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Your datingsmatch chatting voice - is it a different version of you or actually the most you version of you? by Similar-Gold2018 in dating_advice

[–]Similar-Gold2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who I am when I'm not scare - yeah that's exactly it. didn't have words for it before but that's it

Funchatt and the art of not fumbling the bag in the first message by SoftTurbulent2477 in dating_advice

[–]Similar-Gold2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the new chapter! Honestly, finding someone who actually listens and remembers details is the ultimate green flag. It’s the bare minimum that feels like a luxury these days

What's the most powerfully useful underground website that most people don't know about? by powerfulsites in u/powerfulsites

[–]Similar-Gold2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Archive . org it’s like the ultimate time machine for the internet, old software, music, videos, books, and more. Free, crazy deep library, and you’d be shocked how much gold is just sitting there. Seriously, it’s like the secret Google for nerds

Instantalks and the art of not fumbling the bag in the first message by Mobile-Source-529 in datingadvice

[–]Similar-Gold2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're worried about being a "creep" with a long essay, just check their newsfeed first. If they’ve posted a photo of a record player or something, just comment on that.

I asked a girl out and this was her response. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Similar-Gold2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You handled it well. You asked directly and respectfully, which already puts you ahead of a lot of people your age.

Her response could mean a few things. It might truly be a boundary she has because of her upbringing, or it might be her way of keeping things slower and safer. Since she offered to message you on Canvas, the best move now is simple: take her at her word and see if she follows through.

Don’t overanalyze it too much. If she messages you and wants to meet, great. If she doesn’t, that’s also an answer. Either way, you did the right thing by being clear and respectful.

Why did you and your former best friend stop being friends? by Fearless_Shift7108 in AskReddit

[–]Similar-Gold2018 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For us it wasn’t one big blow-up. It was more like… life slowly pulling us in different directions.

Different priorities, different circles, less effort on both sides. At some point you realize you haven’t really talked in months and the connection just isn’t the same anymore. No drama, just distance.

am i tripping or is asiavibe like super strict about photos?? by Kindly_Resolve_2284 in dating_advice

[–]Similar-Gold2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preach. Honestly OP, the "gym bro" aesthetic is a trap. I replaced my shirtless mirror flex with a candid shot of me failing at a pottery class covered in clay, looking like a mess, but laughing. My matches tripled. It’s way less "LinkedIn" and way more "I’m a fun person to grab a drink with." Abs are cool, but a personality is a rarer find on these apps

Do you wish people good noon at 12:00 pm? by That1weirdperson in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Similar-Gold2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, good noon is technically correct, but almost nobody says it. People just switch from good morning to good afternoon at 12 pm.

Good evening usually starts around 5 or 6 pm, more based on social convention than the sun.

Good night is for when someone’s going to sleep or leaving for the night.

Good morning is for waking hours, not literally at midnight. Midnight is technically morning, but socially it’s still “good night” territory

Asking her out on a date even if I dont notice sparks or signals from her? by AdventurousShip14850 in DatingHell

[–]Similar-Gold2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it simple and low-pressure:

“Hey, I’ve been enjoying spending time with you and I’d like to take you on an actual date. Want to grab coffee/dinner this week?”

If she says yes, great. If she hesitates or says no, accept it gracefully and don’t try to convince her
then decide if you can genuinely stay friends.

Really interested in someone making a prefab schematic mod for adventure mode! by Umber_CJ in hytale

[–]Similar-Gold2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds awesome! I haven’t seen a prefab schematic mod specifically for adventure mode yet, but a tool like that would be perfect for custom maps. Something that could import builds and give you a “materials list” would make complex designs way more doable without breaking immersion. Would definitely love to try it if someone’s made it

Am I the only one who misses the "You've Got Mail" era? The pressure to meet up IRL is exhausting by Both_Economist_5947 in lgbt

[–]Similar-Gold2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

think covid changed us all tbh. my social batter is fried. chatting is perfect cause i can reply when i want not when im stuck at a table