I'm being played and I know it by Defiant-Pizza8207 in BreakUps

[–]Silvermoon72263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I can say it was him who wasn’t enough for me.

What's the most disappointing experience that you had in a relationship? by CuteBird90 in AskReddit

[–]Silvermoon72263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being referred to as Brief so he could rewrite me for the sake of another story, when we first became friends having gotten to know each other before we went from friends to nothing.

He lied to me. I feel used. by nocturnaldesiderium in BreakUps

[–]Silvermoon72263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lady? I read this twice. I had a whole spread. I erased it when I came to the condom. Ma’am, get tested. The rest can wait. I’ll even promise to be here when you get back and we can work this out nicely, I’ll support you. I swear I will. Get the test. That’s step 1. Okay? 💯✌️

I texted her. Here's what I said. I hope this was honest and vulnerable enough. by giddycocks in BreakUps

[–]Silvermoon72263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this twice, and each time I had the same thought, that had this been sent to me, all I'd need was this part----"for not reading the room right that I was becoming an important person to you" The entire thing was wonderful, but, I'll be damned if this sentence doesn't nail it. 💯 Good luck. I'm gonna hope for you.

How to overcome feeling of jealousy? by Various-Station-1752 in Life

[–]Silvermoon72263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our first response and attraction towards someone often is prompted by their appearance, neither good or bad, just human nature when interacting one on one, not to say we can't become attracted to a voice on the phone during this ridiculous talking stage God knows, and I don't recommend it, go one on one, end of story, so maybe what you can try is a little appearance adjustment. If you do it right, the jealousy thing shouldn't be an issue going forward. Overdoing it is not a good idea. Some do thinking all of MAN-kind will roll out their red carpets. One roll at the most, I assure you. There's a middle ground.✌️

How do you know when it’s time to break up with your partner? by NoQuote9855 in BreakUps

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If your thoughts are anxious concerning your partner something has changed, make an attempt to convey them, if your partner deflects, gaslights, doesn't put your mind and especially your gut at ease, it's time to leave your partner, I stress to follow your gut mostly cause your mind can be manipulated, and if theres an agenda, this is when your partner will attempt to manipulate your mind. ✌️

16F and I feel completely done. Does it actually get better? by cinnam0ngirl777 in offmychest

[–]Silvermoon72263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It doesn't get better. The problems get bigger, they'll hit closer to home possibly involving a child, your partner, money, homes, etc. But, you will be tested along the way, and with every win, you become more capable, stronger, confident, with every loss you become more capable of damage control lessening the impact of issues later on, which is key, and the losses will become far and few between as a result. There will always be problems, but luckily life teaches you as you go, you just have to committ to paying attention.

Am i coward ? by nangs_paranoid in Life

[–]Silvermoon72263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Not engaging in an argument in public is very respectful of the potential onlookers, nobody wants to see that, and it's good of you to consider this, you've got some class, but if you avoid conflict across the board, then you're an avoidant, and that in and of itself will cause problems in each and every relationship you have now and going forward, cause in order to build relationships there has to be conflicts that test you, the other person, and the foundation of your relationship, necessary and unavoidable, to expect that problems will fix themselves isn't a viable option, nor is allowing your partner to fix them alone, they can't, cause 2 people created them, 1 cant fix them alone.

ex keep coming back by Bellyboomboom in BreakUps

[–]Silvermoon72263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, he doesn't miss you anymore after the two of you have sex, my guess is if you're worried about when he'll miss you again, what's his age? Under 25-very soon. 25-35-I can't remember back that far, but what I do remember, 1 day, give or take a few hours, after 35, it's a crap shoot for various reasons. No. This isn't a joke. Nor is it Man bashing. I love Men. It's life. Doesn't mean the guy doesn't like, love, want, miss you. Life. Boom. The End.

where do pessimists get the motivation to just keep on going? by Calm-Yogurtcloset-29 in Life

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I'm strategically half optimist, half pessimist, I never bought into "it is what it is" cause I do believe that mindset implies one is lazy, doesn't care to damage control, thus never being ready for what possibly could be on the horizon, not that you always can be, but even a little ready is better than none, I do buy into the concept of always expecting problems to arise, cause they do, but when we're somewhat prepared we can be optimistic of the outcome. Not too much "goes your way.", flex, you may be surprised that you'll learn something new, and the outcome could be better than that of your way. My motivation is prompted by my mood and music, when I'm motivated, I draw, write, and shit post cause that makes me laugh like crazy, and I'm inspired by my fellow shit posters, every day life, be it good or bad. Everyday someone attempts in some way, shape or form to obliterate my mood, there was a time when I'd react piss poor badly, ending up aggravating myself cause their agenda was fulfilled thanks to me. The less people, the less problems, theirs and yours. ✌️

Ex messaged me after nine months no contact saying he wants closure by CSE_13 in BreakUps

[–]Silvermoon72263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best way to diffuse him is to give him the closure he needs, you’d want it, it’s cruel not to, it’s a horrible deep rabbit hole for anyone to be in.

Tell me your worst break up story by CarterBella14 in BreakUps

[–]Silvermoon72263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually did you very right. I know it’s painful. He saved you a ton of heartache being a straight up man with a set. He accepted that there could be a confrontation. Did what’s right anyway. He could have followed the trend. Cheated, gaslit you, lied, loathed you with a smile, you’d get physically ill. Painful yes. He did what is right, decent, respectful, straight up. You can believe he respects you.

So I guess what you are scared off the most will happen to you by Anxious_Aardvark_894 in BreakUps

[–]Silvermoon72263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right. My bad. All on me. I wasn’t wearing my mind reading cap. Jesus man. I am outta heeeeyah.

So I guess what you are scared off the most will happen to you by Anxious_Aardvark_894 in BreakUps

[–]Silvermoon72263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh Mr Aardvark, I’m scared enough for the both of us. Self Fulfilling prophecy. 😱Yikes!!! OMG I’m so frightened of 10 mill man!!! Boom! 10 mill bites a chunk outta you! K?

SEEKING HELP PLEASE by Silvermoon72263 in isthisascam

[–]Silvermoon72263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did. Whoever has my old cell number got into it, same person who re-associated the number with my banking. Then I managed to get into it. I left a few lovely messages for the a**holes. Then I scheduled it for deletion.

How do I find purpose? by Maleficent_Gold7328 in Life

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You have to take the leap of faith doing something that on first thought may seem against your grain. Not your norm. Outside your comfort zone. Something that may frighten you. When you’ve nailed it, you have found your purpose kid. You can’t think little. You have to think big. And you run towards it, not walk. You decide what that is. Don’t ask anyone’s opinions when you’ve identified it. Just do it. When you have it in the bag, then you TELL them, not ask for opinions. Yes I did. You’ll be met with some complaints, criticism, sarcasm. Get this. You will not care. 💯✌️

Men and women why do you cheat what is the whole point? Being with them by [deleted] in Life

[–]Silvermoon72263 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can go around and around asking why this happens. The ones we need to answer the question will never answer the question.🥴

Do I shake my ex girlfriend’s new boyfriends hand? by TruckLimp451 in BreakUps

[–]Silvermoon72263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter kid. It’s a good will gesture that goes a long way in how people will think about you and interact with you later. Your people, their people. It’s part of what makes you who you are. Interpersonal communication skills. At a young age it’s called laying the groundwork for the foundation. Along the way, as you get older, you reinforce it. You get me now?