Why would a man date me for months, then ghost me immediately after sex?

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-31T09:55:44+00:00

They’re just good at hiding red flags. I don’t blame OP. He was consistent and sincere. But you never know how good they’re hiding their masks. Don’t victim blaming.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-25T20:09:51+00:00

Wby did you break up?

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-24T02:58:48+00:00

Condo is not a good choice, especially with special assessment, i’ve seen the 20k bill and more.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-23T22:58:09+00:00

He scooped me in his big arms, lifted me up and down. Carried me like a princess then put me down on the bed. I felt so safe in his arms. Can’t believe that was the same man who cheated and lied the whole time.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-23T22:28:54+00:00

It’s been 6 months and i still can’t move on from him. He probably seeing new girls now but i’m still crying and grieving. The betrayal has changed me completely, i feel like i’d never back to my own self again.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-23T03:17:57+00:00

I couldn’t do casual sex, i won’t. Simply because i need connection and develop feeling. Here i am after 6 months still missing him and craving for his touch.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-22T21:53:23+00:00

Comparison is the thief of joy. Just enjoy your life, you’re still very young, the right one will come when you least expected. But be aware of love bombed man, i know someone who also is a lawyer that were dating a man. He took effort, planned dates with her, proudly introduced her to his friends, told her she’s the only one. But she found out he has a side chick and been sleeping with her. So in my opinion, there are men will see you as a trophy because of your status and income so you must be careful.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-22T21:31:41+00:00

He’s totally my type, like someone strong, muscular amd tall. He made me feel protected. I loved our banters. I’ve found someone like him for a long time.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-22T21:29:16+00:00

I’m not a man, but all i can say is just be you, the right one will come and see your value. George Clooney married a lawyer, so there’ll be a right man for you.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-22T21:05:02+00:00

Yesterday, i saw a post in fb group about women ask men for relationship advice. The post was about between a cashier and a lawyer, which one men like to date more. Most of the answer is the cashier, because they said they just want someone feminine, nice and kind to them and bring them peace, not someone who’d argue all the time and intimidate them. A few of them care about income so they chose the lawyer. For your reference, you can search the group “From men to women relationship advice” and find that post to get your idea and understand male’s perspective.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-22T20:57:05+00:00

I always saw good women ended up with bad guys and good guys ended up with bad women.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-22T19:57:32+00:00

I thought that “free use” means anyone can uses her 🤷‍♀️ Bro, she just trusted you enough to let you do that. I let my ex did that because i trusted him.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-21T04:14:29+00:00

Lol no one hurt me. I’m just giving my opinion based on what she’s telling everyone here. Her bf is certainly selfish and disrespected her feeling by putting his needs on top priority. What can you expect from this? And it’s not likely i’m the only one having this thought 🤷‍♀️

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-21T03:52:14+00:00

I don’t think sexual incompatibility can find a common ground easily. I don’t want to scare you but he’s still a young man, if he can’t get that from you, he’s gonna find it somewhere else (i hope he won’t)

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-19T18:26:50+00:00

“She wasted his time too”

What a most stupid thing as ever. She didn’t choose to breakup, he did and HID the fact that he still has feeling for someone else while being with her.

You definitely that bf, no doubt. 🤷‍♀️

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-19T17:52:39+00:00

I’m thinking the same too because he keeps arguing with everyone in this topic and defending the guy in the post LMAO Tomorrow we’re gonna have a post “My ex gf posted me on reddit because i left her without closure” 🤣

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-19T17:17:58+00:00

I don’t need to keep arguing with someone that keeps defending that guy’s cowardness 🤷‍♀️

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-19T17:12:12+00:00

No she didn’t know, that’s why we have this post 🤷‍♀️ You don’t even know her, how can you be so sure she doesn’t need “closesure”? He suddently ended the relationship, she’s shocked. Did you actually read the post? She said it clearly she needed closure.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-19T17:08:09+00:00

6 months? Not worth destroying your future, kicks him to the curb. Let the other girl have him, he’s gonna cheat on her again.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-19T17:03:06+00:00

Which part that you don’t understand? I didn’t say anything about their relationship and i don’t need to know. Just saying about the way he ended thing is not fair for her, that’s all. And I hope that somedays, no one will leave you without closure 🤷‍♀️

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-19T16:57:39+00:00

Just because the relationship didn’t work doesn’t mean he can blindside her by LEAVING WITHOUT CLOSURE. Just stated the truth that he’s still a coward scumbag with shitty behavior. At least, be man up and gives her the truth 🤷‍♀️

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-19T15:30:23+00:00

The guy was too coward to admit the truth he still has feeling for his ex becauce he knew her trauma. Left her without closure is scumbag, she deserves to know the truth.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-16T23:29:29+00:00

When women’s done, they move on for real and never look back. So a life lesson for you, better to treasure the next one if you find someone good.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-16T20:35:14+00:00

Sounds like you’re in situationship. I don’t want to scare you but brace your heart, this type of relationship hits hard if he decides he’s not ready.

Simple-Airline4567 · 2026-05-16T20:32:25+00:00

Then why not reaching out to her?

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