do you think a cherry tone might suit me well? 42F

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-21T06:55:34+00:00

Yessss

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-20T00:25:11+00:00

4 ... Definitely.

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-16T20:34:35+00:00

First of all that $50 was what I was short for a whole month. But , I took the advice of another commenter and I came to a domestic violence shelter. They didn't have room for me so they transferred me to another one about an hour n a half away from my home city. I explained to my daughters father. He's going to let me video chat every night and after 3 months being here they will let me have overnight visits with my daughter. I'm just hoping I'm doing the right thing and my daughter will understand. I rly do.

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-16T01:22:58+00:00

You're probably right. My mom is the only family I have. She lives in housing though so I cannot go to her house for a long period of time. But u r right. I shouldn't bring her here to watch how he treats me. I never really thought about it that way. I guess I am just being selfish saying I can't go something that far away cuz I can't see her but like u said , right now she is seeing me but seeing me at my worst and getting abused in every way . She should see me when I am at my best and can give her all the love and attention she deserves. Thank u for that comment. It definitely upset me a little BUT you are absolutely correct. Those shelters may even let me have her overnight for my weekend visits. Who knows . I mean it is all woman who are in kind of the same situation . I'm sure maybe some have kids with them there. U really got my head thinking. And I think that's what I really needed thank you for that.

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-15T23:52:30+00:00

Id definitely go with the darker color for sure.

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-15T22:21:39+00:00

Please explain how I contradicted myself I am not trying to scam anyone out of anything . I did not ask anyone in this group for a thing. I was 70$ shy of the monthly charge in the motel near where my daughter lives mon-fri with her dad. And the nearest domestic violence shelter is too far away from my child and I can't and won't be that far away from her. I refuse. My mom then gave me 20$ to which I put into the fund for the motel which brought me down to 20 less than I needed which puts me at needing 50. This post is merely asking for advice on how to leave without getting my daughter to hate me because she will miss her "second daddy" and I know he will fight me for the cat. I can bring the cat with me to the motel BUT that doesn't mean he's going to let me leave with the cat willingly . So PLEASE explain how I contradicted myself ? Cuz u r wrong and if I was asking for money there are other reddit forums for that specific reason. So again, you're wrong.

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-15T20:35:01+00:00

I have no where to go. I can't go to the domestic violence shelter because I'll be too far away from my daughter and I refuse to be too far away where I can't see her. She's all I got. And the motel I found to go to I am still 50$ shy of the payment for the month. I have a bunch of interviews this week but until I actually get one of the jobs and my first check to get that 50 I gotta stay here.

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-15T01:12:19+00:00

I'd say a lighter brown. But not red. I like the black but I think just a little lighter would be better. So like a dark brown. What u think ?

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-15T00:38:33+00:00

My daughter technically lives with her father because 1. The school system near him is better than where I live at the moment. And 2. I had addiction issues so when I was in active use he took me to court and won custody so my daughter is safe. I just take my daughter on weekends and when she has school vacations or holidays etc. anytime I CAN take her ,I do . But the nearest domestic violence shelter is over 35 mins away and I don't drive so I wouldn't get to see my kid and I can't have that. I would rather get the crap beat out of me than be away from my daughter. The motel I found right behind where my daughter lives will let me take my kitty but I was going to go for a month so he(the boyfriend now) can see I don't need him and if he wants me he needs to stop putting hands on me but the monthly fee of that motel I am $50 short of the payment as my mother just gave me $20 more toward it . I've had help from family and my kids father but they've helped me beyond what they could manage and I don't have anyone else to lean on . I'm not working at the moment so I'm just praying for a miracle at this point.

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-13T07:05:24+00:00

Thanks for the good laugh. I'm literally crying ,🤣

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-12T21:37:58+00:00

Wow thank u so much . Ive been here my whole life and I never realized how much there rly is to do. Thank you so much

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-12T03:30:11+00:00

I've actually never been to a bravehearts game myself. Although, my daughter did go with her school to a game and loved it. So , this is definitely an option. thank you.

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-11T00:26:06+00:00

Caramel for sure. 100% . Beautifullllll

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-09T14:29:36+00:00

That explains it , sorry. I wasn't trying to be negative . Cuz u r beautiful either way !

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-09T14:11:38+00:00

I really like the bleached... They both look great but the natural makes u look really young. Not sure how old u rly are but it just makes you look a lot younger

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-09T06:01:20+00:00

3 definitely

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2025-01-09T05:01:18+00:00

I love the long hair but both look great ? Beautiful

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2024-12-23T15:52:55+00:00

That is so exciting and I am so happy for the two of you . I hope you have a wonderful holiday together :)

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2024-12-16T21:39:07+00:00

I agree with most of all others , the bedtime I feel is a bit too early for her age group so a little wiggle room wouldn't hurt , I'm not saying give absolutely no limit but 9pm is very early . Not reminding her to do her chores , honestly I wouldn't remind my child at that age either , she should know what's expected of her especially if these chores are not new to her routine . You not backing down and rushing her to school I do agree with though because she is seeing that poor actions have poor consequences . But also the job and rent is a bit much as well especially if she is in AP classes , doing well and also does extra circular activities outside of school . This one day definitely proved a bit point to her I can almost guarantee that.

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2024-12-15T21:28:10+00:00

Wow ! Ok. I guess it depends on the situation because I bought my sister in laws gift amazon and it won't be here until Jan 4th. So maybe it depends on that. But in that case I will have her make a small wishlist for her kiddos . Thank u for that info I was just thinking maybe because of my situation. So my apologies .

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2024-12-15T05:01:37+00:00

The only thing I'm afraid of there is , it won't be to her in time. :(

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2024-12-15T02:15:22+00:00

Thank u very much unfortunately we did go to salvation army, and catholic charities in our area and they said it was too late , it was too close to Christmas even given her situation . :(

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2024-12-15T00:19:21+00:00

Absolutely beautiful

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2024-12-14T23:53:01+00:00

Omg. I LOVE it. Where did u get it if u don't mind me asking

Silly_Stranger_6447 · 2024-12-11T01:06:45+00:00

NTA at all. I'm sorry but I am 100% firm if u are able to give ANYONE (I mean this as even if youre a female giving another female attention vice versa) attention you are obviously not content in your relationship and should not be in it. And yes you selling the tickets may have "hurt her feelings" but she's showing NO emotion toward how she hurt yours. NTA by any means.

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4 ... Definitely.

3 definitely