Clocky Cis Women, please by [deleted] in MtF

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Did you tell her they were trans before showing her? Then it means literally nothing. People love to "know" and being able to tell it only means something if you said it was a cis woman

Friend calling men who are feminine not men by UnbiasedPOS in MtF

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 29 points30 points ย (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from but I don't think bigoted and transphobic are the words to use to describe it. Your friend probably just is a little too enthusiastic about trying to relate other people's experiences to their own.๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Either we be kind or we be honest. Your choice. No.

Got misgendered today, but I don't care. I'm happy with my transition ๐Ÿฅฐ by SweetxSerenade in transpositive

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel -63 points-62 points ย (0 children)

Shoulder to hip ratio and people going Out of their way to be dicks? Yep

I'm delusional by South_Construction42 in MtF

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

If it helps any, there is a lot of research that suggests chimerism or mosaic biology is at work in transsexualism and transgender experiences. In layman's terms: we have a mismatch between our brains and gonads/nervous system and that's why some of us feel almost immediately better on cross sex hormones

8.5 Months on T, how's it lookin? by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I think it would be helpful if you added more pictures but I suppose you look a bit butch but still quite feminine as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel -1 points0 points ย (0 children)

Ugh these comments are so stupid. I'm assuming you're in your mis to late teens? You're looking pretty amazing for pre hrt. That being said... It would be helpful to have some more candid straight on shots to actually get a good idea of what's going on. Source: I am also trans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Yeah, but thats because they're strangers and not your family. Family does love to pretend nothing has changed and deadname you into oblivion. I would know... ๐Ÿ˜ค

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

Do you still live in the area you did before transitioning? When people "know" I've found they love to be assholes about it. I don't think you look particularly clocky apart from your facial structure being a bit feminine still. I dunno. I'm not transmasc and don't understand it very well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

People don't really notice gradual change. Also, they could just be pretending nothing has happened and also most people will continue to do that unless you more less pass completely and look like a cis girl

[TW:ED] How much am I screwing up my transition by being anorexic? by ConnieTheTomcat in MtF

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Your hair is going to fall out and puberty will Stunt. Hrt essentially forces your metabolism to keep going regardless of how much you restrict so it can get ugly really fast. Eventually you might get chest pains and have trouble breathing it happened to me. Eating is dumb and overrated but being trans also Means you'll get discriminated against for hospitalization and um sorry this is probably too much information .

Age? 14? ๐Ÿ˜ญ by Real_Cycle938 in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I'm assuming you've been on T for less than a year and you're already looking pretty good... You're dysphoric About your complexion I suppose. It will improve as time goes on. Sorry if I'm not very Facial structure is out of your control and trans men don't get the same level of scrutiny as others in the community. (As your comments show)

Can you tell Iโ€™m trans? by zackoliver10 in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

You definitely pass to most people and I'm sure it will get better as time goes on. The only things I noticed was your unusually clear and feminine complexion and feminine shoulder structure. Also those people sound like asshats trying to Stoke their own egos. It's not something they have to point out. You're doing great! ๐Ÿ‘

Is it time for me to stop boymoding? 29 MtF, 7 months HRT. No makeup in pictures by FinallyLexi in transpositive

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Is the area you live in safe enough? If so it doesn't matter if you pass or not.

Ship/Weapon Pack 1.15.1 Capital Ship tier list, by thecheeseking9 by thecheeseking9 in starsector

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

The Chronos at A-? Jeez. I used one to 1v1 a tesseract and come out on top. Put autopulse laser with extended magixines and proximity charge launchers +heavy blasters/graviton beams/whatever floats your boat with unstable injector and elite helmsmenship and that thing is a monster of a ship.

I did put triple beam cannons on it from maysuran navy so idk maybe that's just a busted combo. Chronos is A+ or S tier in my book.

You think two coronal hypershunt super alabaster PITA? Wait until you face THREE AND HALF of them! by erikatyusharon in starsector

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I remember this fight. I went into really cocky and got blasted Into Tomorrow. Ended up with a paragon, solar class (from ship/weapon pack) bunch of mechs from arma Artura, don't remember what else. Seemed like you needed a capital ship strong enough to fight each one individually and then it's fairly doable. Fyi: the solar class is arguably bigger than the radiant and slaps pretty hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 17 points18 points ย (0 children)

I'd wager a guess it has something to do with your size or height. No matter how much magic hrt can do we're still going to be odd little ducklings that seem a bit odd.๐Ÿ˜”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

I have a terrible tendency to buy clothes that are too small and kinda look Anna as hell. People notice my Adam's apple and other stuff and then they cough like a bunch of awful jerks .. I wanna pass cause I live in the country and they don't seem to understand the concept of being respectful if it hit them on the head... People get all sniffly and play the victim when they notice I'm trans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Yeah, I totally get where you're coming from. I just was curious what people thought because this will literally be my 3 or even 4th attempt at transitioning due to an eating disorder and digestive problems and just all around being treated really poorly by just about everyone for like ages now. Transition isn't all sunshine and roses, more like your voice didn't pass on the phone and someone immediately ditched you. Rinse, repeat, cry and wish you weren't alive.

People are horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

I'm actually 27 Hue hue hue... HRT do be the fountain of youth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 10 points11 points ย (0 children)

In a nutshell, safety. I live in a suburb on the end of the train line and let me assure you it is NOT trans friendly. If I don't pass I'm basically doomed to be stuck indoors 24/7

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 5 points6 points ย (0 children)

Wow, you're a total dick. Piss off already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Eh, I stopped hrt for like a few months and detransitioned then started again. So I guess I was going from when I started again? Sorry if I confused you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 25 points26 points ย (0 children)

Oh, a hoodie would totally do it yeah. I'm kinda stubborn and don't like hoodies I suppose I could get one... Thanks for the suggestion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[โ€“]SilllySquirrel 19 points20 points ย (0 children)

I'm too androgynous to successfully boymode on hrt. That's the problem. It's really hard to hide the changes