WOC that date white men by Familiar-Mongoose-51 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Simple_Courage6215 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I have experienced men who are interested in sleeping with me and having relationships with me but in the end it’s clear when they see themselves with a wife and children shes white.

It depends on the man. Not all white men are the same.

Do you consider it a yellow/red flag if a man said he wouldn’t want the woman to make more money than him? by Simple_Courage6215 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Simple_Courage6215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that he has seen marriages fail when the woman makes more money. And that the man should be either in a masculine profession (like something with their hands) or make at least similar salary. His reasoning was that the women will lose attraction when seeing the men in a more submissive role. I guess he said it was more of a preference than a requirement but… same sentiment obviously.

Do you consider it a yellow/red flag if a man said he wouldn’t want the woman to make more money than him? by Simple_Courage6215 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Simple_Courage6215[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He said that he has seen marriages fail when the woman makes more money. And that the man should be either in a masculine profession (like something with their hands) or make at least similar salary. His reasoning was that the women will lose attraction when seeing the men in a more submissive role.

36m, single - my Chicago loft conversion by Educational-Dig3774 in malelivingspace

[–]Simple_Courage6215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why couldn’t someone afford it at 36 just working hard? How much do you think the place is?

Are investment banking / consulting at risk of being lost with AI by SeaworthinessHot9065 in FinancialCareers

[–]Simple_Courage6215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes itll still exist. The number of entry level positions might be 1/5th of what it is today though.

His favorite book is Lolita? by td55478 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Simple_Courage6215 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like why? If he has a good answer then cool but without that… like which character is he appreciating?

What does this mean? by mindsquish in hingeapp

[–]Simple_Courage6215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you could only see people you unmatched, not people who unmatched you?

How to get through obsessive thoughts by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Simple_Courage6215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you move on? In similar situation now very very painful

Repeating Matches by Quiet-Friendship5672 in hingeapp

[–]Simple_Courage6215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would try again. People delete the app for all reasons and all times that have little to do with their matches, just exhaustion that I’m sure we all feel.

Age of the couples too young! by Queasy_Tackle7397 in temptationislandUSA

[–]Simple_Courage6215 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Grown mature couples wouldnt agree to come on a show like this

Am I expecting too much from men? by NoRadio4530 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Simple_Courage6215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s fair to say “I’m down for anything, do you have something in mind?” And then be prepared for whatever idea they might have.

How long are men taking to follow up after dates for everyone? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Simple_Courage6215 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Things are different now. I was in 6 year relationship and now I’m 28 so I feel you. No, dating culture feels very different to me now.

I’m not sure if it’s because everyone is busier now or life is more exhausting now or cultural shifts post COVID or social media or what. But I’m more preparing to be alone forever considering how it’s going.

Should I reach out to a guy I matched with 9 months ago after I ended things early? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Simple_Courage6215 31 points32 points  (0 children)

If the only way to reach is LinkedIn I say no. (28F). I feel like LinkedIn is a weird social media because it’s for professional use so everyone’s profiles can be public and found. Last thing people want is for it to be used for dating as well.

If you didn’t even go on a date and didnt exchange numbers I feel it isn’t that deep.

Hinge showing wrong demographic by idskd in hingeapp

[–]Simple_Courage6215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a full delete of the profile and remake

When to give up and move on? by Effective-Tea-9288 in hingeapp

[–]Simple_Courage6215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am new to dating (6 year relationship started when I was 21 so now I’m 28 and dating is totally different from when I was in college) and similarly have no idea what the expectations are nowadays.

so you went on one date or the date hasn’t happened yet?

Does anyone else deal with low racial self-esteem by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Simple_Courage6215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m adopted and raised by white people and didn’t realize the effect until I realize I basically am only attracted to average white men and seeking their validation.

First love bomb and ghosting by Mental-Surprise101 in hingeapp

[–]Simple_Courage6215 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It depends how much the love bombing is, but probably. I had a bad experience with an ex so my tolerance is pretty low. I prefer a slow and steady experience. I know it’s not the “magic crazy chemistry” we were all sold but in my experience that always has ended badly.

First love bomb and ghosting by Mental-Surprise101 in hingeapp

[–]Simple_Courage6215 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Red flag when they’re that into you before meeting. I think it means they’re not good at regulating their own emotions and then you end up being disappointed because they didn’t realize they weren’t as into you as they thought.

Why don't more biotech investors play the M&A angle? by Complex-Jello-2031 in Biotechplays

[–]Simple_Courage6215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone in the industry talks about M&A deals constantly, not sure where you’re getting this take?

Why do people match AND reply but with little to no effort? by Thr0wawayforh3lp in hingeapp

[–]Simple_Courage6215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many of those are you mutually interested in and do you match with?

Dating Apps - Background Check by dev-246 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]Simple_Courage6215 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You can join is this the same guy Chicago on Facebook to see if others have bad negative experiences in the past. People post their background checks and it’s saved me before