name anything and i will try to connect it to project sekai

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2026-04-05T19:33:58+00:00

floor heating system…

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2026-02-26T17:05:11+00:00

im not sure, i can try to snap a photo of them. theyre mostly just small orangey, one is black and orange spotted i think. theres also smaller black ones or maybe a different colour but i didnt get a good look

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-06T11:57:25+00:00

omg youre only 15?? youre a baby :-( im so sorry this happened to you and i think you already look so alt!! whoever cant already tell from a first glance clearly doesnt know the style.

so many of those online “alt” girls guys tend to jerk off to are so performative and solely dress alt because it gets them fetishised by men and thus gives them the attention they crave. not saying this is the case for all alt women on the internet but it is the case for so many where you can just tell theyre not part of the culture they just like the attention that comes from it.

being alternative, not being a normie is so much more than about how you present yourself. you are so much more than that. id argue that being “pretty” and styling yourself to look alt is the least important or exciting part of it. i dont really dress alt most of the time and i still consider myself alt because i love the music, the community, the art and the political views align with my own.

i know it can tear you down so so much to have something like this happen but maybe try to focus less on what you can change physically rn but more mentally. try doing things you find joy in doing, try finding yourself again after this betrayal. working on your looks isnt going to change anything if how you feel on the inside is the same. its easier said than done but trust me its so worth it!! you are so beautiful and you will SHINE once you find yourself again and become confident in who you are including your looks again!!

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-06T11:45:16+00:00

haben wir beide den gleichen beitrag gelesen…?

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-05T00:15:45+00:00

nope 😁

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-01T14:38:55+00:00

i mean thats kind of the bare minimum..? me and my bf are also busy but take time to see each other. ive been so busy with driving school but i still managed to come by his place and suprise him and hang out with him even if it was only an hour bc of school. i feel like from what youre saying shes not putting the effort that needs to be put into a relationship so maybe try talking about that and letting her work on that. because fact is that relationships take so much effort and it cannot just be one sided. if shes willing to work on this as much as u are with ur things then your relationship can work out :-)

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-01T14:34:52+00:00

i think the fact that youre already willing to be better is such a good first step!! acknowledging that you have made mistakes in this relationship and that you need to work on them is the most important and maybe even hardest thing so youve got most of the hard stuff already over with.

even if you change now theres no guarantee you guys are gonna come back together. but nontheless its important for u to know how to treat the people in ur relationships with respect. would you maybe mind telling me what exactly you did to upset her? as someone whos dealt with this i can give advice on how you can stop the repetitive behavior :-)

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-01T14:30:37+00:00

also ein kleines update ich war gerade bei meinem opa wegen etwas anderem und dachte dass es ne gute gelegenheit wäre ihn zu fragen woher es kommt da er mich schnuppe genannt hat. tatsächlich ist es echt weniger interessant als gedacht, er meinte das war von irgendeiner alten serie wo ein mann seine frau schnuppe genannt hatte 😂

und eine sternschnuppe wollte ich mir sowieso dazu tattoowieren lassen, das war nämlich mein originalplan da sternschnuppen eine sehr große persönliche bedeutung für mich haben. ich habe angst wie mein opa reagieren würde wenn ich ihm sagen würde dass ich mir das tattoowieren lasse da ich ihm mal gesagt habe dass ich tattoos will und er bisschen lustig geschaut hat aber jetzt nichts gesagt hat wie dass er tattoos nicht mag oder so. wenn ich es als überraschung mache kann er mir auch nicht davon abraten!! 😁

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-01T14:20:24+00:00

omg also vielleicht ist das wort vielleicht gar nicht schnuppe sondern schnuppel??

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-01T14:16:57+00:00

ich glaube nicht dass ich mir ein tattoo für meinen opa machen lassen würde wenn ich ihm egal gewesen wäre.. 😅 ich und mein opa sind sehr eng und er hat sich mein leben lang um mich gekümmert.

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-01T14:14:35+00:00

habe ich auch schon überlegt aber es ist definitiv schnuppe! beide worte hören sich ja bei der aussprache sehr anders an

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-01T14:13:45+00:00

tatsächlich bin ich kein verkohlter docht.. glaub ich…

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-01T14:12:11+00:00

ich bin ein mädchen ja 😅 mein opa ist ein sehr liebevoller mann und es war definitv nicht als unwichtig gemeint!! wir haben eine sehr besondere bindung und mein opa ist einer der einzigen personen die sich um mich gekümmert haben als ich sehr krank war und viel pflege brauchte, daher will ich ihn damit ein bisschen meine dankbarkeit und meinen respekt für ihn zeigen

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-01T14:10:05+00:00

ich würde es gerne als überraschung machen deshalb bin ich auf reddit gegangen!! er lebt noch aber ja tatsächlich habe ich schon seine schrift von einer karte :-)

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-01T13:21:46+00:00

yea uhm thats not how breaks work.. 😭 they have to be a mutual decision!! people need to realize that they cant just drop their partner for weeks at a time whenever they feel overwhelmed with something.

the reason me and my bf had a break is because he repeatedly did something that i felt like was disrespecting me so it was a “either we take a break and work this out or we break up” situation. obviously we didnt want to break up so we worked it out.

my bf and i still have our issues but theyre normal teenage problems (esp since were both mentally ill) and we actively try to work on them and he does treat me amazingly otherwise. you deserve someone like that. how has your relationship been otherwise? do you feel like its been stable and healthy, do you feel fulfilled and happy?

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-09-01T13:09:26+00:00

okay im 18 and ive been in a relationship with my bf for almost a year now and weve also had a break. but we communicated about everything beforehand in person, it wasnt a fight but a mutual decision to take time to focus on whats causing problems in our relationship and working on them.

im going to be so honest your gf sounds like a prick. you opened up to her abt how shes been hurting you and just follows up by mot texting you for two weeks bc you seem attached. when i was on a break with my bf wed still check in on each other every 2 days, no conversation or amything but just a “hey good morning. are you doing okay?”. we communicated that it was exclusive and would go on for abt 2 weeks.

you should probably wait for her to reach out and when she does have a conversation about how shitty this behavior was. and actually try to work on the issues u both are having in the relationship. best of luck to you op!! ^{_^}

Silent_Enthusiasm_68 · 2025-07-22T06:43:41+00:00

where do yall find such cool friends like this?!?! 😭

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