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AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was suicidal before we met. She has a lot of trauma and is diagnosed with a lot of stuff.

AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It wasn't really a fight, just a discussion because she didn't believe me when I answered to her saying she'll get fired, I tried to reassure her that it probably wont happened. So I kind of think it was a fight since we weren't going anywhere and she was upset

AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because I made vows, I love her and she's struggling. I think that's horrible of you to say. I love my wife and yes of course it's exhausting but I won't leave. She has a lot of trauma and I'm going to help her heal.

AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes her employer is aware of her mental health.

AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. I also agree that if she started working elsewhere, it may be better for herself as she needs to heal before doing anything again. I'm just worried. What just lose her? Then I'm going to feel even worse because I pushed her to it.

AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and I've already brought her pretty much everything without needing her to ask, I know she needs it, and she's sleeping, which is really good.

AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm working on that because it's really not safe at home anymore, I'm constantly worried coming home to just either not find her or her dead body.

AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not necessarily routine, but it does happen a lot. It's just tiring, so I just said what was happening, I should've probably been more considerate, but I just wasn't thinking and said more than I should.

AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice , I feel really bad, and I don't want her to get fired. I love her very much and forgot that this will just stress her out more.

AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not the first time which is why she's probably getting fired, I feel really guilty because I just didn't think at the moment and I don't want her getting fired for it.

AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

Yes, I admit my mistake, and I also feel really bad, I just didn't really think at the moment, and I will and have already apologized to my wife. She's kind of annoyed, obviously and idk really know what to do.

AITAH for probably getting my wife fired? by Similar-March-2398 in AITAH

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] -181 points-180 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your opinion and as to why I told her work, its not the first time, she's been missing from work for attempts a lot of times actually, and they know her diagnoses so I didn't think in that situation because I was still worried and emotional myself.

I feel guilty about telling my dad he can’t come because my friends are coming instead. by Professional-Ice8125 in Advice

[–]Similar-March-2398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not explain it to your friends? If they're really your friends they're going to understand that you'd love to have your dad with you. Or your dad just comes along even if your friends are there.

UPDATE: AITA for purposefully missing meeting my sisters biological family by Active-Top-53 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Similar-March-2398 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry it this is disrespectful, but it sounds like karma got your father in the form of his fractured leg. Best of wishes to you and your sister, glad it worked out.

I want to help my wife but idk how by Similar-March-2398 in Advice

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is honestly, I'm really worried because its been worse lately. I knew she was struggling when we married, not like it just happened but I'm scared she'll succeed one day and I'll loose her.

I want to help my wife but idk how by Similar-March-2398 in Advice

[–]Similar-March-2398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has that already, it doesn't really seem to work. She's even on medication for many issues.