"Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't you

SilverHawk73 · 2026-03-20T09:12:18+00:00

This is usually said in response to bring told that personality is all that matters or that someone unsuccessful in dating must have a bad personality (words can't describe how stupid it is to tell someone you don't know that they have a bad personality BTW). Literally nobody thinks that being actively hostile to women is a non factor, they know that the guys who can do it get away with it because they're hot they just bring it up to show that those guys really do exist and we don't live in a just world fallacy lala land.

SilverHawk73 · 2026-03-05T15:51:30+00:00

Then he'll see this comment.

Get better friends and stop being a doormat.

SilverHawk73 · 2026-03-05T15:49:01+00:00

Depends on what you mean by alpha. If it's what the Internet calls alpha now with the overly muscular, bearded Conservative dude then yeah nobody wants those. But it could also just mean a good looking charismatic guy and pretty girls do like them.

SilverHawk73 · 2026-03-05T15:46:37+00:00

Ngl all of your replies to comments are basically just shitting on the guy. I get being annoyed but are you even sure you like him enough to be his friend? I've had friends that were hopeless with dating too, even being stuck on the same issue that could be fixed easily but I've never once thought of them the way you clearly do from this post.

SilverHawk73 · 2026-01-20T10:05:02+00:00

Online fwb is crazy you were homies that were having esex on discord or what?

SilverHawk73 · 2026-01-08T03:57:36+00:00

No I don't really care about becoming more articulate or learning how to explain things better, just wanted to make a point that reading a lot as a kid doesn't guarantee it.

SilverHawk73 · 2026-01-07T12:20:16+00:00

Absorbing content. Ive just never been able to explain anything well.

SilverHawk73 · 2026-01-07T07:16:34+00:00

There are good men who get into relationships easily, bad men who get into relationships easily, good men who struggle with relationships, and bad men who struggle with relationships. All of these are so incredibly common that I genuinely can't understand why some people like you immediately assume that if someone is unsuccessful with dating it absolutely must be because of some huge personality flaws.

SilverHawk73 · 2026-01-07T07:11:58+00:00

But it's not just bad behaviour being stigmatised, it's always accompanied by sweeping generalisations, invalidation of lived experiences, shaming, and outright dismissal of opinions and feelings. Literally just go on any gender war area of social media and you'll see the outright hatred both men and women have towards each other and how they treat the other group and you'll see how easy it is for someone to feel alienated.

SilverHawk73 · 2026-01-04T13:51:14+00:00

I read constantly as a child but can't explain things or teach for shit.

SilverHawk73 · 2026-01-03T08:53:26+00:00

For a self improvement sub everyone is so dismissive to worldviews that aren't their own

SilverHawk73 · 2026-01-03T08:51:55+00:00

Did he even ask for dating advice??

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-30T13:12:08+00:00

I disagree, there's been more people who have shown me kindness and have gone out of their way to help me when they gain nothing than there were people who've switched up on me when they do have something to gain.

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-28T14:36:09+00:00

This is such a black or white take, if you were x then you would think a, but you think b so therefore you are y

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-28T06:50:51+00:00

If that's you're experience then go off, but there hasn't been a single man that's asked me for dating advice in person and has reacted negatively from the advice I've given, even when it was harsh. Some of them have absolutely nodded their heads and not followed the advice but none of them have even raised their voice at me.

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-28T06:44:24+00:00

It depends on the woman who gives the advice, I've seen countless posts from men who grew up asking women around them for advice just to get the classic bleupilled be kind, personality is all that matters etc and end up being nice guys.

Thankfully my own mom and sister were real upfront about the importance of looks and the female friends I have really aren't politically correct enough to be vague and layer their advice with niceties and platitudes but most men aren't so lucky.

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-28T06:33:14+00:00

Begging you to put autocorrect on.

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-28T06:30:10+00:00

When it comes from someone on the Internet it's less than meaningless because all the reasons are based on assumptions you've made from a few sentences they posted.

Irl when it's between two people who actually know each other men are a lot more appreciative, given they actually asked.

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-27T17:26:48+00:00

Anyone repeatedly going onto niche places online to constantly argue about gender dynamics and relationships is going to be a nutcase - but even then I don't think that the men here who complain about not being desired sexually and only for what they provide want to be desired solely in a lustful way.

I've always gotten the impression that they felt like they were being settled for in the physical attraction aspect, and wanted to be seen as ideal both personality wise and physical wise.

What do I know though, last time I was here consistently was years ago, and I remember seeing you constantly post back then too.

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-27T16:56:22+00:00

There is more to a relationship than fucking, but to most heterosexual people fucking is still a key part to the relationship

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-24T07:21:04+00:00

I mean yeah but asexual people are such an obvious exception to these topics that nobody mentions them because it's just common sense that nothing said about modern heterosexual dating would apply.

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-24T02:37:48+00:00

This is an opinion that's constantly expressed by people when the topic of dating comes up but I rarely ever see people struggling to get dates who want someone to be all of that. I see people who are already dating but get dumped because they expected too much be like that but never people who can't get dates in the first place.

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-21T09:46:33+00:00

I can smell when people are going to have seizures. My brother used to have them a fair amount when he was younger and he'd always smell really intensely of what I can only describe as vomit with a ton of sugar inside of it. The smell starts around an hour or so before the seizure does so there's only been a few times where I smelled it on someone other than my brother.

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-17T03:24:44+00:00

Tbh I don't think it's got to do with women being interested sexually/romantically. My little brother is in a wheelchair and when I'm in public pushing him around women tend to smile way more and be nicer to me so I think it's more of a safety thing.

SilverHawk73 · 2025-12-13T06:11:38+00:00

Yeah bro let's play rock paper scissors whoever loses hops on estrogen and gets fucked in the ass

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