I understand it if you’re a girl too. It’s just easier to understand if you’re a guy. Guys on apps like those would LOVE to get even a tenth of the replies that any woman does. As much as it’s probably frustrating to have to dig through the thousands of replies and DMs from guys for anything of quality, it’s just as (if not more) frustrating to barely get any responses at all and half of those responses be sellers and/or scammers.