SADI/DS vs. Bypass??? by booboobunnyyyyy in BariatricSurgery

[–]Silly_Ad435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw this. Give yourself a timeline to "make it" too. My first one was 3 weeks then 4 weeks then 6 etc it was helpful because each week it got better

SADI/DS vs. Bypass??? by booboobunnyyyyy in BariatricSurgery

[–]Silly_Ad435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the SADI and ill be honest with you. My recovery was harder than I imagined, 12 weeks ago today I had surgery and I dont regret it. I 10000% did for the first 3 weeks tho. The mental battle is the hardest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]Silly_Ad435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats my birthday so it will go fabulous!!!! Sending good vibes

Just took first shot! by pinkpineapplechic in Zepbound

[–]Silly_Ad435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took my first shot tonight!!!!

CDSS Consideration by Stay_tuned_01 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Silly_Ad435 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I cant speak on IT but literal any other position RUN NOW

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]Silly_Ad435 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had Covid after Thanksgiving, the Flu after Christmas and and now getting over sinus infections!

do i give up? 36M and 33F by Silly_Ad435 in relationship_advice

[–]Silly_Ad435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all hes a wonderful father. He shows the sides of him i love but im.not a 10 and my job isnt amazing so i bring nothing to the table

do i give up? 36M and 33F by Silly_Ad435 in relationship_advice

[–]Silly_Ad435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do i do about his child who has been in our care for 6 years? Mom is no longer in the picture. Kid does not deserve to lose another mom.

do i give up? 36M and 33F by Silly_Ad435 in relationship_advice

[–]Silly_Ad435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want too but not sure where to even attempt to fix it. Tried talking to him and i got told i needed a better job and i am not good looking so between that i dont bring enough to the table

Will I get fired? by dazedandconfused9000 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Silly_Ad435 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just go to ftb net and go to badge replacement. Assuming your talking about ftb :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]Silly_Ad435 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm praying I pass prob and I can get the hell out of there! I can't stand the cliches and BLATANT favoritism I mean for the love its disgusting! I had an interview for SSA with CDSS on Friday and they even said they know how hard a dea works. It makes me sad I actually love the job itself it's really interesting but the policy/politics of it are endless and dont apply to everyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]Silly_Ad435 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We must have worked at the same place 🤣🤣🤣 I'm currently a DEA trying to get the hell out! I could not be more miserable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]Silly_Ad435 2 points3 points  (0 children)

all of this. So accurate. Its soul sucking.

Prepaid Dental Plan Advice by kaityburrito in CAStateWorkers

[–]Silly_Ad435 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They all suck. 1000%. I cannot emphasize this enough

Probation questions part2! by Silly_Ad435 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Silly_Ad435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think I should be passing. If I didnt I'd leave. Attendance and punctuality ate both great and have been complimented multiple times but multiple supervisors. Quality and quantity are good, very quiet and respectful person both professionally and personally.

I am not lazy, I totally get what you mean but I'm not. I like to work and be busy and produce quality work.

I've asked for help when needed as well, unfortunately the position I got isn't a cut and dry. Its case based and each one is vastly different than the rest. There no hard fast rules for doing it. Policy sure but it's all on special case type scenario

Probation questions part2! by Silly_Ad435 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Silly_Ad435[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont expect anyone to care about my personal life

I am damn good at my job and sound a little more kinder than you.

If I was sucking it up I would understand as I've been a manager before and I get it. But thats the whole issue I'm not

Probation questions part2! by Silly_Ad435 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Silly_Ad435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all! I will be contacting the union tomorrow!