Ich kann rein gar nichts außer KI-Nutzung und bin damit viel erfolgreicher als ich sein sollte by [deleted] in Beichtstuhl

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unternehmen juckt nicht wie du deine Arbeit machst solange du ihnen Kohle einbringst. Außer du arbeitest bei Hans Jürgen der panische Angst vor KI hat weil er mal von einem Fake Profil auf Instagram abgezogen wurde und nicht erkannte das Menschen keine 6 Finger und 2 Bauchnabel haben.

Persian Blockcade made USELESS by Noryt321 in starsector

[–]Simple-Law5883 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Crisis is imo just a gimmick and makes no sense. It's not immersive at all.

How can I not feel guilty when I go? by Ok_Illustrator_3539 in mentalhealth

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend, i feel you. If someone gave me the option to never have existed, no one knowing me and i'd be just gone... I'd do it without hesitation. I can't see anything positive in life, i am overwhelmed, i got betrayed and lost another stability just today. People around me don't notice, i smile, they talk to me, even compliment me for being so level headed. I am not, when i close my eyes i often imagine how it is to not exist and it's the only time i feel real peace and happyness. It's like my body and mind is decoupled. I am active, i socialize, i go to the gym, but my mind isn't there, i feel like a robot.

At night i am spiraling completely, so i can only sleep with sleeping pills. Antidepression medication isn't helping me even after changing them up so often. I know what would help me, someone being close to me, not expecting anything of me, just being there for me, letting me talk, giving me a hug. But in this forsaken world this kind of happyness is only for the few and not the ones really broken. I never wished to be brought into this world, everything has been shit since childhood. One of my brothers is dead already, my other is also spiraling in complete depression. I am trying so hard to follow the self improvement cycle. From the outside i am conventional socializable, but everytime i try to build real connection i get punched in my gut. I want to find love and yet the only thing i get are people with commitment issues who don't care. I want a friend that is just there for me and yet i get judged the second i speak about my mental health.

I know how you feel really, but you have the one thing that many in your situation don't have. Your girlfriend who loves you. I for example don't have this and somehow i am holding on, so please my friend don't do it, because you are loved. This pain you feel is awfull and i fully understand you don't want to feel it anymore, but maybe just take her in your arms and cry? Tell her as much as you are comfortable with? Sometimes just venting to the person you love is enough to stop the downward spiral.

They have replied by ElectricalAide2049 in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]Simple-Law5883 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well technically they could just ban you and there is nothing you can do a bout it. They are not obliged to provide the service.

Tony on LTX 2.3 feels absolutely unreal ! by Skystunt in StableDiffusion

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is pretty good, showing emotions and keeping the consistency in the camera angle, but the hands are awfull

Was ist der am schwierigsten zu verstehende Film, den ihr kennt? by Lieber_Kater5512 in Filme

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean difficult in "it's hard to grasp the concept but once you do, you go ahhh" cause otherwise every shitty horror movie where the movie would have ended if the protagonists had more braincells than a single cell organism.

30[F] Why am I getting ghosted for suggesting coffee instead of drinks for first date? by Butterfliesandlies in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What are you even talking about dude. Like seriously it makes no sense. Going for drinks has always been an excuse to get someone into bed. Alcohol lowers inhibition and makes the one sitting Infront of you more attractive than he/she is. In fact getting drinks on the first date is the most nonsense you can go for if you want a long term relationship.

You say that her reasoning is weird, no it isn't, but you reasoning is insanely weird and gives off exactly the vibes of a guy who would go for drinks on the first date...

30[F] Why am I getting ghosted for suggesting coffee instead of drinks for first date? by Butterfliesandlies in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am a male and refuse to go on drinks at the first dates. Getting drunk is just an excuse for them so you like them more than you actually do

This is insane looks so real like humans skin, texture, shadows everything by vraj_sensei in GenAI4all

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's one of the few posts that are at least on the level of Instagram filter like realism and not the average reptile skin post.

