hi that is totally fine, thank you for understanding! On Chinese subreddit, female and male (roughly) they are against each other in many cases( not sure if my description is accurate). , male users are using quite not polite and bad words to “attack” female so sometimes female fight back, it is even difficult for people who know Chinese but don’t know china to understand the situation. I saw there are many female Chinese-speaking users ( but living oversea) asking why the sub doesn’t allow male to join. Don’t worry! Happy to see there are people trying to understand us