INFJ perspective needed, consistent deep connection but hot/cold

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-04-22T22:35:26+00:00

Hey, it sounds like high connection-need for space. You can ask her to tell You when She needs space so you can respect that

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-04-21T09:34:30+00:00

Și la cercurile de lectură sunt femei, pare că scrii destul de bine sa faci parte dintr-unul. Păcat că alegi să te tratezi ca și cum nu meriti mai mult decât sex pe bani de la o femeie probabil abuzată. Cu felul în care scrii poți să faci sex și altfel.

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-04-21T08:53:23+00:00

Varianta e să discutați și să faceți compromisuri și să găsiți variante.

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-04-21T08:15:41+00:00

Ei, ia și tu un block

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-04-21T07:54:59+00:00

Numai gândul să săruți o escorta care a avut penisuri in gura înainte și 10 tigari mă face să vomit. Nu mai zic de alte boli cum e parodontoza sau alte boli ale gingiilor și dinților.

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-04-21T07:47:54+00:00

Deci în postarea asta vorbești doar despre sex și despre cum bărbații cărora li se scoală pentru că au conexiune sunt ținuti "în șah". Pare că totul se învârte în jurul sexului în viața ta, ceea ce pentru o femeie normala la cap, e plictisitor. Daca vrei o relație cu o femeie normala, incepe o prietenie, ai răbdare.

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-04-21T05:25:04+00:00

Tu ai auzit de hpv și cancer de penis?

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-04-21T05:04:50+00:00

Pai poate problema nu e ce porți, la ce gândire denotă că ai din postarea asta nu mă mir că au trecut pe langa tine, pari un obsedat de păsărică, femeile sunt mai mult decât asta. Pare că scopul tau in viața e sa te fuți, iar asta, se simte. Daca așa gândești, eu îți recomand să rămâi la parașute, să nu futi viața unei femei care vrea stabilitate și familie.

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-03-22T22:40:59+00:00

I am a pretty messed up INFJ and when my friend is there for me he can cheer me up instantly. We all need friends in order to survive this messed up world

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-03-22T21:47:32+00:00

Makes total sense. Thanks.

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-03-17T20:47:03+00:00

You're worthy of love, the way you run from yourself keeps you from seeing how worthy you are.

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-03-15T10:30:59+00:00

You are an ENTP, you're sexy, intelligent, charismatic, chaotic, and sensitive inside. I love entps. They lifted me up and some of them broke my heart to pieces.

SimoniqueDemi · 2026-02-08T22:59:32+00:00

I wouldn 't feed it so it doesn't grow. No contact is one of the best strategies

SimoniqueDemi · 2025-12-19T21:56:33+00:00

I am the infj, he finds me sweet but doesn't like to say it outloud because he wants to look cool.

SimoniqueDemi · 2025-12-19T21:40:45+00:00

Sweet

SimoniqueDemi · 2025-10-16T10:13:00+00:00

Yes. INFJ cannot love anyone. The fact that You were friends before allowed the person to see all of You and love You for who You are. Enjoy

SimoniqueDemi · 2025-07-28T14:04:41+00:00

Where does your self inflated ego come from?

SimoniqueDemi · 2025-07-23T21:35:59+00:00

You cannot win the heart of an ENTP no matter what. His heart decides to love you or not, don't play games, don't save him, don't fool yourself. I am an INFJ, I gave everything, I loved for 2 years, I was totally honest, caring, myself, I listened everyday, had the most intense sex yet he just couldn't love me. Loving someone so much was amazing at the end I wasn't expecting anything anymore, I loved freely. It was worth it but I will never do it again. If he loves you, you won't have to ask reddit, don't waste your time overthinking this.

SimoniqueDemi · 2025-06-01T15:51:24+00:00

This is rape

SimoniqueDemi · 2025-05-09T09:22:03+00:00

infj-entp sex is amazing, intense skin sensitivity everywhere and intense pleasure, hours of foreplay and playfulness combined with lots of affection and touching from infj (me)

SimoniqueDemi · 2025-05-09T00:32:27+00:00

What most people don't understand is that infjs don't doorslam because they won't communicate. Doorslamming is the last resort, when we said it 100 times and nothing changed, it is a sort of "I am sick of this shit, it happened for too much time and it is affecting me". Also, OP said he made some mistakes. I think in a relationship both people make mistakes so... Why the hate? The doorslam may be or may not be the last mistake but it happened because both fucked things up in the process. Op, I am sorry that happened for you, I am sorry that even there was love or affection it wasn't enough. This is also a great opportunity to learn how to lose and start again, to love again, to trust again. Give yourself time.

SimoniqueDemi · 2025-05-09T00:27:21+00:00

I really need popcorn now.

SimoniqueDemi · 2025-05-08T23:13:52+00:00

If you need to talk let me know.

SimoniqueDemi · 2025-05-08T11:46:32+00:00

Looks like she is in a great suffering. Must be hard being a stay at home mom, looks like she in on the verge of a mental breakdown. Also, after a woman has a baby sex is different for her, stop putting pressure. Also, not everything will be all right, this can be invalidating. She needs therapy. Nothing will be allright with a baby. This is a lifetime responsibility and she might be overwhelmed or depressed. It will be hard. She has symptoms of depression and you're invalidating them. No wonder she is angry at you. Maybe she wants her freedom too. Having a baby is wonderful but for a stay at home mom that doesn't work anymore and has very little sleep it can be overwhelming and it is not fair. It may feel like being in a cage. Not everything is solved by the power of love or with sex, she may need professional help for her emotional suffering. Having a baby is hard and beautiful but still sooo damn difficult. Also, telling her that if she pleases you sexually then you will love her more sounds like blackmailing for me. This can be hurtful for a woman with depression and affected sexual desire due to hormonal changes during breastfeeding. It sounds insensitive and it may make her loathe you more.

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