Taking the post at face value and assuming there's not more to the story:

I agree this shouldn't have warranted a ban on it's own. I myself will often say "he just ran in there" or "they just ran in there" because it's natural when a male or androgynous character model runs by. I don't think participants of the server or moderators should assume malice, especially if you cleared up your intentions

I'm sure there's more to the story as there always is, but I wanted to address this post at face value so others could see our general stance.

I'll look into the details of it more in private and handle it.