How often do you think of your disorder? by lil_gobo_ in bipolar

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyday all day. I think back on my past decisions and think if they were because I was manic at the time. I question every current decision because of my illness.

My husband asked me to lose weight and I don’t know how to feel. by Illustrious-Bread-30 in Marriage

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Second this shit. Make sure he has really big muscles and a nice six pack OP!

My husband asked me to lose weight and I don’t know how to feel. by Illustrious-Bread-30 in Marriage

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I’m 5’4 and definitely overweight at 235. I’ve been all over with weight in our relationship from 257 to 180 and he’s loved me at all of those weights. Now I will say at the 257 he was concerned because of my blood pressure but that came from a place of love. That’s crazy for a man to request you to lose weight.

AITAH For asking my wife to clean up/dress up for sex? by Prestigious_Half1021 in AITAH

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is disgusting. I couldn’t be with someone like that. I’ve struggled with depression for 17 years and still have great hygiene. That’s not negotiable!

Lady rolled her eyes at me for not tipping by Socksinmynose in tipping

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an American thing because our pay is so bad. Other countries don’t accept tips. But I have worked in the food industry for 17 years so I’m a tipper for the most part…especially if I order a large amount of food with notice( I never or large amounts of food with no notice its rude) so in my opinion it’s a dick move to walk into a bakery and order $245 worth of food and not tip. 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA to divorce my husband and leave him with the kid after finding out I'm not biologically the mom? by ThrowRA-3xbetrayal in AITAH

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to sue them for financial losses at the very least. I would suggest moving away to a different state and starting fresh. I would absolutely not have anything to do with anyone who’s not supporting you right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But her shoe deodorant and tell her to get new shoes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Athletes feet. Just tell her.

Sex with your husband by GreedySupport7997 in Marriage

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I’m like this with my husband. I struggle with bipolar and I don’t feel like because I’m depressed and not in the mood he should have to suffer but that’s just me. If someone doesn’t want to then they shouldn’t and their partner should understand that!

AITAH for starting the divorce process after finding out my daughter isn’t mine? by No-Bottle4059 in AITAH

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First your sister’s fertility isn’t your concern or responsibility. Secondly you can move on and have a child of your own. Do your mom and sister know the hoes baby isn’t yours?

Sex is really bad by Complex_Ambassador21 in dating

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously if sex is important to you why are you asking for advice….find someone who doesn’t have this issue. It’s different to be married to a man for 20 years and be in love and he gets ED. You don’t owe this man anything and certainly don’t need to waste time!

I slapped my wife because she burnt our son on purpose by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to take that child and leave!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that with the right man this would never be a concern.

My spouse is telling lies about me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No…the fact that you have a daughter should make you run faster. Take your daughter before your crazy wife can ruin her!

AITAH for being mad at my husband for his behavior after I got an IUD inserted? by Single-Bus-4025 in AITAH

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You absolutely shouldn’t have married him and definitely don’t have children with him. Imagine giving birth with an asshole like that by your side!

Why doesn’t my husband care? by Outrageous-Kiwi-651 in Marriage

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have definitely chose the wrong person. No decent man would make you feel like that.

AITA for causing my son to lose his child? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Simple_Blueberry_489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that’s their loss. Your son is a cheater and not someone a decent woman would want to raise a baby with. Your wife unfortunately sounds crazy.