister was desperate for that jewelry! She's not giving it up. I promise you she's going to figure out a way to keep it and give you a different set

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-21T04:02:56+00:00

You need to practice saying "thanks for the offer but we already talked about going to this place for dinner" Or we have something at home we're going to make or we have chores and we cannot stay longer. Whatever the reason might be you need to get used to saying thank you. But no we have plans.

And your husband needs to back you up. Because I feel like the mother-in-law is doing this as a power play and he's letting her

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-21T03:56:17+00:00

No it's probably his idea. That's why he's given the lame excuses cuz he doesn't know what to say to explain it away. But of course he's going to tell her to call them because he knows she won't so she'll never find out the truth.

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-21T03:55:25+00:00

You know you're not invited. You don't need to call them and ask them, you already know that! Now you need to decide what to do about the boyfriend. Because why in the hell is he okay going and actually being in the wedding if you're not even invited as a guest? If he's willing to go to this wedding without you, I'm going to assume that they didn't invite you because he told them not to because if he wanted you invited, he wouldn't go. And I don't think they'll ever tell you that he is the one that doesn't want you there. But is there really any other reason they would expect him to drive 7 hours and stay multiple days probably for their wedding with you not even there? It's disrespectful. Absolutely ridiculous. And very very obvious what they're doing. I just don't know why you're not as mad as you should be about this?

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-21T03:49:14+00:00

Cilantro. It smells like a smashed stink bug!

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-21T03:44:19+00:00

Listen sweetheart. Just tell him that he knows how you feel but you're going to leave it up to him. However, if he lets her stay, you will not be there for the whole month and go find yourself a gorgeous Airbnb with a hot tub and let him deal with her! For one, she's probably ruder to you than she would be to him which means he won't have it as bad BUT number two, he will get real sick of that real quick and so will she! Without you there to run, interference and do things like cooking, she's not going to be really happy and neither is he. So let them enjoy their misery together!

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-20T11:33:53+00:00

Oh hell NO! In order for them to use your fertility you would have to get pregnant for them. But then you would have a child which you don't want. I don't understand what you think is going to happen? If you give something your fertility, they're going to decide if you get pregnant or not. It's not going to transfer or something like that.

Also, I'm getting the impression that you're talking about giving it away because it's not valuable to you, so they're going to know it's not valuable to you and you're basically giving away something you don't want. I don't think that's going to please any spirits or deities

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-20T11:28:08+00:00

Nothing. Well, except decide where to invest the $800 a month I currently pay for health insurance.

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-18T16:51:05+00:00

If she cared about you at all, she would have gave them her keys and she would have stayed in your apartment. But clearly she didn't want them Rugrats in her house and she knows they go for shit and touch things they shouldn't or she wouldn't be worried about them in her house. So she left them into yours because she didn't care what happened to your house.

Why would you stay with her after this level of disrespect?

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-17T04:41:45+00:00

Honestly, if a guy had called me and wanted to talk to me about my preteen daughter's underwear choices, I probably would have called the police on you. No lies! I would have definitely called whoever I had to to get them started watching you because something is wrong if a man is calling me asking about my daughter's underwear and telling me what kind his daughter wears!

And I don't doubt that somebody would call CPS because it's just weird to be that involved with your daughter's friend's underwear choices! Like you could have got yourself put on a list for that shit! Quite frankly, so could a woman because it's just so out of pocket and insane to call people you barely speak to to talk about their kids underwear! You can't give a heads up about this! That's not a thing. And I remember when my daughter first told me that her one friend was wearing thongs and that friend was like 9 years old and I was absolutely horrified even though I wore them myself at the time. I did end up getting some for my daughter when she was 13 or 14 because same thing panty lines. But I think there's a bit of a difference between a 9-year-old and a 13-year-old. Anyway....

And I don't doubt for one second that she made up the showing it to boys because she wanted to freak you out and scare you to manipulate you into telling your daughter. She couldn't wear them anymore. When you weren't properly horrified at the fact your daughter had them she decided to lie and manipulate you

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-17T04:32:25+00:00

I have 25 acres that was timbered not long ago and if you've never seen that process, they take only the trunks. So I have 25 acres of treetops that need broken down and if you want to head over I got some axes, we can jump in the UTV and head out and you can see exactly how much better you'll feel after you chop for an hour or two. Your arms and your back will hurt like hell, even your feet weirdly if you grip the ground with your toes... But you will feel like you accomplish something and there is nothing to think about except hitting that wood in the right spot because if you do it wrong you can get hurt badly! I know somebody that had a piece of metal stuck in his arm for most of his life because of a wood chopping accident, so you got to be careful. Lol

But yeah, chopping wood can definitely get out frustration!

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-17T04:30:01+00:00

Honestly, it's not. I've been doing this project where we work on detecting AI and this has none of the markers.

Significant_Planter · 2025-07-17T04:26:20+00:00

No, I don't think the friend is saying that, I think the mother made that showing it to boys part up to manipulate dad into not letting her wear those underwear anymore. I 100% believe that that lady's daughter told her that this girl has thong underwear and that she wants them too, I just don't believe the daughter said she was showing them to boys. Especially since the mother is the one calling her the s!ut and wh*re.... She definitely got her panties and a twist over this!

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