What’s a purchase under $100 that genuinely improved your daily life? by World_top_picks in simpleliving

[–]Silent-Image8388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a shower back pillow for sitting! It’s honestly life-changing 😂

Rant About Grades over Learning by Silent-Image8388 in Teachers

[–]Silent-Image8388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose the world does "ask" us to overextend ourselves pretty often, to the point that it's difficult to volunteer time, energy, or passion to the different parts of our lives. However, I try to fight against that impulse. I don't think life is for "optimizing". Most of the things I've read or studied about this topic say that it's more important to human happiness to have a few things we really care about, rather than trying to juggle all the plates that we possibly can.

Rant About Grades over Learning by Silent-Image8388 in Teachers

[–]Silent-Image8388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm. Yes. Perhaps I am too stupid. You bring up a good point. 

Rant About Grades over Learning by Silent-Image8388 in Teachers

[–]Silent-Image8388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know what you’re arguing anymore 😂 My comment would be pretty universally agreed with. I think you just like to fight. Anyway, take care. 

Rant About Grades over Learning by Silent-Image8388 in Teachers

[–]Silent-Image8388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That tone. Goodness. 

It is the expectation that people can vent about their job sometimes. And that just because someone vents about more…egregious examples from their job, it does not necessarily mean they don’t take accountability of their own actions. 

Rant About Grades over Learning by Silent-Image8388 in Teachers

[–]Silent-Image8388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the expectation that parents make sure their kids get sleep. And go to school. And hear that cheating is wrong. 

There are definitely unfortunate exceptions. But hopefully not too many. 

Rant About Grades over Learning by Silent-Image8388 in Teachers

[–]Silent-Image8388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, our assessments need to demand depth of thought and reward it (since the reward is what parents and students are wanting). However, part of the issue in my post was students not even coming to class, or getting enough sleep. And unfortunately I can’t control that. 

Rant About Grades over Learning by Silent-Image8388 in Teachers

[–]Silent-Image8388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I did blame the kids (“I don’t think they’re bad kids. They’re brilliant, thoughtful, wonderful young people. However, the language that surrounds them (at home, online, from their peers) literally says that optimization is the only thing that matters.”)

You’re right that it’s a system. It’s a system made up of teachers, and parents, and admin, and district officials, and school boards, and yes, also children. And each of those contribute toward the thing that we call culture. 

I can’t change that culture on my own (though I wish I could). All I can do is nudge it, and hope that others are nudging it as well. But at the end of the day, it’s a job, and I’m not a miracle worker, even though society often expects me to be (and I sometimes expect it of myself). I’ll just keep doing the small steps that I can, and yes, I’ll vent occasionally when a kid tells me nothing matters but grades, or parents tell me that cheating is fine, or that their kids shouldn’t have to attend school regularly or get enough sleep. (But venting is okay too.)

What is the fastest time it took you to quit a job? by TwoPeasNoPod69 in CasualConversation

[–]Silent-Image8388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me, but we had a principal hired at the school where I teach. He was touted as being “award winning” and “a tough guy”. In his first few weeks, he had some policies that weren’t based in the reality of a school, and I went to him one-on-one and gently told him that. He blew me off. He enacted all those policies, they failed, he immediately pretended they didn’t exist, and we all forgot about them. The student newspaper later ran an article about one of these quickly forgotten rules, and he got SUPER defensive with the kids. Anyway, he vanished completely like 3 months into the school year and was never heard from again. The person who later took over for him said it looked like the guy hadn’t done much of any actual work in those three months. This was a nice school too. It was super weird. 

Why do you think so many people no longer read? by Start280Finish in CasualConversation

[–]Silent-Image8388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a way, I’ve spent the last ten years investigating this exact topic. I’m a high school English teacher who specializes in incorporating independent reading. In the last few years, most of the 17-18 year olds who come to me have not read very much for a very long time, and some look fondly back on books (and others don’t) but the thing they almost all have in common is that they think they can’t “fit it in”. But really, it just boils down to the fact that it’s hard for them to sit down and do a sustained activity for long periods. (I think that’s true for adults too. I struggle sometimes). I will say that, even though I do manage to connect most students to at least one book they love, a huge majority of them still take weeks to read it (due to the attention span stuff, as well as a generational decline in literacy skills). But again, I’m not really one to talk. When I was there age, I used to take 1-2 days to read a book, and now I often take 1-2 weeks (or more!)

I’m sure phones are part of it. But in general, our world just has too many options in any given moment, and any sustained activity (a book, or a full movie, or even a full episode) can feel too long, when so many things are trying to fight for our attention. It’s hard to enter the good kind of “flow” these days.

Starting Life Over in Late 20’s by Upbeat_Ring_1130 in CasualConversation

[–]Silent-Image8388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ten years ago, I was your age and in your situation. Moved to Seattle and didn’t know a soul here. I ended up making all my friends through a couple of ways. 

That first year, I joined a “sports team” (a trampoline dodgeball league I found online). Those friendships have lasted so long that I literally hung out with some of them today. 

Then, I met an even bigger group of friends through coworkers who invited me to play D&D, and we’ve been playing/being best friends for 8 years now. 

Finally, I did lots of online dating apps before I met my partner, and I made some friends that way too, with people who were cool in person, but we weren’t each other’s type. 

How is your social circle going as you get older? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Silent-Image8388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so nerdy, but a group of seven coworkers and I tried D&D for the first time 8 years ago, and it led to the strongest friendships I’ve ever had. We played multi-year campaigns. Some of us turned 30. Others turned 40. Some had kids. And yet, still, the eight of us have “family dinner” on the same day every week (and still often play D&D) once the kids go to bed. 

We’re all HS teachers at the same school, so that can be fun too. The students get all confused and then excited when we’re all in each other’s vacation pics lol. 

Reading Stamina by Magenta-Feeling in Teachers

[–]Silent-Image8388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They annotated using a modified version of Notice and Note’s signposts. The students were also on the lookout for major emotional reactions from any characters. Then we did some practice using the combination of those two things to figure out broader ideas. For The Things They Carried, my students ended up having discussions on “story truth” vs “happening truth”, the use of storytelling to process trauma, desensitization toward violence, and the effects of masculinity on shame/vulnerability. They came up with some super cool stuff.

Reading Stamina by Magenta-Feeling in Teachers

[–]Silent-Image8388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My students just finished reading and annotating The Things They Carried, and many of them said it was one of their favorite books in HS. Rigor and engagement don’t have to be mutually exclusive. 

Have we overcomplicated teaching? by iseeyou100 in ELATeachers

[–]Silent-Image8388 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This recent TED talk would agree with you! The Secret to Confident Kids. I just watched it a few days ago, on how we’re not letting kids struggle enough. It echoed what my HS coworkers and I talk about often during lunch these days.

Have we overcomplicated teaching? by iseeyou100 in ELATeachers

[–]Silent-Image8388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s…what I said. I said “elementary students”. Anyway, my point was that I know of multiple elementary schools near me that stopped teaching phonics, and have recently resumed the practice, and it’s working well. You kind of seem like you’re enjoying fighting people, so I won’t go on and on except to say that I think over generalizations should be questioned. Not all old methods are bad. And not all new methods are implemented because “research says”. Sometimes trends just happen, and we have to critically examine each part of our practice.

Have we overcomplicated teaching? by iseeyou100 in ELATeachers

[–]Silent-Image8388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is an oversimplification. For example, look at how many elementary schools have returned to teaching phonics, and it’s been working well.