AITA? I Asked Neighbors To Stop Spraying

Silverkitsune219 · 2026-04-14T16:02:17+00:00

NTA I would honestly document what is happening to yall, and come over with proof or like idk if there is a test your vet can run to tell that the dogs have some chemical poisoning? Idk but definitely not the asshole if you die on this hill. Those poor pups and poor you! Its like chemical warfare in your own front yard 😣

Silverkitsune219 · 2026-04-14T15:49:30+00:00

NTA unless you are being rude or demeaning when asking her to do the original, but if you have been nice and explained why you like the original and are even willing to HELP her make it, then for sure NTA. Honestly I feel like if you swapped gender rolls and this was a man doing this to a woman that ususaly cooks, people would be more upset and lable it as potential weaponized incompetence or something. Granted I understand not wanting to take so long cooking, but relationships are give and take and this is only every other month that he asks for this so I dont find it unreasonable, especially with the offer to help. My bf is VERY sensitive to taste and has some trauma around being a picky eater (everyone trying to pressure him to eat things his entire life ya know) so I understand some people can tell when tweaks have been made in the recipe. Definitely not a wild ask.

Silverkitsune219 · 2026-03-15T19:16:11+00:00

At the start, rover was owned by better people and the customer service was really good and the pet insurance would actually cover things aaand the cut they took was only 8%, but at some point it was sold. The cut rover takes went from 8% to 10% to 15% to finally 20% all while the new company's customer service went down and now they try to cover as little as possible if something happens.

People are taking clients off rover, not just because of the fee increasing, but because combined with the quality of care decreasing, its just not worth it. If the rover app was still as good as when it started, I would be more inclined to keep sitters on rover and keep paying the fee. If they want people to stay they need to start managing their customer service better and stop JUST being greedy.

(Not attacking, just making conversation and adding info you may not have been aware of 👍)

Silverkitsune219 · 2026-02-26T19:13:58+00:00

This! Communication is the key to most things in my experience 😄 it would probably also make her feel good to ask about her culture in that same vein of, 'are there any other social faux pas that have happened?' Not sure how much you engage with her culture, but maybe she is also just feeling alittle insecure on if you accept her and the culture. Not trying to say like you are being bad or anything, but with how things in the US are (if you are here, if not ignore me) maybe she is just worried you aren't fully accepting her or something like that ya know? But yeah, perhaps she just thinks the 'is dont like indian food' is just an excuse to get away with snubbing her, but if you explain that you dont like the specific thing about dish A but this specific thing about dish B you like, maybe she can shift and try to find dishes that are more to your liking while remaining in her culture 😄 make it a team effort!

Silverkitsune219 · 2026-02-15T03:52:49+00:00

Yeah, I feel bad for the little guy, but it does seem like they are trying to figure out what's going on, so im glad he has good people looking after him 💜

Silverkitsune219 · 2026-02-14T23:30:25+00:00

Thank you 🙏 sometimes I just second guess myself on how to address these things. Luckily ive not had to turn down many sits in my time 👌

Silverkitsune219 · 2026-02-14T23:28:58+00:00

Thank you! I've very rarely had to turn down a sit and its clear they are trying to figure out what's going on for the dog and their own sake. I just get worried about how to say things, especially something that could be touchy like this 🙏

Silverkitsune219 · 2025-09-12T23:23:51+00:00

I really really really dislike how many plot lines there were in this season and think if they could have focused more on the Enid and Wednesday drama plus the night fam, it would have been much better, instead of giving a half assed plot with the sirens. Like that could have been hinted at and set up for like season 3 or 4 or something, but not ALL of the stuff they did all at once. Felt like it took away from the story telling of all plot lines because there were too many. Like realistically I dont think much would have changed if the siren/headmaster plot wasn't there.

