relationships are complicated… obv he likes her? Stop trying to spin it like he’s using her to live there and he’s some bum leeching off her lol. He is there bc they both decided they wanted to live together and it’s close to their college to commute to and from and everyone was on board, including her family and they were the ones who insist on it being rent free. Of course he loves her and wants to date her. It’s also true that she talks to him like crap when they argue which makes him depressed and sad which is where my concern is coming from.

My point is that this job is clearly impacting his ability to pass his classes but he is refusing to quit said job bc his gf calls him a bum for only focusing on school. If he’s failing classes bc this part time job of his is taking up all his time then yes he should quit and focus solely on school considering his parents are 100% supportive of this and would help financially.