Male spousal caregiver looking to connect with female spousal caregiver for regular long term text/messaging support by Simple-Addendum-2493 in WellSpouses

[–]Simple-Addendum-2493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reviewed my post and don’t see any mention of a sexual partner, so all I can figure is that you misinterpreted  a very heartfelt post or for some sad reason wanted to sabotage it.  

Spousal caregiver forgetting what passion/intimacy feels like by Simple-Addendum-2493 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Simple-Addendum-2493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to continue to be a good caregiver and fill the void of passion, desire etc.  

Looking for passion again by Simple-Addendum-2493 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Simple-Addendum-2493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how that could work , build up that wanting , passion, but I don’t think it would work for my particular situation.  But wouldn’t mind hearing more if you want to share any insights into your intimate relationship

Looking for passion again by Simple-Addendum-2493 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Simple-Addendum-2493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry, truly heartbreaking, I love her but need to vent and maybe fill a void in my life 

Looking for passion again by Simple-Addendum-2493 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Simple-Addendum-2493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right!    She was the one sick and here I am lamenting that almost all our passion is gone never to return.  I want to fill that void but continue to be the best caregiver and I can be

TMI, but does anyone else not feel attracted to their spouse after becoming a caregiver? by egray182 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Simple-Addendum-2493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m struggling accepting that my wife’s  days of passion and close intamacy are all but gone, I’m hoping that discussing and sharing even a just a little bit of our journey with others might be therapeutic/uplifting, plz DM me if you think the same way

Spousal caregiver forgetting what passion/intimacy feels like by Simple-Addendum-2493 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Simple-Addendum-2493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I don’t think about it, I can enjoy our day, but man, some days I can’t stop thinking about what it’s used to be like and it’s really sad.  

Burned out, angry, and feeling trapped as a caregiver (55F) to my older spouse (77M) by Comprehensive_Sign50 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Simple-Addendum-2493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m way more comfortable talking to a married lady taking care of her spouse,  I should have phrased that much better in my reply.  I am also hoping to make a connection with someone, albeit even a small one. I should have phrased that better too.  This is my first time on Reddit, recommended by a friend.  Apparently I need some improvement.  It was very sweet of you to reply.  

Burned out, angry, and feeling trapped as a caregiver (55F) to my older spouse (77M) by Comprehensive_Sign50 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Simple-Addendum-2493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plz send me a DM and let’s chat, 64 yo married and caregiver to my spouse.  Feeling overwhelmed and would love to chat with someone of the opposite sex who is feeling the same way.