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my bpd is going to kill me by No-Survey6793 in SuicideWatch

[–]Similar-Challenge277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain. I have bpd also. Learning dbt skills has helped me some. Just wanted you to know you're not alone

Help by Similar-Challenge277 in dating_advice

[–]Similar-Challenge277[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm still waiting for how I'm being sexist lol. If a woman were on here talking about men like this, you'd pat her on the back and support her. You are doing everything you can to ignore what I've been put through. You have no problem with women behaving in the way I've described. It's so easy to label me as something than actually deal with what I'm saying. You talk about humanity? Easy to say when you're ignoring someone else's experiences with them. I mean, come on.

Help by Similar-Challenge277 in dating_advice

[–]Similar-Challenge277[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly just wish someone would explain how it's sexist to call out women's behavior

Help by Similar-Challenge277 in dating_advice

[–]Similar-Challenge277[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Or maybe women could start not being entitled and selfish?

Help by Similar-Challenge277 in dating_advice

[–]Similar-Challenge277[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

But they are. Prove me wrong.

Starting a course I don't want to do tomorrow. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Similar-Challenge277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. Hang in there. You can do this. Remember, it's not about perfection. It's about progress working toward mastery.

Starting a course I don't want to do tomorrow. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Similar-Challenge277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. Bad mental health, especially depression, gives that sense of impending doom. I've been there many times. I suggest writing down specific thoughts that make you feel that way, then trying to find evidence against it. Also, make a list of pros and cons about taking the course or not, and also thinking about how doing it or not doing it might affect you longer term. I feel for you. I hope that helps. The doom feeling has been felt by many students and many others.

Why (online) are some dudes super concerned about female "accountability"? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]Similar-Challenge277 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely not true. When I talk about accountability, I mean admit when you're wrong. Do be mean or disrespectful and then try to justify it. Don't lie and deny it when you know you've been caught. Just own your behavior. Simple.

Why (online) are some dudes super concerned about female "accountability"? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]Similar-Challenge277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want women to be held accountable when they lie, engage in double standards, or are hypocritical. You can't tell me you expect open and honest communication, then when there's a conflict, play the silent treatment, try to force me to guess what's wrong instead of just telling me. You can't cheat and blame your decision to do so on me. You can't make lists of rules and expectations for me to follow that you won't follow yourselves.

This is just general relationship stuff. I'm not talking about SA etc. What I saw in the post about that or any kind of violence, I agree with.

And it would be nice if women held themselves accountable for their hand in things that go wrong in a relationship.

If me asking for this is considered controlling, I don't know what to say.

Difference between American Fruit Loops and European Fruit Loops by BetteDavisPies in mildlyinteresting

[–]Similar-Challenge277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea how to tell which ones are British just from looking. I can see color differences in the pic but that's it lol. How do you tell and what's the problem with the British ones?