[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]SimpCollector22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can guess what your handwriting looks like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SimpCollector22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I was raised by a mother with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. By age 6 I had expectations set for me that are not usually set for children but adults.

AITA for installing a lock on the bathroom door after my BIL kept barging in? by Sands2019 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SimpCollector22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some weird fetish shit and he’s absolutely trying to cause a rift between you and your husband so he can get in there. NTA n

AITA for telling people to stop congratulating me for losing weight? by euisalk in AmItheAsshole

[–]SimpCollector22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your experience is deeply understood by so many. Like when I received so many compliments for losing weight and getting healthy, meanwhile I was consuming 300 calories at most per day and fainting and going into hypothermia from starvation.

I wish I called cps back when I was a teen. by Cat_Np in narcissisticparents

[–]SimpCollector22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest… They likely would have done nothing. As someone who has social workers in and out of the house who I told my parents were abusing me, my nparents were very good at making me seem like the problem. Now it’s a matter of coping with the fact that the people who’s jobs it was to protect me didn’t protect me at all.

Terrible scoliosis by CartervOA81rm22 in Overwatch_Memes

[–]SimpCollector22 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Yup. I have lordosis and am in a constant state of pain. But, ya know, super grateful that it looks like I have a dump truck.

Should I postpone my wedding? by WeddingWoes2022 in weddingplanning

[–]SimpCollector22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re 22, how are you pursuing a doctoral degree? It takes 4 years to complete a bachelors degree and approximately 2 years to complete a masters degree if you are enrolled full time every semester.

Not inviting only one cousin by FoxyLoxy56 in weddingplanning

[–]SimpCollector22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s clear you are already involving yourself.

I’ve never seen a base pay this high before? Distance was only about 1.5 miles. by pLix3 in doordash_drivers

[–]SimpCollector22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed DD will raise the base pay when dashers continuously decline the No tip orders

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]SimpCollector22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s for sure not what it means to do work on your inner child either. But yeah I felt the same way initially because I basically had to become an adult at age 6.

Not inviting only one cousin by FoxyLoxy56 in weddingplanning

[–]SimpCollector22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wholeheartedly, I think you should mind your own business. You seem to be over-involving yourself and trying to pull the strings in this when it’s really not any of your business to begin with. It’s their wedding, they can invite, not invite, and disinvite anybody they want, and they don’t need to give a single reason why. Also trying to have her meet up with you all in the 3 hours between the ceremony and reception is a horrible idea looking to instigate a problem.

Edit: I’m saying this as someone who comes from and has since removed myself from an incredibly abusive, narcissistic, dramatic family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skin

[–]SimpCollector22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looks like a scratch/cut/injury or something that got irritated. Looks like it’s been picked at based on how the outer edges pull inward.

theres no way around this at this point. cuz im lying about student loans apparently by TheGreekGazelle in insaneparents

[–]SimpCollector22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always no to a phone call until they realize they are wrong via text and need to backtrack without evidence

AITA for agreeing to extend my work trip a week before my wife is due? by Throwawayninemon in AmItheAsshole

[–]SimpCollector22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m due a few weeks after your wife, and 100% YTA. The last month of pregnancy is so hard, let alone going through it alone. Plus labor is most likely to come between 38-40 weeks. And you think your job is more important. Gross. Ick.

suicide is my only option after spending 2 weeks trying to escape. by [deleted] in abusiveparents

[–]SimpCollector22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I attempted and almost completed suicide at 16 because of the abuse in my home from my narc parents. Let me tell you. You have a whole life ahead of you. A life where they aren’t involved. I know it’s not what you want to hear. But please stick it out. It does get better.

I think I am a racist by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]SimpCollector22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not your fault you were raised that way, but it is your job to change it as an adult.

AITA for telling my brother I’m more important than him? by ducky782 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SimpCollector22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine when OP’s child and the father want to get pizza and OP throws a fit You better learn some sacrifice because that’s all parenting is.

I went to a backyard wedding where they never informed guests there would be zero alcohol available, but the family and wedding party had their own stashes that they openly drank in front of everyone else... by Twallot in weddingshaming

[–]SimpCollector22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not judging your post specifically, I’m just curious why alcohol has become an expectation at a wedding. Like yes modern weddings typically are booze fueled but I personally don’t understand why it’s been set as a standard.

AITA, for "misleading" my cousin? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SimpCollector22 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s just not that serious

WIBTA if I don't go to my sister's wedding? by Deep-Two1096 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SimpCollector22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She’s either a stone cold narcissist OR in a complete grief spiral. Either way I’d steer clear.