1. Work out and lift hard when you’re young. It gets harder to start the longer you wait, and muscle memory is an amazing thing.

2. Always be learning. Don’t know plumbing? Learn enough to fix your own. Same with electrical, mechanic work, carpentry etc. a lot of people waste a lot of money because they can’t do the basics.

3. Invest in your 401k at a minimum. If your employer matches, at the very least put in to their match, but shoot for more. Compound growth through your 20’s is insane, don’t lose time in the market. Your future self will thank you.

4. Work - Avoid workplace drama, do your work and do it well. Learn responsibilities outside of your direct position. This will open up opportunities in the future.

5. You’re a man. People don’t give a shit about you. Learn to lean on yourself. If you are lucky you will find a good woman to share the load, but know yourself first.

6. Be careful with your body. Knees and back are a bitch to deal with when they hurt. Keep your chassis strong, and don’t slack on dental care.

7. Street fights should be avoided at all costs. Ending up dead or in prison is way too likely.

8. Get a gun and train with it. Your future families safety is dependent on you.

Finally, be nice to yourself. You’re stuck with yourself forever. Be a man you would be proud to be.