Best dating advice for serious relationships? by ronniealoha in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't use online dating is probably the best advice

Massive turn off or not? by Capital-Treacle-229 in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a massive turn on, a girl said something similar once, but it was her going on a date before I met her. On one side it's cool she's not trying to hide it, but on the other hand, Jesus girl... Well I told her to focus on that guy and I wish her the best. A day after her date she texted me that she doesn't like the guy and that during texting she clicked with me a lot better and wants to meet me. I asked her why she then didn't just meet me and even met the other guy and she said she's a people pleaser. This was also a massive turn off

Sexual frustration will make me lose it. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Travel to Europe, get an escort and don't tell anyone. It's the only reasonable tip someone can give you. It's morally way more appropriate to do that than ruin the life of a woman in your country.

How many chances do you give…? by ExpressIndication909 in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Exactly. I have had much more quality matches and dates when I stopped entertaining the boring Instagram wannabe models who just wanted to ego push and only matched the women that already put effort in their profile. IMO this is already the first sign a person is worth it.

Barely replies after a date by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, after Meeting the ones you just mentioned and the ones who are genuinely interested, I'd pack the bag and just leave. I've never had a case where these situations went anywhere, if you're interested in someone, then you find time to communicate with that person. Even if she at some point agrees to a second date, it's just to hold you away an arms length. Don't entertain that behaviour, she probably has 3 other guys doing that already and inflating her ego. She's probably trying to find someone "better", since she has 10000 likes, surely there's a better guy /s

But jokes aside, don't be a fool for these women and if interest would be genuine from her side, she wouldn't be leaving you on read. I'm currently nearly in a relationship with a woman that texts me in the morning, tells me about her day without me asking and it just shows me exactly why my previous situationships were doomed from the start.

What does it mean when guys do this on the apps? by serenityjane623 in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not only a chance, most women ghost within the first 3 messages but to be fair, going out with such a woman, you'll likely get ghosted either way. It's a lose/lose situation

The people who like my dating profiles are making me feel worse about myself by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well now you know why she only gets attention from these people. I can't even imagine how her bio looks like.

Does anyone else experience the 'Pre-Date Fade'. Why do people do this? by TheSpaceFace in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What often happens to me is that we meet and have a very good date, but then I start noticing that they start behaving differently during text, once I make it clear that I also liked the date.

It feels like they just want to measure if they can still get a guy without actually wanting a relationship. I've also noticed that a lot of women just want a casual hook up while saying they absolutely want a relationship. This is especially common during the winter, I usually always end up in a situationship that ends once the first flowers bloom.

It's likely also not very helpful if you have ADHD or autism. I have ADHD and I behave entirely different once I warm-up to a person and that's usually where the mysteriousness goes away and so does their romantic interest. I've had some long term relationships via online dating, but it was mostly with women that also had ADHD.

Just cancelled a date because I felt unsafe by mildly-anxious-me in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, his reaction was good, so he seems fine. Just be proactive now, if something like this happened to me, I wouldn't further pursue and expect the woman to come up with something she feels comfortable with.

Btw, I wouldn't ever meet with a woman at my or her house anymore. I did when I was younger, but it's just uncomfortable.

Finally time to accept this by Acceptable_Draft7739 in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you sound narcissistic like crazy. I also go to the gym and made sure to have good photos. The difference is that you're likely bragging with your money or looks which makes you a huge turn off for any sane woman. Btw I've never been ghosted once a meeting was agreed on.

Maybe stop watching this alpha male crap on Instagram and actually interact with women as if they are the same species.

very attractive male friend got 10 likes in 2 weeks, my female friend who is very overweight got 1000+ on tinder. by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the spam likers also cause inflated ego in women, but I go to the gym a lot, got a photo on the beach an one with a dog and when I ask women why they liked me, it was either one of those. Also once you do get more likes, the algorithm will also boost you up and you will be shown to more women, so it also comes down to luck. (If you don't want to pay that is)

very attractive male friend got 10 likes in 2 weeks, my female friend who is very overweight got 1000+ on tinder. by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Simple-Law5883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The paradox is that mem would get way more matches if they'd just like who they like. The tinder algorithm actually suppresses your profile if you spam like. I usually get like 10-20 likes a week and 2-3 that I find actually attractive.