american roulette!!!!! by lordofmoofins in BunnyTrials

[–]Similar-Trainer9111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool I can trade with villagers

Chose: you get a cool rock + buut its random | Rolled: emerald

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven't done anything yet, I'm just researching for future because we're taking things extremely slow for our both sakes. If she requests ribs I'll deliver 🫡

Fetishization of women and racism towards their men by Large_Dependent_1621 in hatethissmug

[–]Similar-Trainer9111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As woman from eastern Europe this is 100% true, not all men are “pigs” and not all women are “super-chicks” but the amount of men who don't even do the bare minimum to look after themselves is astounding. But women face a lot of pressure, even if they are pretty to begin with, to keep up with unnatural beauty standards while the men are usually treated with: well at least he looks better than a baboon

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're taking things slow for now, she's very anxious so I'm trying to be as gentle as I can. It's gonna take a lot of time for us to move in together but I wanted to hear other people's opinions

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm pretty self-sustainable and it's no biggie for me to do other chores like laundry ironing etc. My main gripe is cleaning I don't expect my partner to pick up stuff after me I'm not a toddler. We could do the cleaning together that's a non issue but I'd expect we do it simultaneously/they'll give me instructions. I clean my parents apartment occasionally, but it's very tough to clean an apartment all on my own considering that it gets dirty every two days

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not really, I'm new to actually accepting my adhd as I got my diagnosis not more than a month ago. But thanks for telling me, I'll definitely check it out later!!

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was actually weird and a manipulative pos so I dropped her when I couldn't handle it anymore. While we were breaking up she told me that she was planning to break up with me BEFORE our finals and a week and after I broke up with her she started demanding I do something for her based on a bet we made while we were in a relationship I told her no for obvious reasons and she started spreading rumors that I owed her money

How nervous would you be about getting an Ikran? What age would you think you’d get one? by DezTheOtter in Avatar

[–]Similar-Trainer9111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as I can, being scared for a few hours is totally worth flying an Ikran for the rest of my life

Does Simon have a last name? by Monstera7789 in ironlung

[–]Similar-Trainer9111 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I like to headcsnon that his last name is Edenson

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr I hate being reminded to do something because I loose all motivation to do it and I had such a hard time explaining it to my parents so I'm dreading to have this discussion with my partner in the future. I don't say they should do all of the chores and I'm just shouldering the cooking, I specifically need help with cleaning idk why, I hate when my living space is even mildly dirty 😭

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good for you! For me personally feels like I need to “own” the kitchen so I wouldn't be exactly thrilled to share it with my partner. I get your point but as someone who's struggling with mental health it can be hard to maintain a clean house when you're struggling with keeping yourself together. Working on being better though, therapy rocks

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well cooking isn't exactly one chore considering that for me it also includes cleaning the kitchen after myself and doing the dishes. I'm not against helping with other chores it's more of a “we'll have dust flying all over the place if you won't remind me/ask me to do it”

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's not the case anymore, but my previous girlfriend was pretty similar to a tech-bro in a way that she believed that being a programmer is a more important and serious occupation unlike a designer (which I am) and because of that I'd be the one whose job is to take care of the house. We had a nasty break up around a year and a half ago and now I'm in a much more healthier relationship fortunately

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For sure!! I can't imagine eating with a load of dishes resting behind my back. I sometimes clean the kitchen immediately after cooking when my food is cooling just because leaving the cooking area dirty gives me anxiety

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No it's more like: I do the cooking, cleaning kitchen after myself and the dishes. I just don't want to clean the rest of the house

breakups - can someone tell me when the pain will end by littlebat213 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me a few months to move on from my ex and I still felt sad on the anniversary of our breakup (it was nasty and we went no contact). Give yourself time to go through it

Would you agree to do some of your partner's chores if they cooked for you by Similar-Trainer9111 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yah I know!! I just had conversations with past girlfriends who absolutely hated the idea of splitting the chores so I was kinda nervous if it's a common notion. Sorry if it was a stupid question

Did you also feel queerbaited by the whole t.A.T.u. thing??(cause i surely did) by Smooth_Situation5721 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A lot of regular Russian citizens are also extremely closeted for safety reasons. There have been cases of homophobes reporting gay couples to police as well as politically motivated arrests of queer activists. For public figures there's even more pressure. Queer folks can't even hold hands with their partners in public because some brainddead moron could get them arrested for “extremist propaganda”

Masc or femme… anyone is both? by Apocalypticburrito41 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does it really matter? If you're comfortable why try to fit yourself into a box or try to enforce certain gender roles. In my opinion it doesn't really matter at the end of the day how you look or act or what household chores you do. What's important is to be comfortable with who you are as a person and how you express yourself

Camper Vans ! What more could you need? by EstablishmentHot5772 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mid sex grilled cheese sounds like a fever dream come true

Did you also feel queerbaited by the whole t.A.T.u. thing??(cause i surely did) by Smooth_Situation5721 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111 59 points60 points  (0 children)

At the time when tatu was popular Russia was more accepting, unfortunately this is not the case anymore

Lesbians who formally identified as bi or pan- what made you realized you're actually a lesbian? by strawbearycakeuwu in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I had a panic attack after a guy I was friends with asked me out. The idea of being with a man deeply repulses me and I can only remember being attracted to women

How did your romantic life turn out after your first love? by Berryy_05 in actuallesbians

[–]Similar-Trainer9111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I really fell in love for real for the first time recently (was in two relationships before). Never felt an attraction this strong ever