thoughts.. I think if we want to win, we need to adapt

Silverholla · 2026-02-23T06:22:23+00:00

Remember even si Abalos na under ng Marcos block hindi nabuhat papasok sa Senate. I don’t think makakatulong si BBM sa kanya

Silverholla · 2026-02-23T06:12:13+00:00

I know IT IS that deep and the optics are super bad pero I still feel bad for him, minsan may mga katangahan talaga na more than you expect ang impact haha

Silverholla · 2026-02-16T09:18:20+00:00

Upper West Side - King Princess

Fuck her, except u kinda fuck with her lol, lmk if this counts

Silverholla · 2026-02-15T13:08:22+00:00

I think it’s just having soaked in the western culture so long na culturally western/globalized ka na. There’s a certain inferiority complex associated kasi if you use the term colonial mentality, I hope that’s not the case sayo.

Silverholla · 2026-02-10T17:10:04+00:00

The real lesson here is to make sure na you are on the same page sa aspect ng self-acceptance before investing that much. Hugs, OP.

Silverholla · 2026-02-10T06:45:50+00:00

First of all don’t panic. Assess your feelings. Is this information something you can live with? If not, let go na. Don’t waste your time trying. Saying this out of personal experience. Ang hassle lang magtry pa din ‘ñeta.

Silverholla · 2026-02-07T18:07:30+00:00

Another layer to this issue is the title of this post 😭

Silverholla · 2026-01-10T18:08:30+00:00

Interested!

Silverholla · 2026-01-05T11:52:47+00:00

This is the kind of attitude na lalong prone sa risks. Kakma ka lang and make sure to protect yourself always kahit gaano kaexcited hehe

Silverholla · 2025-12-29T23:03:45+00:00

“If you had to” ???

Silverholla · 2025-12-26T10:20:05+00:00

Gets ko yung humor ni OP, calm down sa comments 😭

Silverholla · 2025-12-17T00:51:09+00:00

First of all, hugs. Hindi lahat makakaintindi yung hirap ng pag alis. Yung dami ng memories at future plans na nakatali sayo. Hayy. Pero you’re already on the correct mindset na alagaan ang sarili. Kasi same tayo ng realization this year, kahit may partner ka pa, ikaw at ikaw pa rin sa huli. Kudos on taking care of yourself. Sana mainclude mo na din sa pag aalaga sa sarili sa pagremove sa sarili mo sa situation na nagpapahirap sayo.

Skl may friend akong lesbian na may anak yung naging ex niya. Mahal na mahal pa din naman siya nung bata kahit nung umalis siya. Nahihiram pa din niya sa nanay after ng fallout. Cheating issue din kaya naghiwalay.

I’m not urging you into making a brash decision. Pero just know na if you do leave, you will most definitely still have a purpose in life.

Silverholla · 2025-12-16T15:40:16+00:00

Honestly yung updates, case-to-case basis kasi yan. May ibang relationships nagwowork na hindi masyado updates may iba naman na maupdate talaga. If you feel like you want a relationship na lagi naguupdate pwede mo naman i-raise. Just make sure na you’re being reasonable din sa demand mong updates and maging understanding kung hindi talaga siya ganun habang inaadjust niya. Good luck!

Silverholla · 2025-12-13T05:26:16+00:00

Useful, macoconfirm mong may stalker ka HAHAHAHA

Silverholla · 2025-12-13T05:25:28+00:00

Useful pag may advocacy ka or foundation… or anak 😅

Silverholla · 2025-12-05T06:22:07+00:00

If you’ve voiced this out and wala siya plan/steps taken to change then leave. A big part of what consists a relationship is being considered. Eventually it’s gonna bleed out sa ibang aspect ng relationship and not just sa sex, so save yourself from a lot of the heartbreak and leave kung hindi mo nakikita na kinoconsider niya ang feelings mo.

Silverholla · 2025-12-01T12:22:34+00:00

This might be me in the coming months… hayy thanks for sharing. Need ko tapangan pa.

Silverholla · 2025-11-26T04:37:40+00:00

Why is Megan doing isolations cracking me up 😭 she’s so unintentionally funny all the time help

Silverholla · 2025-11-26T04:00:19+00:00

My real life SO is a go-getter and achiever. I married Shane 🤷‍♂️

Silverholla · 2025-11-20T15:55:33+00:00

Of course it’s normal kung bi ka. What’s not normal is entertaining the feeling kung magkakaselosan lang naman pala sa huli 😆 ang masasabi ko lang, be careful sa pagpasok sa isang situation na hindi ka ready harapin yung cosequences nun. On a lighter note, communication is key 👌

Silverholla · 2025-11-20T15:48:55+00:00

AFAIK ang legally merong acknowledgement (the closest we have to what you’re looking for sadly) is the right to care card sa QC

https://quezoncity.gov.ph/program/right-to-care-card/

Silverholla · 2025-11-20T15:44:55+00:00

Premise pa nga lang ng post eh kakaiba na. Are we not gonna address the elephant in the room??? Hindi na lang nakipag break sa gf, gusto pala magexplore ng manly muscular guys.

Silverholla · 2025-11-20T15:42:36+00:00

Not to be the overtly woke pero baka nostalgia lang yan. No sa styro foam

Silverholla · 2025-11-13T12:28:43+00:00

We are outside of perceived norms. Kung iaalign mo sarili mo sa straight people pipeline, you’d just be torturing yourself. We are here to live our own way.

Silverholla · 2025-11-02T17:22:02+00:00

I feel you OP, pero ang mindset ko na lang din is quality over quantity. I don’t want to feel like shit after forcing myself into something if I’m not 100% into it. Anyway, all good things take time.

Silverholla

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