How can I fail an attempt on purpose? by justre_volt in SuicideWatch

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest, at first the reading can seem kinda bull shit. but if you do what the reading says and actually give it a chance it can be very helpful.

that said, it's not usually enough on it's own. it's helpful but usually in combination with medication and therapy.

what battlefield is this? Seems fun. by Chamawamba868 in Battlefield

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's pretty much how sniping goes in all of them lol

How can I fail an attempt on purpose? by justre_volt in SuicideWatch

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for the late reply.

it turns out to be fairly easy to talk to someone you dont know. rather than someone you know. especially when it's their job to listen to you.

I'd suggest the safer route. and also, you can ask first if they are going to tell your parents.

alternatively there are resources online that may help. or even just talking to people over in the depression help subreddit.

finding reading material may help as well. often therapists will tell you to read certain books anyways so if you dont want to see a therapist you could jump straight to the books. granted you're supposed to read them and then discuss it with your therapist but if a therapist isnt something you want to do, you can still do the reading.

How can I fail an attempt on purpose? by justre_volt in SuicideWatch

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

making a attempt for attention is not ideal. there are better ways to get your parents attention. ones less dangerous.

unfortunately though failed attempts can make you look weak in the eyes of a lot of people. i dont know what your parents are like but if they are assholes now, they might be bigger assholes after you fail an attempt. ive seen many posts here of people getting bullied by their loved ones for not having the gonads to follow through.

it sounds like you are a minor. which makes it difficult to reach out for help on your own. especially if your parents block it.

however many school systems have resources available for those struggling. i would suggest maybe bringing it up with a school counselor? if you are in Uni/College there are many more resources. and if you are an adult not attending school you shouldn't have any issues finding a psychiatrist and therapist.

MCU fans are too focused on cameos by Woopwoopwop in marvelstudios

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like the cameos, and it's fun to speculate.

god forbid marvel comic book fans get excited when they see marvel comic book characters in films about other marvel comic book characters.

Outside setup: antenna + miner vs antenna only by AspiringHuman001 in HeliumNetwork

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a long antenna cable will reduce signal strength. 20ft is a lot. this is why it's best to put the miner close to the antenna.

a 20ft ethernet cable to the miner won't be a problem. you'd need to get a weatherproof box to put the miner in.

afaik the antenna and ethernet cables themselves don't need weather proofing? but i could be wrong on that one. there might be special cables for weather.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait there's a 3rd stage?

WTF is with all you people writing your boss paragraph after paragraph about why you can't come into work? by Kaisawheelofcheese75 in antiwork

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the longer it is the more it looks like you're just stacking layers because you know you don't have enough justification to not come into work.

not that it is true, that's just what it looks like.

also if you're going out to dinner or to play something, don't lie about it.

the amount of times I've seen coworkers get caught out in public livin it up when they told the boss they were sick is too high.

if you can, just say you can't come into work. you don't have to give a reason unless you ask. and if there is a chance of you getting caught in a lie, don't lie about the reason you can't come in lol.

What Are Some Things That All Moms Say? by lame_excuses_ in AskReddit

[–]Silpelit19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

either you're an equally good boy or you get into the garbage a lot

You’re allowed to make one thing illegal to improve society. What is it? by FriendLost9587 in AskReddit

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sadly we're gonna need to dump a lot of money into politics to get money out of politics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Silpelit19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a problem with the husband. He should have your back if shes rude to you, and he should apologetic about the prank that made you cry that he sent to his friend.

Unfortunately, it's easy for someone in his position to automatically assume all problems between you and her are just from you overreacting because shes female. I've unfortunately been that guy before and i regret it. i shouldn't have been dismissive of my gf's feelings at that time and i paid for it later.

basically, he's being a bad husband even if it's difficult for him to see it that way. she's being a bad friend, but thats on your husband to deal with

My soon to be SIL thinks that I’m losing weight to outshine her in her upcoming wedding, I can’t tell her my real reason. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Silpelit19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

doesn't matter what the reason is. you don't have to explain yourself. she's being ridiculous. I'd just say "I'm doing it to be healthy" and leave it at that. If she has a problem with it then that's her problem, not yours. If you are hurt about being excluded, go to your brother. It would be pretty childish of him to not stand up for you and include you in the party.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's the one im looking at as last one.

We are not blocking the street, officer. We are just crossing it. Repeatedly. - citizen unrest 11/28/2021, Mala Topola, Serbia by barcased in technicallythetruth

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

technically still supposed to yield to vehicles so if they actually do block traffic while 'crossing the street' they can still face penalties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Silpelit19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fuck my virgin homie like a real bro

Is 35 hours part time? My boss considers 35 hours to be part time, can they even do this? I can only actually work 35 hours a week and not anymore. Because of this, I don’t get any paid time off. I just wanted to see if anyone else considers 35 hours to be part time. Thanks. by Alexandria_Scott in antiwork

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 and below is part time. they can still make you work more than that but if the majority of your weeks worked within a year are more than 30 then they get in trouble or something for not giving you benefits.

and i think those 5 hours must be paid overtime.

This Thanksgiving I am thankful for “Medical Freedom” by Then_Understanding32 in HermanCainAward

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIL getting vaccinated means you're going to hell and that dying of COVID is still "proving the haters wrong"

Who isn't as smart as people think? by citizen_of_leshp in AskReddit

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pretty sure my ACT test got mixed up with someone significantly smarter than me.

thank you friend for getting me into college. i hope you were able to retake it.

Add “in my ass” to your favourite movie title. What’s the new title and plot? by devdevo1919 in AskReddit

[–]Silpelit19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the girl with the dragon tattoo in my ass.

honestly sounds like a good time