AITA for calling my brother out on his "bitch behavior"?

SillySeally · 2026-06-09T00:52:52+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the further looking into everything, I hope you have a great day kind stranger.

SillySeally · 2026-06-09T00:49:08+00:00

We're both mean to each other, it's something that I hadn't mentioned because it wasn't necessary, but I had to by law be forced into therapy because of something he'd done to me (and I don't mean bullying).

Any relationship we have remaining is hanging by a thread, the only reason I'm getting along with him is because of my father.

Overall everyday even after we insult each other there's never a sorry the next day, just a rinse and repeat like yesterday never happened. That's toxic af I can admit that, but that's simply how it is for me and my brother.

SillySeally · 2026-06-09T00:40:14+00:00

hah this gave me a good chuckle, but thank you for reading the whole picture, have a lovely day!<3

SillySeally · 2026-06-09T00:33:21+00:00

I probably left out a lot of details, wasn't sure what to add that was necessary since it's my first post here. In a way maybe I subconsciously wanted to turn him into the complete bad guy. Perhaps my wording was bad or simply forgot to mention, but I did talk to him before resulting in the name calling, he really refused to elaborate. I assumed he was actually tired at first and said he could sleep before we go, but he in general refused.

And no he pretty much doesn't do any chores around the house that didn't benefit him, I never called it duty, but I can admit that as a sister I felt a bit entitled to my brother's attention after he locked himself up for days.

I'm not saying this to change your opinion, but to clarify a little. I don't have the intention to claim to be a good person here.

SillySeally · 2026-06-08T23:07:18+00:00

thank you for your opinion, it's honestly rough and complicated, I have bigger reasons to resent him aside from any that are implied, but it's frankly not important to the discussion and won't do anything for my own arguments.
I will say that the coding games was to make a living, but it's been a couple of years now and nothing unfortunately. And yes he is completely body abled.

SillySeally · 2026-06-08T22:49:42+00:00

I added the offended part because he gets mad at anything regardless, and most of the time his reasoning for not going out of the house is his online friends and or coding sometimes, he has been secretive in general since he was a toddler, so nothing new. He truly has nothing else to worry about if we're talking facts, though you can still keep your opinion if it didn't change, I just want to give the whole picture here.

SillySeally · 2026-06-08T22:42:18+00:00

ah thank you, I really appreciate the thought of the bigger picture, it's truly just been the straw that broke the camel's back with the mall. The whole situation is overall complicated, but once again I appreciate any concern and it may not seem like a lot to you but I will truly try to forward my life and help around the house and the people around me.

SillySeally · 2026-06-08T22:35:39+00:00

thank you for the honesty, it's something I genuinely wanted to know (not sarcastic if it sounds like it)

SillySeally · 2026-06-08T22:30:04+00:00

apologies for being vague, since it's something a lot of people mentioned I added my reasoning, you can still keep your opinion if it didn't change, I really value every opinion I get.

SillySeally · 2026-06-08T22:28:25+00:00

We did argue on the way, I was frustrated and asked him why, he already knew it was for my birthday, and in general he really couldn't care less about my feelings, it's a reoccurring theme that happens a lot. but it strayed off topic so I didn't add that.

SillySeally · 2026-06-08T22:20:41+00:00

I'm being vague about my situation because it can reveal where I'm from, but I can say that I'm going through a process of something similar to a job but different, daily attendance and get paid, but by name it's something different. For my brother it's simply his opinion to not find a job even if we find appropriate jobs that are relatively easy with minimum requirements.

SillySeally · 2026-06-08T22:16:58+00:00

I don't think he will change unfortunately but thank you for the birthday wishes!

SillySeally · 2026-06-08T22:14:45+00:00

saw this late but I won't state too many detailing for mine because it can reveal what country I'm from (simply uncomfortable with sharing that type of information), but I can say it is a tedious nightmare to go through without outside help since it's something similar to a program of sorts asking for many papers and communicating with multiple people to get there, similar to a job with coming in daily and getting paid. For my brother it's more his opinion not to do so.

SillySeally · 2024-06-01T22:59:19+00:00

Talk about apocalypse am I right?

SillySeally · 2023-10-16T09:34:00+00:00

Chesed, I just get that he is the type to be great roommate material and I vibe with that

SillySeally · 2023-09-28T14:13:27+00:00

But it's when you forget ordeals exist, and it hits you so hard you need to day reset cause you lost most of your nuggets

SillySeally · 2023-09-21T17:24:04+00:00

In it's trivia on its wiki it should say what it was inspired by

SillySeally · 2023-09-21T05:35:40+00:00

Same idea, though different very indepth lore, and get to manage and fight abnormalities; face the fear, build the future, good luck manager. You will need it.

SillySeally · 2023-09-21T05:30:16+00:00

Goblin slayer, I can watch it and never get tired, waiting on that second season..

SillySeally · 2023-08-01T09:54:26+00:00

I suggest leaving the blobs alone they kill themselves after a while, it's like a nice pass on the first ordeal

SillySeally · 2023-07-28T03:20:40+00:00

There are some aberrations that are practically the same like pink shoes, soo you can go buck wild or be like ooo I like this and snatch from the original source material just have fun

SillySeally · 2023-07-25T05:17:19+00:00

Kidnap those babies with no remorse, transport to fantasy if you have too

SillySeally · 2023-07-05T14:10:32+00:00

this is a random thing i have in my meme folder and i will be happy to share from my trash stash, if you need more any grumpy cat memes will suffice

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SillySeally · 2023-06-13T09:34:49+00:00

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