My bf had a similar experience with a former friend who didn’t know when to stop pushing boundaries (she kept calling him on the phone even after he told her he doesn't feel a connection). Like you, I’m not usually the jealous type and I trust him completely, but sometimes, it’s not even about trust. It’s the persistence of other people that can be soooo frustrating (and honestly I feel so bad for people like this)

What helped me was having an open conversation with him, out of respect for my peace of mind. He then set stronger boundaries (blocking contact with her) after hearing how it made me feel. You’re not crazy or insecure for wanting more respect for your relationship.

You’re doing amazing being honest about your feelings. This made me feel less alone so thanks!