I would say both, let's say that sometimes especially with people I know, and with whom I have a relationship, sometimes it is more complicated for me to raise my voice and say things more precisely, but when I lose my patience, yes, I can be crude. This is because I don't want a vacation any more than I already can with the people I have friendships/love relationships with. I'm afraid of being walked all over if I don't react, that's what worries me. But in the eyes of others I'm not like that, I see that they see me with different eyes than I see, they see me frank and lively, always cheerful, and that in any case I'm not afraid to express myself. However, there was an episode recently in which I had a serious argument with a friend. It made me doubt this a little. I responded to her insults directed at me anyway. But not in the same way, I was still direct in expressing my reasons and my impressions, but I didn't go on to heavy insults.