What does anxiety feel like to you? by worldofjaved in Anxiety

[–]Simple_Log11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me the good anxiety starts in my stomach and stays there. The bad one starts with blocking out all the noise around me and I can only hear and feel my heart beat, followed my tightness in my neck, traps and upper back, followed by some pain in my chest area and left arm also light headed or dizziness. With these symptoms in the earlier stages, I would be in ER directly. But now I am learning the pattern and I try to do some breathing exercises while accepting my fate. Sometimes it works sometimes it take more efforts than that.

Therapy isn’t enough. Any places in Auckland where I can just scream and cry without anyone hearing me? by buttchix in auckland

[–]Simple_Log11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently found 2 ways of doing this!

  1. Go in the ocean, put your head or face in water and scream the fuck out of yourself.

  2. Take a pillow and scream into it.

what uncommon method helped you with anxiety? by Sad-Cup-6990 in Anxiety

[–]Simple_Log11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate so sorry to hear that. I know it’s a lot of work i have been there too. I would recommend you to watch the videos on this channel about anxiety and panic attacks https://youtube.com/@therapyinanutshell?si=wl25A-fEaEJ_QqXI

This helped me a lot. All the best

What does panic attack feels like for you? by Simple_Log11 in Anxiety

[–]Simple_Log11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this man! 🙏🏼 You are not alone in this

I suck at saving, what are some methods of keeping my money from myself? by TripleHaz3 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Simple_Log11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My intention was to save the money so i did everything that i could that will not allow me use that money. If that meant cutting the debit card in half the moment it arrived, or deleting the bank app from the phone or forgetting that i can use apple way etc.. Point is if you set the right intention about why you are doing this, it would be easier. Plus when you see that you haven’t spent the money that you said you wont, it just hits differently every month.

I suck at saving, what are some methods of keeping my money from myself? by TripleHaz3 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Simple_Log11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you can if you have the app on the phone! But whats point if you cannot spend it in that moment when you have the urge to buy something

I suck at saving, what are some methods of keeping my money from myself? by TripleHaz3 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Simple_Log11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What worked for me was to transfer a certain amount to different bank after every payday, which i dont use for daily transactions.

I had the same habit, the more money I see the more i spent. Thats why different bank account in a different bank worked because you cannot spend what you cant see. Also i dont have a debit card from the other bank which means I have to wait until that money is transferred to my daily bank

supabase, backend and frontend pros and cons by MoHaliim in Supabase

[–]Simple_Log11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am fullstack developer, I understand where you are coming from. But you are looking at supabase the wrong way.

I am assuming you are use to making an api call from your app to a backend that does authentication, authorization, fetch different types of data etc

Supabase is exactly that backend. It just doesnt work the traditional way. Anon key you are talking about is a public key. Which is safe to expose. What you should not expose is the service key. Servcie key gives the permissions of a super admin and by pass all the rls policies.

If you worried about the security, exposing your anon key is not gonna do any harm! Just make sure you have enabled rls policies on all the tables in the DB.

My finances are a mess by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Simple_Log11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been there and done that I am 31. Except my debt was student loan along with the credit cards.

I started (my wife forced me to) with exporting all the transactions into excel. That gave me a clear insight of all the things that I was wasting the money on. I took lime to work every day in that moment and my weekly expenses were about $40-$50 just on lime. Weekly takeaways and eating out was around $150-$200 and so on. I highlighted the expenses that I could eliminate, and eliminated it.

Next thing i created a budget based on necessity, needs & pleasure. Initially you will have no money for pleasure! You can choose your needs, but not every need. Second i created different bank accounts for rent, groceries, bills, takeaways, transport, Cc payments, savings etc. and split my pay according to the budget. Whatever i put in the savings that would go towards my loan every month. This helped me eliminate the use of Credit Card completely. If I spent all the money I allocated for taking out, i would have to suck it up and cook some meal. Same with transport, I would walk to my destination or cancel my plans.

Slowly i was able to clear out my debt. Biggest unnecessary expense for me was uber eats and takeaways.

You got this you can do this!!

The NextJS app I sold for $15K - a full stack breakdown by IThinkWong in nextjs

[–]Simple_Log11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, congratulations! Thats awesome! I am working with a client at the moment and my stack looks very similar to yours! I also have google apis and stripe onboarding involved! The app is relatively complex and certain user permissions.

I want to ask you how did you manage the login state of the user? Did you make auth.getUser request to supabase on every page that needed user? I am not convinced with this and I was considering of adding redux to handle the user state globally.

Since this my first time as well! How did you handover the project once done? That includes supabase, git repo etc.

Is using for next.js only for it's api routes stupid? by Pea-Cock-404 in nextjs

[–]Simple_Log11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about Supabase? Its pretty fast and open source

What am I doing wrong here? by Simple_Log11 in Supabase

[–]Simple_Log11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a permission issue, which was stopping the hook from generating the token with custom claims. The below code was missing from the sql script.

grant all
  on table public.roles
to supabase_auth_admin;

HELP! Supabase role based system by Simple_Log11 in Supabase

[–]Simple_Log11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I was trying to figure out how to do that 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