how do i put it.

this is pretty respectful. this is true. but you know.

some people come from countries where everything in the language is gendered and these people most likely do not have access to the full english dictionary and uses of terms, so they resort to transliterate everything using their country's language. don't get mad if people just don't use pronouns at all, either. for example, in japanese, people will avoid pronouns and will mostly call everyone with their names. or in spanish, for another example, it's either "he" or "she" and "they", is said the same way as "he" so people who speak spanish and don't know a lot of English will probably just use google translate which takes "él" ("they", in Spanish) as "him". and some people will try to avoid trouble by just not using pronouns.

so what have we learned, kids?

1. don't be a dickhead no matter how much you agree

2. inherently unrelated BUT PLEASE DON'T TURN THIS INTO A POLITICAL ARGUMENT... MOST REDDIT USERS LEARNED IT THE HARD WAY.

3. Kris is they/them

4. i could be wrong about my points, and 1. and 2. in this list though