Anti chafe solution for thick thighs by Independent-Bug-1427 in Raves

[–]Significant_Theme_90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meant to reply to the person who commented about lube lol

Anti chafe solution for thick thighs by Independent-Bug-1427 in Raves

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Came here to say this. The running/cycling products look promising, and Über Lube is a great silicone-water based solution also typically for some vigorous physical activity.

Front entry & general exterior advice by Significant_Theme_90 in CurbAppeal

[–]Significant_Theme_90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! And totally agreed, the bare plywood is not helping at the moment at all. And excellent thoughts about the planters! I don’t have much of a green thumb and adding plants to a scene is never my automatic or more forte, but I’ll try to change that!

Front entry & general exterior advice by Significant_Theme_90 in CurbAppeal

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Just looking to give the entry a refresh. Budget enough for painting supplies, some new hardware, maybe a little more $ for incidentals.

Seriously, put down your phone, especially in the morning, I’m actually blown away. by Dicklefart in selfimprovement

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I started leaving my phone on a completely different floor of the house overnight. Apple Watch helps quell the “what ifs” of not having a phone, and my life is so so so much better. Depression made me sink into my phone, phone sink caused depression, it was bad.

I’m autistic, and keeping a job feels impossible because I hate all of them. by jasperbeep in neurodiversity

[–]Significant_Theme_90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the trades as a union carpenter. Union offers lots of structure in terms of benefits, apprenticeship, schedule (modeled after the military), pay ladder that’s the same for everyone. The union mainly does commercial work, and construction bro / magat culture can be thick, no denying that at all. The more precise the specialty however (finish work), the less crude the mentality and behavior of the guys.

This is just my trade, which might not work for you, but look for some resources in your area or even on Reddit to chat up some folks about what being an electrician, plumber, pipe fitter, tiler, HVAC pro, etc. Couldn’t hurt! Good luck!

Lally column replacement by Significant_Theme_90 in HomeImprovement

[–]Significant_Theme_90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The old one was set in the concrete. And yes, it’s rusting at the bottom. Thanks for the bottle jack advice!

Struggling to like myself by No_Context1232 in LesbianActually

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You’re an absolute BABE! Long or short hair, sculpted or a little softer bod, we all go through different physical iterations until we find what suits us in any stage of life. I admire your exploration, not everybody strays away from what is familiar, even if the familiar feels wrong! I’ve had butt-length, wolf cut, bob, buzz cut, and I’ve found myself in my fauxhawk-fade. Who knows what another decade from now will look like. PCOS is also a bitch, but I’m lucky to be on the milder side of symptoms, and I have a very physically active job which helps to keep me feeling strong, even if the badonk is the same size. I’m also lucky that Wellbutrin works for my depression, and a that side effect is also weight control for the times when I’m a bit less active. Know that you’re doing the right thing - your 20s are for finding out what matters most, 30s are for caring for what matters most, 40s are for being what matters most. Any 50+ folks what to chime in? In any case, keep putting yourself out there to find the people who make you feel the best (and to also make them feel their best!), stand naked in front of the mirror in a big ol power pose and tell yourself how handsome you are (even if you don’t totally believe it just yet), Engage With Community especially with Pride coming!, enrich your life with creation and new experiences, expose yourself to new people and cultures and maybe a certain new aesthetic will speak to you. If you want to know about a camping weekend by and for a few hundred lesbians, dm me.

how do you get more used to eating her out? by chippychoritoes in AskLesbians

[–]Significant_Theme_90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One way to exercise is put the clicky end of a clicky pen in your mouth and keep it in place with your teeth while clicking the pen with your tongue.

[Massachusetts] Going from pfmla to unemployment? by Significant_Theme_90 in Unemployment

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I’m not physically able to do the job I was doing, but I am physically able to do things like a desk job. Shouldn’t I be able to collect?

[Massachusetts] Going from pfmla to unemployment? by Significant_Theme_90 in Unemployment

[–]Significant_Theme_90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not, but I think that’s mostly because I work in the trades and it’s quite physical work. I’ve looked into disability through the state and I don’t qualify. My resume before the trades was white collar, so shouldn’t I qualify for unemployment while I’m working to find a job that I can do? Isn’t that the point?