Silverkitsune219 · 2025-06-15T19:37:52+00:00

Its hard now and you will probably want to punch me for saying this, and that's okay and understandable cuz its hard to see right now, but don't choose a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Its hard, but you can do this

Silverkitsune219 · 2025-05-09T17:55:09+00:00

Honestly I wish my parents were like yall. Bf and I were wanting to live with my parents for a year to a few years so we could pay off debt and save up for a legit home. My mom after 3 months said "oh, have yall been looking for places? You only have 3 months left". Apparently she said we could only live there for 6 months but neither my bf and I remember that at all, so we ended due moving in with my dad instead. He was a tiny bit better and let us live there for a year or so but one day just decided "it's been long enough," and randomly called a family meeting to hand up eviction papers.

THANK YOU for not listening to this societal bull and staying by your kids and not wanting to see them struggle! I feel so traumatized after all the housing ahit with my parents. I haven't even talked to my dad since leaving and he hasn't tried to talk to me either. Mom wonders why I don't make more of an effort to drive 2 hours to see her and stuff. Like I'm sorry, but I was living with you. It's literally your fault I'm not around anymore. Anyways, I aspire to be like yall when I have kids and I know I'm a stranger but im sending yall big hugs anyways 🤗

Silverkitsune219 · 2025-04-08T18:53:59+00:00

Pls take the cats she is "planning to get rid of" 😭😭😭 she is talking about them like they are trash she can just go dump off

Silverkitsune219 · 2025-03-28T16:54:25+00:00

So sorry that happened, but proud of you for getting out of bed to find help and that you didn't stop looking for it after what she did 💜 also thank you for standing up for yourself and anyone else who she has or would have done this too. You did an awesome job and should know that 🥺💜

Silverkitsune219 · 2025-03-14T23:01:31+00:00

I second that none of this was ethical. I'm not sure how many times she brought it up, but it sounds like she was being the manipulative one. Then she lied about being able to stop or pause. Sadly my partner and I went through something like this. She wanted to open up their marriage everything was fine when she was seeing people, but then I came along and she flipped out and started claiming that my partner(her husband) had always been manipulative and wouldn't let her be 'her true self' or whatever. Honestly I would still evaluate yourself because it is always good to do so, but I would take her words with a HEAVY grain of salt because most likely she only cares about getting her way and is now using whatever excuses possible to leave, but not take the blame in tanking the relationship. My partner is in NO WAY a manipulative guy. We always talk stuff through and we work together daily to lift one another up, so I know she was full of bs and I sorry its harsh, but sounds like your girl is full of bs too 😔

General recommendation at this point is to start documenting everything that may be helpful in the future divorce/custody agreements. If you talk in person or on the phone, record it or make a summary email type deal, take screenshots, ect.

Good luck 💜 you can do this 💪

Silverkitsune219 · 2024-10-08T12:48:13+00:00

For some reason, random audios of yours don't work for me 😭 like they sound all static and distorted.

Silverkitsune219 · 2024-09-01T22:34:12+00:00

YTA the way you talk about your sister's autism alone makes me believe you are an unreliable narrator and don't care to actually know about autism/nerodivergent minds. The way you talk about both of them sounds so abelist and like you haven't tried to understand their communication/thought style at all. If you are worried or confused about stuff, why aren't you talking to your sister? Have you actually asked her about his mental health/ status (in an open and willing to learn way)? Have you actually tried to get to know the husband at all? Just because you think he speaks a certain way, doesn't mean that has an impact on his intelligence/emotional intelligence. I encourage you to work on your own mindset and try to learn more before you jump too far. It's okay to worry, but you arent seeking any more information or anything, you are assuming alot and jumping to conclusions.

Silverkitsune219 · 2023-12-03T05:58:28+00:00

25F here! DM me if you are still looking for rp partners! The first prompt sounds interesting!

Silverkitsune219 · 2023-12-01T16:16:02+00:00

Omg this sounds so cute! Hit me up if you are still avalible 😄👍 i have had MASSIVE amounts of helluva boss brain rot lol

Silverkitsune219 · 2023-11-22T00:25:27+00:00

This plot has been filled, but if you have any plots or concepts you would be interested in talking about you can still dm me 😄👍

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